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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
Swingers club wise Le Boudoir is the only real option, although there is also Rio's in nearby Kentish Town it has a bit of a "reputation" so check carefully first!
If all you want is naked people there are plenty of strip clubs and pubs nearby. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Swingers club wise Le Boudoir is the only real option, although there is also Rio's in nearby Kentish Town it has a bit of a "reputation" so check carefully first!
If all you want is naked people there are plenty of strip clubs and pubs nearby."
Is there a strip club for women? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you’re looking for striptease bars then you’ll be better off heading to Shoreditch than bothering with Soho and it’s clip joints and tourist scams.
However, London has really changed over the past twenty years with lots of gentrification in these areas, if you’re looking for a Amsterdam like red light district then you’ll be very disappointed.
However if you’re looking for genuine swingers clubs then there’s a couple in the London area that have reviews on this site but most of them are not in central London.
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
"Le Boudoir would be a good bet , but looks like next event is on Thursday - surprised no one on here has come up with something that is on on a Tuesday - anyone ???? "
Our Place for Fun do a Tuesday party but it's in North London, near the Ally Pally, not near Soho. |
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By *redy81Man
over a year ago
London |
"Looks like it’ll be a quiet one unfortunately "
I would recommend OurPlace4 Fun, I nice and clean place, all management and staff are female, very friendly crowd. They have a Tuesday night party, and if I'm right, the entry is free for girls. Not that far from the Soho at all, 30-40 min by public transport or about 20 min with an Uber. (I sent you more detailed info private  ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh dear . So have you and your friend not managed to find a group of sexy London lads who will get naked for you …."
No.
London is very disappointing.
Back to Liverpool tomorrow - thank god. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m told that I’m a div for expecting guys to be available at short notice to fuck “a random pussy” so maybe I should put up a pic from my night out last night and let me know if you think I’d be successful? Hahaha
Maybe I was asking too much  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m told that I’m a div for expecting guys to be available at short notice to fuck “a random pussy” so maybe I should put up a pic from my night out last night and let me know if you think I’d be successful? Hahaha
Maybe I was asking too much
Oh, and we "random pussies" are expected to be available when the men just "pass in our area" or similar or have 30 min spare... Seriously???  "
Exactly!!! I didn’t think I was asking for anything crazy!
The issue was, because there were two of us, it was difficult to find someone that we both found attractive.
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"Oh dear . So have you and your friend not managed to find a group of sexy London lads who will get naked for you ….
No.
London is very disappointing.
Back to Liverpool tomorrow - thank god."
With that attitude we are glad to see the back of you.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh dear . So have you and your friend not managed to find a group of sexy London lads who will get naked for you ….
No.
London is very disappointing.
Back to Liverpool tomorrow - thank god.
With that attitude we are glad to see the back of you...."
Hahaha point proven!
It was regards to sexual fun, not the city! But yes, there are wankers everywhere (but they always make themselves visible!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh dear . So have you and your friend not managed to find a group of sexy London lads who will get naked for you ….
No.
London is very disappointing.
Back to Liverpool tomorrow - thank god."
Where in liverpool is good for this? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh dear . So have you and your friend not managed to find a group of sexy London lads who will get naked for you ….
No.
London is very disappointing.
Back to Liverpool tomorrow - thank god.
Where in liverpool is good for this?"
Townhouse is great, that’s just the other side of the Mersey tunnel. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know it was a Monday and Tuesday but we walked for miles around soho and Piccadilly and couldn’t find anywhere playing music. It was all quiet bars with couples drinking wine. We wanted a dance and a flirt. We ended up going back to the hotel and drinking in our room with music on. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
"Oh dear . So have you and your friend not managed to find a group of sexy London lads who will get naked for you ….
No.
London is very disappointing.
Back to Liverpool tomorrow - thank god.
Where in liverpool is good for this?
Townhouse is great, that’s just the other side of the Mersey tunnel. "
Isn't that in Birkenhead- not Liverpool? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh dear . So have you and your friend not managed to find a group of sexy London lads who will get naked for you ….
No.
London is very disappointing.
Back to Liverpool tomorrow - thank god.
Where in liverpool is good for this?
Townhouse is great, that’s just the other side of the Mersey tunnel.
Isn't that in Birkenhead- not Liverpool?"
It’s address is Birkenhead but it’s literally 10 mins from the city centre |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I know it was a Monday and Tuesday but we walked for miles around soho and Piccadilly and couldn’t find anywhere playing music. It was all quiet bars with couples drinking wine. We wanted a dance and a flirt. We ended up going back to the hotel and drinking in our room with music on."
