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By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago
Maidstone Area. |
Good morning all.
We are looking to our first club visit on Friday evening and as complete newbies have a couple of questions that I hope more experienced club goers can help with.
1) do ladies, either single or within a couple, usually arrive in their “party clothes” or wear their church outfit and change into something less appropriate once they are comfortable there?
2) We are a couple where F enjoys being enjoyed by gentlemen but I (M) do not play, other than with my wife. Is there some kind of signal or symbol or something that would show other couples or single ladies that this is the case. We just don’t want to create any awkwardness or misunderstandings.
Any thoughts, advice and ideas would be very welcome.
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By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago
Maidstone Area. |
"Have you chosen a night where single men are welcome, not couples only ?"
Yes. Apparently at Pleasures, Saturday night is Couples only but Friday is singles also. Spoke with the owner who advised, with how we play, friday would be best. |
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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago
Glasgow. |
Always get a walk round of the club, especially if it's your 1st time there.
The host(ess) will tell you the do's n don'ts and what rooms are for what and who. There are normally staff about so you can always ask if you forget.
Remember a club night is what you make it, do not feel pressured in any way to do things you feel unsure or uncomfortable with.
No means No, if someone does not respect that - the club staff will deal with them.
And on that note, enjoy your night.
Jane
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By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago
Maidstone Area. |
"Always get a walk round of the club, especially if it's your 1st time there.
The host(ess) will tell you the do's n don'ts and what rooms are for what and who. There are normally staff about so you can always ask if you forget.
Remember a club night is what you make it, do not feel pressured in any way to do things you feel unsure or uncomfortable with.
No means No, if someone does not respect that - the club staff will deal with them.
And on that note, enjoy your night.
Jane
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Thanks. Apparently the host always shows guests round which should help but just very conscious of having a flashing neon newbie light on our heads or being considered rude or arrogant. Want to check it out. Play? We will have to see how we feel.
Thanks for the reply though. Keep safe. |
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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago
Glasgow. |
"Always get a walk round of the club, especially if it's your 1st time there.
The host(ess) will tell you the do's n don'ts and what rooms are for what and who. There are normally staff about so you can always ask if you forget.
Remember a club night is what you make it, do not feel pressured in any way to do things you feel unsure or uncomfortable with.
No means No, if someone does not respect that - the club staff will deal with them.
And on that note, enjoy your night.
Jane
Thanks. Apparently the host always shows guests round which should help but just very conscious of having a flashing neon newbie light on our heads or being considered rude or arrogant. Want to check it out. Play? We will have to see how we feel.
Thanks for the reply though. Keep safe. "
We were all noobies at one time.
As you walk to the door your heart will be going 10 to the dozen.
A wee bit later - "why was I so worried".
Enjoy
J |
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Pleasures is a great club for your first one. It was also ours and we were made to feel so welcome, Steve and his team are fantastic. As said above once you have been there a while your wonder why you felt nervous. There are always new people every night.
Have a great time x |
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By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago
Maidstone Area. |
"Pleasures is a great club for your first one. It was also ours and we were made to feel so welcome, Steve and his team are fantastic. As said above once you have been there a while your wonder why you felt nervous. There are always new people every night.
Have a great time x "
And do you arrive dressed to play, or get changed there? |
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"Pleasures is a great club for your first one. It was also ours and we were made to feel so welcome, Steve and his team are fantastic. As said above once you have been there a while your wonder why you felt nervous. There are always new people every night.
Have a great time x
And do you arrive dressed to play, or get changed there? "
Some dress down during the evening, there are lockers if you need them. However you feel comfortable |
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By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago
Maidstone Area. |
"Pleasures is a great club for your first one. It was also ours and we were made to feel so welcome, Steve and his team are fantastic. As said above once you have been there a while your wonder why you felt nervous. There are always new people every night.
Have a great time x
And do you arrive dressed to play, or get changed there?
Some dress down during the evening, there are lockers if you need them. However you feel comfortable "
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