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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I really want to go to a club with my fella but I am a bit unsure whether anyone would wanna do anything with me? I have a vision of everyone being picture perfect. Has anyone else felt similiar?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really want to go to a club with my fella but I am a bit unsure whether anyone would wanna do anything with me? I have a vision of everyone being picture perfect. Has anyone else felt similiar?
Z"
Low self confidence is such a bummer
Even the picture perfect have their insecurities
Clubs are a mix of the the beautiful, the average and the not so beautiful.
Remember tho, beauty isn't static.
It represents itself in a unique way to each and every one of us.
Straighten your back, hold your head up, take a deep breath and go and jump in ! |
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We felt this way the first time we visited a club, expecting it to be full of supermodels and 6 packs (which neither of us are)
We were pleasantly surprised to find it was inhabited by normal people of all ages and shapes, we were a bit shy but grasped the moment and had a really fun relaxed time,
And if your pics are anything to go by we'd certainly do 'stuff' with you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just go for it xx
we felt the same but boy were we wrong x
All the normal people talk and have fun.... while all the super models sit in the corner looking in mirrors...  |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
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"I really want to go to a club with my fella but I am a bit unsure whether anyone would wanna do anything with me? I have a vision of everyone being picture perfect. Has anyone else felt similiar?
Z"
As a single bloke I know exactly the kind of feelings you describe. Having looked at your profile all I would say is that it would be an honour to spend some time with you both. |
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All the clubs we have been to, which is quite a few, have a wide range of ages, sizes and colours, pretty much like walking round the local supermarket. Conversation is the key thing in a club and only once in 10 years have I ever heard a bad comment about the way someone looks and that was about a woman who looked stunning but all she did all night was parade around and never talked to anyone. Having said that it is each to their own and if that is what she wanted to do then that is her choice. Clubs are a really great non judgemental places in our opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im a very big girl and never feel self conscious in clubs due to how much positive male and female attention I get.
Plus I love friendly smiley faces and good conversation, much more of a turn on than a great bod  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really want to go to a club with my fella but I am a bit unsure whether anyone would wanna do anything with me? I have a vision of everyone being picture perfect. Has anyone else felt similiar?
Z"
Having looked at the pics on your profile, I would of thought it would be more a case of wondering who wouldn't want to do sonething with you
Having been to plenty of clubs, the vast majority of people fall into the 'normal' range, whatever that might be lol. You get allsorts at clubs, which is a great reason for going. If I chat to people it's a good niight for me, anything else is a bonus  |
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Well CuriousnLooking I notice from your profile your going to a club this weekend, I wonder which one you've selected and which night your going.
As for being nervous, so many people feel this whether they are single or part of a couple, but almost all clubs are the same in that the staff will welcome you as newcomeres especially if you tell them it's your first visit to a club. They'll show you round and then chat to you.
At some pint you'll wander off to have a look round the place and after that you'll either take a big leap and join in, select another couple/girl/guy and go to a private room for some fun, go to a private room alone for some fun and simply take it all in and go home and have fun.
If you liked it enough you'll come back for more and if not you won't.
Many though become regulars of one club, but I'd suggest trying out a few and trying them out a couple of times and then you'll truely get a feel of the place.
Final thought is, be open and chat to people, don't be shy about saying what you'd like and you never know you may get what you want. |
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