After a few very horny weeks on here we think it's time we tried a club. And the September free membership offer is too good to miss.
We don't necessarily want to play on our first visit. Just relax and absorb the atmosphere we think.
How should we dress? No jeans and,trainers for guys I guess?
I have some great lingerie but is that too much (or too little!) unless we were playing?
Any advice or tips for a couple of club virgins? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Smart casual for men really, smart jean are ok as long as no rips etc...
As for female it really how comfy you feel, usually a mix off sexy lingerie and dresses. An idea could be is you wear sexy lingerie under dress and use the lockers that can be hired if or when feel comfy or right time. Hope this helps x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
No in bar area is allowed and accetable, some do it from the start while others wait until later. It really comes down to individual. By end night you will notice some even ditch lingerie  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I usually wear a dress all night as that's how I feel comfortable. But I have come straight from work (I dress smartly for work) and also in jeans before.
Some ladies like to use the pool so spend the night in a towel, others go straight into lingerie.
I have been in my usual demure dress I wore for work chatting away to someone wearing just a few streaks of liquid latex and we were both comfortable  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Just be sociable.
Don't be put off if people seem to know each other, it is very much a local for many but we are friendly!
You'll get a guided tour when you arrive, just ask for a couple of introductions to regulars so you have someone to chat to.
There may well be other newbies getting a tour too - or after you've had yours you'll know who's taking them so you can say hi to other firsttimers too!
If all else fails, if you think someone looks good tell them so - who doesn't like a compliment!
Relax, enjoy and don't feel you have to play on your first visit - though you could be upstairs and knickers off in the first ten mins (or was that just me  ).
Saturday night is couples night and many will spend a fair amount of time catching up and chatting and maybe dancing before play starts. But once it does it usually hots up quite quickly!
You'll get either free or reduced admission for Sunday if you go either Fri or Sat. They're open from 6 to midnight on Sunday, if you pop in then you'll probably see me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Shame you won't be there on Saturday but see you're busy at a social.
We will take you advice though thanks. We are both very friendly so fingers crossed we'll be OK.
Don't think we will want to play on first visit but will be nice to see another aspect of the scene.
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Just be sociable.
Don't be put off if people seem to know each other, it is very much a local for many but we are friendly!
You'll get a guided tour when you arrive, just ask for a couple of introductions to regulars so you have someone to chat to.
There may well be other newbies getting a tour too - or after you've had yours you'll know who's taking them so you can say hi to other firsttimers too!
If all else fails, if you think someone looks good tell them so - who doesn't like a compliment!
Relax, enjoy and don't feel you have to play on your first visit - though you could be upstairs and knickers off in the first ten mins (or was that just me ).
Saturday night is couples night and many will spend a fair amount of time catching up and chatting and maybe dancing before play starts. But once it does it usually hots up quite quickly!
You'll get either free or reduced admission for Sunday if you go either Fri or Sat. They're open from 6 to midnight on Sunday, if you pop in then you'll probably see me "
All bang on advice about La Chambre, playing normally happens on or just after midnight. There are so many social areas and places you can just watch, that there will be no pressure on you at all. Barie and Marie that run the club are also absolutely lovely. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Just be sociable.
Don't be put off if people seem to know each other, it is very much a local for many but we are friendly!
You'll get a guided tour when you arrive, just ask for a couple of introductions to regulars so you have someone to chat to.
There may well be other newbies getting a tour too - or after you've had yours you'll know who's taking them so you can say hi to other firsttimers too!
If all else fails, if you think someone looks good tell them so - who doesn't like a compliment!
Relax, enjoy and don't feel you have to play on your first visit - though you could be upstairs and knickers off in the first ten mins (or was that just me ).
Saturday night is couples night and many will spend a fair amount of time catching up and chatting and maybe dancing before play starts. But once it does it usually hots up quite quickly!
You'll get either free or reduced admission for Sunday if you go either Fri or Sat. They're open from 6 to midnight on Sunday, if you pop in then you'll probably see me
All bang on advice about La Chambre, playing normally happens on or just after midnight. There are so many social areas and places you can just watch, that there will be no pressure on you at all. Barie and Marie that run the club are also absolutely lovely."
could not agree more  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
29th is a fancy dress do at LC, with a celebrity theme...
Is a very relaxed place, no pressure to play, I've been twice now, last timew on my own (yep it's that friendly) and can't wait to get back there. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
