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Chams darlaston 8th/9th April
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By *ndiePairCouple
over a year ago
Beaconsfield |
We are planning on coming along on Friday or Saturday for our second visit. Our first visit in January far exceeded our expectations as first timers, so looking forward to meeting lots of new people  |
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"We are planning on coming along on Friday or Saturday for our second visit. Our first visit in January far exceeded our expectations as first timers, so looking forward to meeting lots of new people "
Come on Saturday!! It's gonna be a blast!! X |
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over a year ago
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"First time attending this weekend! Nervous is an understatement 
You'll love it "
That’s what everyone says but I can’t help it, what do I wear, what shoes, make up ahhhhhh |
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"First time attending this weekend! Nervous is an understatement
You'll love it
That’s what everyone says but I can’t help it, what do I wear, what shoes, make up ahhhhhh "
Wear some kick ass lingerie and some comfy shoes, there are carpeted stairs which can be hard to negotiate in heels lol x I wear feather slippers and the floors can get wet at times too lol x it's awesome there!! Come on Saturday!! X |
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Keep us updated.
We want to go as a couple but both nervous.
Talked about it lots but always found an excuse not to get in the car to go. Lol.
Yes even the what to wear is a big question .
Thanks for comment below about what to put on feet lol.
What's sexy and practical ... God your mind goes into overload . |
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"Keep us updated.
We want to go as a couple but both nervous.
Talked about it lots but always found an excuse not to get in the car to go. Lol.
Yes even the what to wear is a big question .
Thanks for comment below about what to put on feet lol.
What's sexy and practical ... God your mind goes into overload ."
Honestly guys don't over think it x treat it as a night out, have no expectations and just enjoy being there and only play if you want to x everyone is very friendly and respectful, no means no, staff are amazing it's like a family x there are people who regularly go and know each other, this can be viewed as clicky but its really not because all the regulars will talk to anyone x wear some lingerie that youre comfy in and I only ever wear flat feathery slippers as I'm really clumsy and already 5ft 9 lol so in heels I'm amazonian!! There's a hott ub you can chill in, a sauna, a sun bed etc etc x there's zero pressure x if it's your first time I'd deffo go on a Saturday to find your feet x
We saw a couple last week where they were on the carpark for ages talking and you could see the lady was nervous and before I could be Nosey and chat to them to alay any fears they drove off, it's such a shame as its simply not what you think x it's not seedy, it's not full of old men, it's not all super models x I can't recommend it enough x x any q's just pm us x hope you make it to experience your first club cus chams is the best one x |
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"Keep us updated.
We want to go as a couple but both nervous.
Talked about it lots but always found an excuse not to get in the car to go. Lol.
Yes even the what to wear is a big question .
Thanks for comment below about what to put on feet lol.
What's sexy and practical ... God your mind goes into overload .
Honestly guys don't over think it x treat it as a night out, have no expectations and just enjoy being there and only play if you want to x everyone is very friendly and respectful, no means no, staff are amazing it's like a family x there are people who regularly go and know each other, this can be viewed as clicky but its really not because all the regulars will talk to anyone x wear some lingerie that youre comfy in and I only ever wear flat feathery slippers as I'm really clumsy and already 5ft 9 lol so in heels I'm amazonian!! There's a hott ub you can chill in, a sauna, a sun bed etc etc x there's zero pressure x if it's your first time I'd deffo go on a Saturday to find your feet x
We saw a couple last week where they were on the carpark for ages talking and you could see the lady was nervous and before I could be Nosey and chat to them to alay any fears they drove off, it's such a shame as its simply not what you think x it's not seedy, it's not full of old men, it's not all super models x I can't recommend it enough x x any q's just pm us x hope you make it to experience your first club cus chams is the best one x "
Everything these guys have said xx |
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By *ndiePairCouple
over a year ago
Beaconsfield |
It will only be our second time in a club on Friday, and the first time we came to Chams in January we were both really nervous.
Everyone was so friendly though and we felt at ease as soon as we walked in. We were given a very quick tour/introduction from staff but I'd recommend a drink in the bar first and then just try to get chatting to someone and ask them to give you a tour of the place from their point of view.
It's easier for guys to know what to wear, but for women definitely wear something that's sexy but more importantly something that you're comfortable in. It may soon come off anyway!!
Don't chicken out, it's one of the best things we've done as a couple and we wanted to come back sooner.
Really looking forward to meeting lots of first timers and old hands on Friday. I'm the curly haired guy in red shorts - I don't know what my partner in crime is wearing yet! |
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By *ebLotsCouple
over a year ago
coventry |
"First time for us on a weekend ?? both nervous too ??
Youve been before tho right? Just not on a busy weekend? X it's the same just a bit more eye candy to look at lol x you'll be fine!! X "
Yes we’ve been several times. I say nervous, but in the sense of guessing more established members go. But yes as you quote posted just going to treat it as a good night out, no expectations really. Undoubtedly you’ll see ‘S’ swinging on the pole singing his head off ?? |
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We went a few weeks ago for our first time, Saturday night and found the staff really good. Met a couple of couples and had a really good chat with them. Ended up just playing by ourselves in the hot tub with an audience however.
But..what is the deal with all the couples silently sitting in the downstairs area? Not even smiling or talking, or even with another couple. Just backs to the wall staring blankly around. We tried to be outgoing but it was very off putting. |
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This was our second time of going and still lack confidence whilst we will chat to anyone it’s that initial icebreaker we are trying to get over, having the courage to just go up to someone and say hello x |
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"This was our second time of going and still lack confidence whilst we will chat to anyone it’s that initial icebreaker we are trying to get over, having the courage to just go up to someone and say hello x"
What's the worst that could happen?? X x |
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