Mrs Misfit persuaded a group of nurses (3 women, 1 guy) on a night out to follow us to a club once. They came had a drink and a laugh. Then they left, ditched the guy they were with and returned. Then got naked and jumped into the hot tub. They were good fun, but all bar one kept it social though. But one of them I remember had a really hot time in the showers. I think it was more about doing something different and having an experience for them because to our knowledge non of them ever returned.
Also we had a couple of Vanilla freinds come to Mrs Misfits birthday party in a club once. They had fun and laugh but purely socially.
Which kind of proves that non-swinger are non-swingers but also Clubs are a lot more than a place to have sex. You can have a great night out in a club even if you don't swing (with of course the option to change your mind if you get corrupted). We're pretty open about our lifestyle and we would happily take our Vanilla freinds a long. Unfortunately most are not really up for it. |
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"Mrs Misfit persuaded a group of nurses (3 women, 1 guy) on a night out to follow us to a club once. They came had a drink and a laugh. Then they left, ditched the guy they were with and returned. Then got naked and jumped into the hot tub. They were good fun, but all bar one kept it social though. But one of them I remember had a really hot time in the showers. I think it was more about doing something different and having an experience for them because to our knowledge non of them ever returned.
Also we had a couple of Vanilla freinds come to Mrs Misfits birthday party in a club once. They had fun and laugh but purely socially.
Which kind of proves that non-swinger are non-swingers but also Clubs are a lot more than a place to have sex. You can have a great night out in a club even if you don't swing (with of course the option to change your mind if you get corrupted). We're pretty open about our lifestyle and we would happily take our Vanilla freinds a long. Unfortunately most are not really up for it."
Thanks...yeah just not sure if when you realise your fantasties, it can make or break a non swinging relationship? |
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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago
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I've brought a few of my non swinging friends to the club as they was curious, more so with seeing the club I was in.
Needless to say they've never looked back  |
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Funnily enough, I am a bit of a non-swinger  To me, "club" means a fetish club with a proper dungeon which is not just for show.
So far, me being introduced to swinger's clubs was rather a one-off. I did not like the cold atmosphere and how no one spoke to me but once I went downstairs a gaggle of men formed and followed me around which was bizarre.
But maybe it depends on the size of the club or event as well - I have been to quite a few mixed kink and swinging parties and loved them. Of course, these were vetted events with "only yes means yes" attitude to consent. |
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"Mrs Misfit persuaded a group of nurses (3 women, 1 guy) on a night out to follow us to a club once. They came had a drink and a laugh. Then they left, ditched the guy they were with and returned. Then got naked and jumped into the hot tub. They were good fun, but all bar one kept it social though. But one of them I remember had a really hot time in the showers. I think it was more about doing something different and having an experience for them because to our knowledge non of them ever returned.
Also we had a couple of Vanilla freinds come to Mrs Misfits birthday party in a club once. They had fun and laugh but purely socially.
Which kind of proves that non-swinger are non-swingers but also Clubs are a lot more than a place to have sex. You can have a great night out in a club even if you don't swing (with of course the option to change your mind if you get corrupted). We're pretty open about our lifestyle and we would happily take our Vanilla freinds a long. Unfortunately most are not really up for it.
Thanks...yeah just not sure if when you realise your fantasties, it can make or break a non swinging relationship?"
I think there's a risk. A lot depends on what sort of person they are. So I would say its a case of you using your knowledge of them and their personally to risk assess it. Also if you do take them, play it cool and go at their speed. I'm guessing from your question they have indicated to some extent the prospect intrests them? If it just turns out a nice social night, it does. And maybe they are a slow burner and once more comfortable will want to do something more on the next visit. Also, open clear communication is important to understand you both on the same page. So you need to look at how open and honest you are with each other. If all those factors line up good then give it a try. But there will still be a element of risk. Fantasies don't always relate in reality, but then sometimes reality works out even better than fantasy
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Yeah thanks guys .... I'm worried about opening a big can of worms going to a club with a partner as originally I wanted to go as a single female and meet who ever I like. Dynamics change when you take a romantic interest with you, right? |
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