You picked the worst touristy area. Camden or the bars around Waterloo station or shoreditch even are usually pretty lively |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why not try Rio's in Kentish town (I'll be there tonight)
As much nakedness as you can bare. BYO drinks, spa facilities and play rooms should somebody take your fancy."
We were told that Rio’s was a place where we needed to be “very careful” so that put us off as two lone single women. |
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"I know it was a Monday and Tuesday but we walked for miles around soho and Piccadilly and couldn’t find anywhere playing music. It was all quiet bars with couples drinking wine. We wanted a dance and a flirt. We ended up going back to the hotel and drinking in our room with music on.
You picked the worst touristy area. Camden or the bars around Waterloo station or shoreditch even are usually pretty lively "
We really did! We had a wonderful time in the day, sightseeing etc but the nights were really disappointing. We should have wandered further afield at night really but we didn’t feel confident. Just wanted a bar with some music, dancing and a bit of a flirt. It didn’t happen. It wasn’t for the want of trying. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
"I know it was a Monday and Tuesday but we walked for miles around soho and Piccadilly and couldn’t find anywhere playing music. It was all quiet bars with couples drinking wine. We wanted a dance and a flirt. We ended up going back to the hotel and drinking in our room with music on.
You picked the worst touristy area. Camden or the bars around Waterloo station or shoreditch even are usually pretty lively
We really did! We had a wonderful time in the day, sightseeing etc but the nights were really disappointing. We should have wandered further afield at night really but we didn’t feel confident. Just wanted a bar with some music, dancing and a bit of a flirt. It didn’t happen. It wasn’t for the want of trying."
You did specifically ask for somewhere with "naked people" on a Tuesday night anywhere this is a big ask!
If you'd asked for somewhere with just music and dancing you'd of gotten some good recommendations!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know it was a Monday and Tuesday but we walked for miles around soho and Piccadilly and couldn’t find anywhere playing music. It was all quiet bars with couples drinking wine. We wanted a dance and a flirt. We ended up going back to the hotel and drinking in our room with music on.
You picked the worst touristy area. Camden or the bars around Waterloo station or shoreditch even are usually pretty lively
We really did! We had a wonderful time in the day, sightseeing etc but the nights were really disappointing. We should have wandered further afield at night really but we didn’t feel confident. Just wanted a bar with some music, dancing and a bit of a flirt. It didn’t happen. It wasn’t for the want of trying.
You did specifically ask for somewhere with "naked people" on a Tuesday night anywhere this is a big ask!
If you'd asked for somewhere with just music and dancing you'd of gotten some good recommendations!!"
We initially wanted a swingers club or even a bar that had some kind of fetish vibe/flesh on show but that was a no go so we asked everyone that we saw about a lively bar in that location and no one knew of any. We walked for miles (in heels!!!) all around soho and Piccadilly and found nothing! Believe me - we tried!!! We found one gay bar with some music (duke of wellington) but it was 95% men and an O’Neills in china town that was mostly young kids!
I can’t tell you how hard we tried and how many people in the bars we asked!!!
No one is as disappointed as me!!! |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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"I know it was a Monday and Tuesday but we walked for miles around soho and Piccadilly and couldn’t find anywhere playing music. It was all quiet bars with couples drinking wine. We wanted a dance and a flirt. We ended up going back to the hotel and drinking in our room with music on.
You picked the worst touristy area. Camden or the bars around Waterloo station or shoreditch even are usually pretty lively
We really did! We had a wonderful time in the day, sightseeing etc but the nights were really disappointing. We should have wandered further afield at night really but we didn’t feel confident. Just wanted a bar with some music, dancing and a bit of a flirt. It didn’t happen. It wasn’t for the want of trying.
You did specifically ask for somewhere with "naked people" on a Tuesday night anywhere this is a big ask!
If you'd asked for somewhere with just music and dancing you'd of gotten some good recommendations!!
We initially wanted a swingers club or even a bar that had some kind of fetish vibe/flesh on show but that was a no go so we asked everyone that we saw about a lively bar in that location and no one knew of any. We walked for miles (in heels!!!) all around soho and Piccadilly and found nothing! Believe me - we tried!!! We found one gay bar with some music (duke of wellington) but it was 95% men and an O’Neills in china town that was mostly young kids!
I can’t tell you how hard we tried and how many people in the bars we asked!!!
No one is as disappointed as me!!! "
You obviously asked the wrong people then! Unfortunately most of the foot traffic on a Tuesday evening would be tourists or office bods!
