Hi all.
We're quite new here and haven't actually done any swinging yet. We've been dogging and love being watched, but have fantasies of going further.
Anyway, We've decided to go to club F on Saturday! We're a little nervous, but not too much having done some reading. We plan to go for the experience of attending and really looking forward to socialising.
Any tips for first timers welcome.
Dress code is one question we have?
Thanks in anticipation.
Chris. |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Dress code is decent going-out clothes. Most people will dress down at some point, which is often some sort of lingerie for women, towel or boxers or the like for men. But that's only required if you want to go to the play rooms after a certain time (which might be 10:30 - I can never remember). It's fine to stay fully dressed in the bar the whole night if you want.
If you want to go further than socialising, you've got the whole range of options. The upstairs rooms are open, so anyone can come in and watch. The beds are big, and you'll often get multiple groups sharing one. But people can't touch or join in unless you say they can.
Downstairs there are rooms with lockable doors, so you can put on a show and not worry about anyone getting too close. The windows have blinds if you want more privacy.
People usually go naked in the hot tub, but I've never seen anyone object the few times someone has chosen to keep something on.
You'll get a tour when you arrive, and they'll tell you all the rules you need to know.
I find the bar a bit loud for socialising, so I'm often in the hot tub or smoking area (even though I don't smoke). They're the chatty places.
I'm not so familiar with the Saturday regulars, but I've found it a good friendly place. The first part of the evening tends to be social, then later people move off for other things. But you wouldn't be alone if you decided to stay on the ground floor. |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
... and having a look at your profile, I see some very pretty rope work. You might like to have a chat with the staff about the kink side of the venue. There could be non-swinging events that would suit you too. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
1) have fun
2) talk to people…..
3) just go with an open mind and no expectations
Did I mention talking to people!!! 
The temptation is going to be to sit in a corner and people watch!!! Don’t!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went for my first time last Saturday and it was great. You get shown round well and everyone is great. Feel free to dress down when you want to go and play or watch. Hot tub is nice for chatting and getting to know people. Dungeon room is well appointed and the other rooms are very good. Enjoy! |
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That's great advice so far, thanks everyone.
Good spot on the rope, we have a few kinks that we've been into since before we decided to explore swinging and talked about fetish type events throughout lockdown so we'll definitely ask.
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Hi guys, when we go it is usually a Saturday as it is couples night with only a few single guys. We were there last Saturday and there were about 10 couples I think and maybe 3 single guys.
I always wear something I would wear for a night out but maybe a bit more sexy. Most people usually start dressing down around 10pm but not everyone always does. There are lockers to keep your stuff in so I sometimes take a couple of options if I’m not sure what i will feel comfortable in. Guys generally dress down to either their boxers or there are robes you can hire for a couple of pounds I think. Many also wear flip flops or sliders too which again can be hired.
The staff are really good at making you feel welcome, they will give you a tour and probably introduce you to people if they know it’s your first time there.
Do ask about the kinky side as they are very knowledgable. Last week Simon talked us through a lot of the impact implements in the dungeon and how to use them in the right way.
Just go along with an open mind and try to chat to others. The hit tub and changing room are where I usually end talking to people
Kx |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Being nervous is understandable, as it's your first time. The nerves will vanish very quickly once you're there. Remember, you're in control of what you do, and there's no pressure to do anything. Just opportunity. Have fun! |
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"1) have fun
2) talk to people…..
3) just go with an open mind and no expectations
Did I mention talking to people!!!
The temptation is going to be to sit in a corner and people watch!!! Don’t!!!"
I can vouch for Fabio having tip 2 down to a fine art! Hehe  |
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Just a quick feedback reply.
We had a great night a club F.
Our nerves very quickly disappeared, we had a great tour, really well explained, and found the guests very welcoming.
It was a quiet night we were told, and we left at around 12.30, we didn't play as that's what we'd agreed before going out, but we'll definitely be back soon, better prepared.
Thanks for all of the helpful advice everyone.
We haven't left a review for the club yet as we haven't been fab members for long enough, but we will very soon.
Chris |
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