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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We're sure this has probably been asked before, but we'll ask again anyway!
We've been to a naturist spa with a "play area" in the back a few times and enjoyed it, mainly for the no-pressure atmosphere. If we want to play, it's there but no-one is "expecting" it. We're now thinking of making the move up to a swingers club but have a couple of bits we're unsure about:-
Is it "expected" that we'll be playing because it's a swingers club.
How does it work with being dressed in the bar and not in the play areas? Do people keep getting changed back and forth?
Any thoughts and advice welcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're sure this has probably been asked before, but we'll ask again anyway!
We've been to a naturist spa with a "play area" in the back a few times and enjoyed it, mainly for the no-pressure atmosphere. If we want to play, it's there but no-one is "expecting" it. We're now thinking of making the move up to a swingers club but have a couple of bits we're unsure about:-
Is it "expected" that we'll be playing because it's a swingers club.
How does it work with being dressed in the bar and not in the play areas? Do people keep getting changed back and forth?
Any thoughts and advice welcome."
all swinging clubs are the same by that i meen its upto you if you want to play and if you feel pressured into playing report it to a member of staff they will sort it other than that just relax and enjoy yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're sure this has probably been asked before, but we'll ask again anyway!
We've been to a naturist spa with a "play area" in the back a few times and enjoyed it, mainly for the no-pressure atmosphere. If we want to play, it's there but no-one is "expecting" it. We're now thinking of making the move up to a swingers club but have a couple of bits we're unsure about:-
Is it "expected" that we'll be playing because it's a swingers club.
How does it work with being dressed in the bar and not in the play areas? Do people keep getting changed back and forth?
Any thoughts and advice welcome.
all swinging clubs are the same by that i meen its upto you if you want to play and if you feel pressured into playing report it to a member of staff they will sort it other than that just relax and enjoy yourself"
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack! |
"We're sure this has probably been asked before, but we'll ask again anyway!
We've been to a naturist spa with a "play area" in the back a few times and enjoyed it, mainly for the no-pressure atmosphere. If we want to play, it's there but no-one is "expecting" it. We're now thinking of making the move up to a swingers club but have a couple of bits we're unsure about:-
Is it "expected" that we'll be playing because it's a swingers club.
How does it work with being dressed in the bar and not in the play areas? Do people keep getting changed back and forth?
Any thoughts and advice welcome."
Suggest you try one of the sauna type clubs like Chameleons Darlaston. Being a sauna type club means you can wear as much or as little as possible as long as it isn`t street clothes! Towels seem to be the norm although shorts are acceptable for guys and underwear etc. for the ladies is totally acceptable too! They also do nude nights too! As others have said, it`s still a non-pressure situation and you are under no compulsion to join in at all. |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
closer than you think |
Can only re-affirm what previous people have said .... even at a swingers club there is no pressure to play.
We go to Kestrels which is a Naturist Spa but on certain nights after 6pm it changes into Abfabs. Usually you will find that the people who have been at Kestrels will remain in towels or if they do change wear very minimal clothing  |
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