FYI, for Tuesday drinks and dancing around Piccadilly there's Bar Rumba and Piccadilly Institute as well as Zoo in Leicester Square. All open until 3am. Otherwise there's Ministry of Sound just south of the river. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know it was a Monday and Tuesday but we walked for miles around soho and Piccadilly and couldn’t find anywhere playing music. It was all quiet bars with couples drinking wine. We wanted a dance and a flirt. We ended up going back to the hotel and drinking in our room with music on.
You picked the worst touristy area. Camden or the bars around Waterloo station or shoreditch even are usually pretty lively
We really did! We had a wonderful time in the day, sightseeing etc but the nights were really disappointing. We should have wandered further afield at night really but we didn’t feel confident. Just wanted a bar with some music, dancing and a bit of a flirt. It didn’t happen. It wasn’t for the want of trying.
You did specifically ask for somewhere with "naked people" on a Tuesday night anywhere this is a big ask!
If you'd asked for somewhere with just music and dancing you'd of gotten some good recommendations!!
We initially wanted a swingers club or even a bar that had some kind of fetish vibe/flesh on show but that was a no go so we asked everyone that we saw about a lively bar in that location and no one knew of any. We walked for miles (in heels!!!) all around soho and Piccadilly and found nothing! Believe me - we tried!!! We found one gay bar with some music (duke of wellington) but it was 95% men and an O’Neills in china town that was mostly young kids!
I can’t tell you how hard we tried and how many people in the bars we asked!!!
No one is as disappointed as me!!!
You obviously asked the wrong people then! Unfortunately most of the foot traffic on a Tuesday evening would be tourists or office bods!
FYI, for Tuesday drinks and dancing around Piccadilly there's Bar Rumba and Piccadilly Institute as well as Zoo in Leicester Square. All open until 3am. Otherwise there's Ministry of Sound just south of the river. "
We were staying opposite Rumba but read the reviews on tripadviser and decided not to go there.
Ah well, we’re home now so it’s all good  |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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Mondays and Tuesdays are typically quiet for nightlife. Must be different up there. Dole day?
There's plenty to do in London but as I recently discovered, unless you know exactly what you're searching for and where to go, you can end up wandering aimlessly thinking somewhere suitable will be around the next corner. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mondays and Tuesdays are typically quiet for nightlife. Must be different up there. Dole day?
There's plenty to do in London but as I recently discovered, unless you know exactly what you're searching for and where to go, you can end up wandering aimlessly thinking somewhere suitable will be around the next corner. "
I think that was the issue, we were just wandering. It was strange because everyone we asked (we asked a lot!) didn’t have a clue either! There’s only so far I’m willing to walk in heels before I give up! |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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"Mondays and Tuesdays are typically quiet for nightlife. Must be different up there. Dole day?
There's plenty to do in London but as I recently discovered, unless you know exactly what you're searching for and where to go, you can end up wandering aimlessly thinking somewhere suitable will be around the next corner.
I think that was the issue, we were just wandering. It was strange because everyone we asked (we asked a lot!) didn’t have a clue either! There’s only so far I’m willing to walk in heels before I give up! "
Many people are just visitors themselves or students etc. Problem is a lot of things are quite specific. It's not like going to your local nightspot where you know everyone will go and they'll play chart friendly tunes. On a Monday or Tuesday it's likely to be your more niche events like live performances, comedy, quizzes. Resident Advisor would probably have given best listing information but that's more for purist dance nights.
Ah well... Who needs London when there's Pop World. Get the bevvies in la |
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"Mondays and Tuesdays are typically quiet for nightlife. Must be different up there. Dole day?
There's plenty to do in London but as I recently discovered, unless you know exactly what you're searching for and where to go, you can end up wandering aimlessly thinking somewhere suitable will be around the next corner.
I think that was the issue, we were just wandering. It was strange because everyone we asked (we asked a lot!) didn’t have a clue either! There’s only so far I’m willing to walk in heels before I give up!
Many people are just visitors themselves or students etc. Problem is a lot of things are quite specific. It's not like going to your local nightspot where you know everyone will go and they'll play chart friendly tunes. On a Monday or Tuesday it's likely to be your more niche events like live performances, comedy, quizzes. Resident Advisor would probably have given best listing information but that's more for purist dance nights.
Ah well... Who needs London when there's Pop World. Get the bevvies in la"
Never been to pop world so can’t comment. But yes, maybe you have to know the place to find the hidden gems. We live and learn. |
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"Why not try Rio's in Kentish town (I'll be there tonight)
As much nakedness as you can bare. BYO drinks, spa facilities and play rooms should somebody take your fancy.
We were told that Rio’s was a place where we needed to be “very careful” so that put us off as two lone single women."
Absolute tosh.
