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By *arol321 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Has anyone been to the “Ladies for lunch MILF & DILF” events on Thursdays?
Wondered what it’s like. I’d be going as a single woman on my own (which is nerve wracking enough!)
I thought it might be a good way to try out a club as it’s maybe less daunting than an evening, but it’s a long way to go if it’s likely to be dead.  |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
London |
Be nervious (or excited - however you mind it) and just be present.
The thrill alone stepping through that seedy threshold and holding a spot to relax in a club is sure enough for me.
Hoping to get to Kestrels soon. Just applied last night for membership. x |
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"It would seem very few on here have been. I wonder if that means Thursdays are dead anda waste of time or just that those who go aren’t on the forums on here. "
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I have a vague recollection of reading something about it , and that it was quiet …
I’m keen to try Milf Wednesday at VA  |
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I have been to both
Kestrals was pretty chilled out, a few couples, a dozen or so single guys and maybe one or two single women
MILF at VA is a much more established event and much busier
In my opinion kestrals is great for a chill out, lovely warm indoor pool and jacuzzis but VA has a more lively vibe and much more play going on. |
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By *arol321 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have been to both
Kestrals was pretty chilled out, a few couples, a dozen or so single guys and maybe one or two single women
MILF at VA is a much more established event and much busier
In my opinion kestrals is great for a chill out, lovely warm indoor pool and jacuzzis but VA has a more lively vibe and much more play going on."
Thanks - appreciate the reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a bit nervous about going to a club alone and was also thinking about this one. Not sure I’m ready for a full on night yet  "
Think I'm going to go to the Halloween ball on my own for the crack. Mostly to have a drink dance and perve, mostly. |
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By *ustylouWoman
over a year ago
Aylesbury |
I've been a few times on a thursday, it varies on how busy it can be. However it is a really nice chilled out day. I didnt make it this week but going today instead. Cant keep away from the pool. |
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By *arol321 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Thanks for the responses everyone. Still not sure if it’s worth it or not but thinking what have I got to lose. It’ll cost me a tenner plus fuel. At the very least I’ll get a free lunch and I might have a great time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the responses everyone. Still not sure if it’s worth it or not but thinking what have I got to lose. It’ll cost me a tenner plus fuel. At the very least I’ll get a free lunch and I might have a great time! "
We haven't been on Thursdays so can't say much about it but mondays and wednesdays are good days to go. Regardless of if its busy or not you will enjoy spa facilities pool, jacuzzis etc. |
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"Has anyone been to the “Ladies for lunch MILF & DILF” events on Thursdays?
Wondered what it’s like. I’d be going as a single woman on my own (which is nerve wracking enough!)
I thought it might be a good way to try out a club as it’s maybe less daunting than an evening, but it’s a long way to go if it’s likely to be dead. "
I usually go on a Wednesday and Sunday but have done the odd Thursday. It's always a good place to chill out and socialise, there are the regulars who will always be happy to spend time with people and socialise. I always have a great time. |
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Hi Carol
Not been to that particular event but have been to Kestrels many times. It’s okay to be nervous as that’s half the fun but you should be confident that you are safe and in control. People are respectful and will not bother you you you ask for that. You will find the single men constantly following you around annoying but that is easily fixed if you find another single to socialise with and be your pal.
If you do decide to go let me know and I will look out for you as I am going to try this session on Thursday and it would be nice to see a friendly face.
I’ll send you a face pic privately.
Hope it goes well.
Xxx |
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By *jkuk72Man
over a year ago
London & Herts |
"Thanks for the responses everyone. Still not sure if it’s worth it or not but thinking what have I got to lose. It’ll cost me a tenner plus fuel. At the very least I’ll get a free lunch and I might have a great time! "
That's the spirit |
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By *arol321 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.
A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )
How was it ?"
It was a lot of fun. Met some really nice people. I was surprised that nobody really dressed up for the evening they mostly stayed in towels which I thought was a shame.
Going again on Sunday to see what that’s like. |
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By *opilotMan
over a year ago
Heathrow |
"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.
A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )
How was it ?
It was a lot of fun. Met some really nice people. I was surprised that nobody really dressed up for the evening they mostly stayed in towels which I thought was a shame.
Going again on Sunday to see what that’s like. "
During the day it's a spa, so everyone in towels. It's only the evening/night events when people are dressed up. |
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"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.
A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )
How was it ?
It was a lot of fun. Met some really nice people. I was surprised that nobody really dressed up for the evening they mostly stayed in towels which I thought was a shame.
Going again on Sunday to see what that’s like.
During the day it's a spa, so everyone in towels. It's only the evening/night events when people are dressed up."
I think Carol’s point is that most people stayed in their towel in the evening …
Us girls enjoy the opportunity to dress up and admire (perv) others sporting their sexy outfits |
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By *arol321 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.
A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )
How was it ?
It was a lot of fun. Met some really nice people. I was surprised that nobody really dressed up for the evening they mostly stayed in towels which I thought was a shame.
Going again on Sunday to see what that’s like.
During the day it's a spa, so everyone in towels. It's only the evening/night events when people are dressed up.
I think Carol’s point is that most people stayed in their towel in the evening …
Us girls enjoy the opportunity to dress up and admire (perv) others sporting their sexy outfits "
That was exactly my point - thank you.
At 6 pm Kestrels hands over to Abfabs for the evening party and I assumed when they said that robes would not be permitted after 6pm neither would towels.
I thought it was a shame that most people didn’t make an effort for the evening. I think it would have added to the vibe considerably if they had. |
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"Where is VA please? I’ve searched the forum but cannot find its full name nor location! "
VA is Vanilla Alternative, a swingers club just off A1, between Sandy and Black Cat Roundabout, in Bedfordshire. |
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"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.
A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )"
Did you go and how did you find it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.
A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )
How was it ?
It was a lot of fun. Met some really nice people. I was surprised that nobody really dressed up for the evening they mostly stayed in towels which I thought was a shame.
Going again on Sunday to see what that’s like.
During the day it's a spa, so everyone in towels. It's only the evening/night events when people are dressed up.
I think Carol’s point is that most people stayed in their towel in the evening …
Us girls enjoy the opportunity to dress up and admire (perv) others sporting their sexy outfits
That was exactly my point - thank you.
At 6 pm Kestrels hands over to Abfabs for the evening party and I assumed when they said that robes would not be permitted after 6pm neither would towels.
I thought it was a shame that most people didn’t make an effort for the evening. I think it would have added to the vibe considerably if they had. "
Wednesday's is a clothing optional party, so I guess that's why most people stayed in towels. Friday or Saturday nights would be best for dressing up |
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By *arol321 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.
A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )
Did you go and how did you find it"
Yes I did go and it was fun, so much so that I went again on the Sunday! |
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