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By *redy81Man
over a year ago
London |
I think these sorts of parties only work as "black men's fun club". Just quick browsing on women and couple profiles shows you that black boys are lucky to be very popular among swinger girls. I'm not sure if it would work "businesswise" to organize "Asian Men's FC" or "white men FC". The latter could even lead to some other kind of storm too...
Your idea could rather work if promoted as "Bollywood Swinger Party - Not only for Asians!" or something like that. I think everyone who feels especially attracted to Asians will get what's this party about.
I, as a white man who is a huge fan of beautiful Indian women, would definitely attend, even travel for a party like that. 
... I mean, I hope you don't mind if it's not only about men but the fans of Asian women will be there too! |
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By *rfunMan
over a year ago
Southampton |
"I think these sorts of parties only work as "black men's fun club". Just quick browsing on women and couple profiles shows you that black boys are lucky to be very popular among swinger girls. I'm not sure if it would work "businesswise" to organize "Asian Men's FC" or "white men FC". The latter could even lead to some other kind of storm too...
Your idea could rather work if promoted as "Bollywood Swinger Party - Not only for Asians!" or something like that. I think everyone who feels especially attracted to Asians will get what's this party about.
I, as a white man who is a huge fan of beautiful Indian women, would definitely attend, even travel for a party like that.
... I mean, I hope you don't mind if it's not only about men but the fans of Asian women will be there too!"
not sure why White Man's Fan Club would have they have Black Man Fan Club ... cannot have it both ways |
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By *redy81Man
over a year ago
London |
"not sure why White Man's Fan Club would have they have Black Man Fan Club ... cannot have it both ways "
In an ideal world, it could work both ways without any problem. In today's world, some over-sensitive idiots would shout racism and I bet such an event like WMFC would hit the news as a sign of discrimination or promotion of "white supremacy"...
Also not sure if it would be worth it to do that business-wise. My fabswingers-experience (browsing female and couple's profiles) says that no other ethnicity is half as popular among women of other colours as black guys. So the BMFC parties are an answer to the demand of the marker - which is absolutely okay. |
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By *redy81Man
over a year ago
London |
"We need to see who's interested in the idea of it first before planning anything. "
I'm afraid it won't work like this, starting from the forum... I think it would be a better chance if a couple would start to organize it, sending direct messages to Asian couples (you have a better chance to get a response as a couple) and if there are enough people interested, they should go and talk to a club who could host the party.
Btw, a couple of weeks ago Radlett Parties had a Bollywood weekend, sadly I heard about it only the following week, otherwise, I would have gone for sure! |
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By *redy81Man
over a year ago
London |
"We need to see who's interested in the idea of it first before planning anything. "
But anyway what do you hope from this party? If you want to play particularly with white or black girls, your situation is easy: you can go to any party and if they like you, they will play with you!  First of all, they need to be a "fan" of you to play with you, not only your race.
I'm looking at this idea from the other side: Indian girls are rarely to be found in clubs, especially as single girls. So a Bollywood party that attracts them sounds great to me!  |
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Having arranged many, many parties in clubs and my home and even more group socials I can clearly tell you that you have to organise it first, advertise the arse out of it, canvass for it and as the organiser, expect not to get laid.
Parties are not the way to get yourself a fuck.
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By *redy81Man
over a year ago
London |
"Having arranged many, many parties in clubs and my home and even more group socials I can clearly tell you that you have to organise it first, advertise the arse out of it, canvass for it and as the organiser, expect not to get laid.
Parties are not the way to get yourself a fuck.
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Very true. I never organized a swinger party but was thinking about this, if I was a host or a club owner, I think my chances would be even lower to play than I have as a regular guest. Even if I liked someone I'm not sure if I could initiate something, coz if she doesn't like me, I can bring her into an awkward situation how to reject the host politely, which can kill her mood in general. Trying on someone as a host could make me look as if I think they owe me something for the invitation... Which is definitely a situation to avoid.
Also don't think it's a good idea of organizing a party that is specialized in the admiration of "my kind of people" whatever "my kind" means. If the "Asian Men Fan Club" party will ever happen, it should be organized by females, I think.
Though I'm still happy to offer my help if anyone wants to organize an "Asian Women's Fan Club" party! (which of course will attract Asian men and those women of all races who like Asian men too, so can be a win-win) |
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Spot on - you got to know why you arranged the party, are you doing it for business purpose, making money out of it, or just inviting people to your premises for free to give them safe space to play. Set right rules from the onset, don’t try to over convince the people. Have an open mindset. You got to think about building trust first. |
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"Having arranged many, many parties in clubs and my home and even more group socials I can clearly tell you that you have to organise it first, advertise the arse out of it, canvass for it and as the organiser, expect not to get laid.
Parties are not the way to get yourself a fuck.
Very true. I never organized a swinger party but was thinking about this, if I was a host or a club owner, I think my chances would be even lower to play than I have as a regular guest. Even if I liked someone I'm not sure if I could initiate something, coz if she doesn't like me, I can bring her into an awkward situation how to reject the host politely, which can kill her mood in general. Trying on someone as a host could make me look as if I think they owe me something for the invitation... Which is definitely a situation to avoid.
Also don't think it's a good idea of organizing a party that is specialized in the admiration of "my kind of people" whatever "my kind" means. If the "Asian Men Fan Club" party will ever happen, it should be organized by females, I think.
Though I'm still happy to offer my help if anyone wants to organize an "Asian Women's Fan Club" party! (which of course will attract Asian men and those women of all races who like Asian men too, so can be a win-win)"
I spend my time as host doing host stuff! Mostly, I got a little bit of play when the party was over and me and a friend would go hide together.
I like your idea of a Bollywood party though, that would set lovely expectations. |
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"I like your idea of a Bollywood party though, that would set lovely expectations.
Let's do it then! We already have an experienced party host who likes the idea, I think it's a better start than we could hope for! "
Not me I'm afraid, not only have I retired from this scene, I'm in the heating or eating category; I can't afford to see my family let alone sort a party out! |
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