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First club visit - Pleasures

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi folks, hope you’ve all had a good weekend.

I’m thinking of attending a club for the first time, as a bloke I’m going to go with the attitude of just saying hi and chatting and if anything else should happen then it’s a bonus, but I wondered what men wear to clubs?

I’ve looked at the rules, looking at Pleasures, and it says no trainers, smart jeans and casual, so do blokes tend to wear shirts or t-shirts? I don’t want to look too casual or too formal.

I’ve never been to club before so am excited but also a bit nervous at the thought.

Thanks in advance.

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By *nob and KnockersCouple over a year ago

Ashford

Make an effort and stand out from the ones that don’t.

Mr here, I always wear a shirt and trousers when we go to Pleasures.

Sounds like your going with the right mindset hope you have a great night, it’s a loverly friendly club

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Make an effort and stand out from the ones that don’t.

Mr here, I always wear a shirt and trousers when we go to Pleasures.

Sounds like your going with the right mindset hope you have a great night, it’s a loverly friendly club "

Thanks. I’ve been on the swinging scene on and off for years and always wanted to visit a club so as I have the opportunity of a free Friday night I thought why not. It looks great.

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By *nob and KnockersCouple over a year ago

Ashford

We went Friday and had a great night. Definitely give Pleasures a go

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By *iss LovelyWoman over a year ago

Here and There

Jeans and a shirt would be fine. Make an effort, look and smell nice and you’ll be ok. For dress down men tend to just be in pants and/or a towel

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Jeans and a shirt would be fine. Make an effort, look and smell nice and you’ll be ok. For dress down men tend to just be in pants and/or a towel "

Thanks. Do people bring their own towels?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We went Friday and had a great night. Definitely give Pleasures a go "

Thanks.

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By *iss LovelyWoman over a year ago

Here and There

"Jeans and a shirt would be fine. Make an effort, look and smell nice and you’ll be ok. For dress down men tend to just be in pants and/or a towel

Thanks. Do people bring their own towels? "

Usually the club provides them. Check with the club direct though to be sure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can take your own towels or they have towels you pay for.

We have been going to pleasures for 9 years now, so any questions, just ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Jeans and a shirt would be fine. Make an effort, look and smell nice and you’ll be ok. For dress down men tend to just be in pants and/or a towel

Thanks. Do people bring their own towels?

Usually the club provides them. Check with the club direct though to be sure. "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You can take your own towels or they have towels you pay for.

We have been going to pleasures for 9 years now, so any questions, just ask "

Thanks, that’s really kind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As mentioned above just turn up looking smart and fresh and with a smile

It's our local club and we love it there ... such a chilled atmosphere with plenty of friendly and sexy people.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks everyone, you’ve been great. It’s sounds like a lovely place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go suited buddy, never a bad thing to be the best dressed guy in a room

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Go suited buddy, never a bad thing to be the best dressed guy in a room

haven’t worn my suit in a long time. Not sure it’ll fit after lock down

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By *parkybunnyCouple over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.

Mr wore a suit there on Saturday, not out of place at all. Like he says, with the effort that I and other ladies make, the guys should to.

I may have mentioned I like him in a suit too...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Mr wore a suit there on Saturday, not out of place at all. Like he says, with the effort that I and other ladies make, the guys should to.

I may have mentioned I like him in a suit too...

I’ll make sure my shoes are polished. It’ll probably be jeans, I do like my Levi’s, and a shirt.

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By *-HantsguyMan over a year ago

Sunbury

I was looking at going on Friday. Do you have to book in advance or is it pay on the door?

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By *oney and ReggieCouple over a year ago

braintree

We will be there on Friday too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was looking at going on Friday. Do you have to book in advance or is it pay on the door?"

You don't have to book in advance and you can pay at the door

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for all the useful information folks. Looking forward to it.

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By *bessionMan over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Look smart and make sure you’re wearing sexy boxers just in case

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Look smart and make sure you’re wearing sexy boxers just in case "

Thanks. Cartoon characters are sexy aren’t they

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi we are planning on visiting club shh this Wednesday afternoon for our first club visit... Just wondering shall I get dressing up smart or just casuals.. We are making a day of it drinks and club so I'd like tk make a good impression haha what do you think?

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

OP did you go last night ? How was it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I did and it was great. Really friendly and a great venue. Will definitely go back when I get the chance.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

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