I've been going for years, and I have found it to be a rather charming place. The general complaint is that the men can follow you around. Just tell them no, just like any other club. Word gets round and you'll be left alone.I can manage that in less than 5 seconds. You look pretty feisty, so I reckon you can manage that in three!
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"Why not try Rio's in Kentish town (I'll be there tonight)
As much nakedness as you can bare. BYO drinks, spa facilities and play rooms should somebody take your fancy.
We were told that Rio’s was a place where we needed to be “very careful” so that put us off as two lone single women.
Absolute tosh.
I've been going for years, and I have found it to be a rather charming place. The general complaint is that the men can follow you around. Just tell them no, just like any other club. Word gets round and you'll be left alone.I can manage that in less than 5 seconds. You look pretty feisty, so I reckon you can manage that in three!
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"Why not try Rio's in Kentish town (I'll be there tonight)
As much nakedness as you can bare. BYO drinks, spa facilities and play rooms should somebody take your fancy.
We were told that Rio’s was a place where we needed to be “very careful” so that put us off as two lone single women.
Absolute tosh.
I've been going for years, and I have found it to be a rather charming place. The general complaint is that the men can follow you around. Just tell them no, just like any other club. Word gets round and you'll be left alone.I can manage that in less than 5 seconds. You look pretty feisty, so I reckon you can manage that in three!
Experiences are subjective. What is true for one is not true for another necessarily. Not all visits and encounters will be exactly the same. "
True.
However, the person in question was given one experience by one person and I gave mine. There is a saying that there is a story from one side, a story from another side, and in the middle there is the truth.
So, I get what you're saying but people should ascertain situations for themselves.
I also wanted to add that there is a dear male friend of many years who is on Fab who offers to accompany females who are hesitant in visiting Rio's with no expectation of play. He is the absolute gentleman, keeps to his word. If they want to play, they can, but it won't be with him, as he is true to his word. The offer is made on many a Rio's thread. |
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"Why not try Rio's in Kentish town (I'll be there tonight)
As much nakedness as you can bare. BYO drinks, spa facilities and play rooms should somebody take your fancy.
We were told that Rio’s was a place where we needed to be “very careful” so that put us off as two lone single women.
Absolute tosh.
I've been going for years, and I have found it to be a rather charming place. The general complaint is that the men can follow you around. Just tell them no, just like any other club. Word gets round and you'll be left alone.I can manage that in less than 5 seconds. You look pretty feisty, so I reckon you can manage that in three!
Experiences are subjective. What is true for one is not true for another necessarily. Not all visits and encounters will be exactly the same.
True.
However, the person in question was given one experience by one person and I gave mine. There is a saying that there is a story from one side, a story from another side, and in the middle there is the truth.
So, I get what you're saying but people should ascertain situations for themselves.
I also wanted to add that there is a dear male friend of many years who is on Fab who offers to accompany females who are hesitant in visiting Rio's with no expectation of play. He is the absolute gentleman, keeps to his word. If they want to play, they can, but it won't be with him, as he is true to his word. The offer is made on many a Rio's thread. "
I think Our place for fun would have suited the Op and her friend more than Rios. They were looking for more of a party atmosphere - you might get nudity at Rios but it's not really a party place.
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"I know it was a Monday and Tuesday but we walked for miles around soho and Piccadilly and couldn’t find anywhere playing music. It was all quiet bars with couples drinking wine. We wanted a dance and a flirt. We ended up going back to the hotel and drinking in our room with music on.
You picked the worst touristy area. Camden or the bars around Waterloo station or shoreditch even are usually pretty lively
We really did! We had a wonderful time in the day, sightseeing etc but the nights were really disappointing. We should have wandered further afield at night really but we didn’t feel confident. Just wanted a bar with some music, dancing and a bit of a flirt. It didn’t happen. It wasn’t for the want of trying.
You did specifically ask for somewhere with "naked people" on a Tuesday night anywhere this is a big ask!
If you'd asked for somewhere with just music and dancing you'd of gotten some good recommendations!!
We initially wanted a swingers club or even a bar that had some kind of fetish vibe/flesh on show but that was a no go so we asked everyone that we saw about a lively bar in that location and no one knew of any. We walked for miles (in heels!!!) all around soho and Piccadilly and found nothing! Believe me - we tried!!! We found one gay bar with some music (duke of wellington) but it was 95% men and an O’Neills in china town that was mostly young kids!
I can’t tell you how hard we tried and how many people in the bars we asked!!!
No one is as disappointed as me!!! "
Pity we didn't connect on Fab before, as i was also walking around Piccadilly and China Town between 5-7 and 10-12 after going to a gala dinner event with lots of free booze between 7-10! I could have snuck you both into the event, then taken you to Our place for fun after! |
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