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Chams - is no towel frowned upon ?
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So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …
So usually when I’m at the club I’ll towel up at the start of the night but as the night progresses and it gets later I tend to have the towel round my neck instead and “wander free” so you speak ..
I thought this was ok ???
Until I walked past a couple the other night and the male tutted and said to his partner “pfff I thought towels had to stay on?”…. I mean I clearly heard and it really took the wind out of my sail :/
So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??
I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/ |
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I'm not aware of a rule around this, and I often go naked/carry towel - it's actually one of the things I love about the place, the freedom to do that!
I suppose the only issue is if you've got a cock, it's probably in poor taste to walk round the general public areas parading your erection about. But if you are flaccid then I don't see why not. |
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"So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …
So usually when I’m at the club I’ll towel up at the start of the night but as the night progresses and it gets later I tend to have the towel round my neck instead and “wander free” so you speak ..
I thought this was ok ???
Until I walked past a couple the other night and the male tutted and said to his partner “pfff I thought towels had to stay on?”…. I mean I clearly heard and it really took the wind out of my sail :/
So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??
I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/"
Plenty do this and it's not frowned on..they don't have to look lol  |
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"I'm not aware of a rule around this, and I often go naked/carry towel - it's actually one of the things I love about the place, the freedom to do that!
I suppose the only issue is if you've got a cock, it's probably in poor taste to walk round the general public areas parading your erection about. But if you are flaccid then I don't see why not."
Yes exactly it’s the freedom thing I love !!!
Mmmm well mostly flaccid but sometimes hard too  |
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Nakedness has always been tolerated in our experience, generally later in the night but you regularly see men and woman au natural...
Of course pre-Covid Tuesdays were entirely naturist, now there's no specific night and nudity is fully accepted any time.
We've played in the bar area before and no eyebrows were raised...sorry you had a negative moment, but you really didn't do anything wrong.
PDx |
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"Nakedness has always been tolerated in our experience, generally later in the night but you regularly see men and woman au natural...
Of course pre-Covid Tuesdays were entirely naturist, now there's no specific night and nudity is fully accepted any time.
We've played in the bar area before and no eyebrows were raised...sorry you had a negative moment, but you really didn't do anything wrong.
PDx"
Thankyou PD…..
I’m actually wondering if it was a noob couple so maybe it caught them off guard ? |
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By *ezza80Man
over a year ago
northampton |
Always loved a naked Tuesday… shame they are no more, but still Chams and plenty of other places that allow you to walk around with your kit off! Thankfully I’ve never had any bad experience, even if not everyone there particularly wanted to see all of me! |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …
So usually when I’m at the club I’ll towel up at the start of the night but as the night progresses and it gets later I tend to have the towel round my neck instead and “wander free” so you speak ..
I thought this was ok ???
Until I walked past a couple the other night and the male tutted and said to his partner “pfff I thought towels had to stay on?”…. I mean I clearly heard and it really took the wind out of my sail :/
So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??
I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/"
As long as you don't slap it across the bar, people do eat there, I'm sure it fine, from one fellow flash walker to another. |
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"So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …
So usually when I’m at the club I’ll towel up at the start of the night but as the night progresses and it gets later I tend to have the towel round my neck instead and “wander free” so you speak ..
I thought this was ok ???
Until I walked past a couple the other night and the male tutted and said to his partner “pfff I thought towels had to stay on?”…. I mean I clearly heard and it really took the wind out of my sail :/
So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??
I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/
As long as you don't slap it across the bar, people do eat there, I'm sure it fine, from one fellow flash walker to another. "
Ha ha brilliant , no I do refrain from naked bar ordering lol |
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No towel is absolutely fine. I find it strange that in a fabulously relaxed environment like Chams people would frown on nudity. As others have said, slapping your cock on the bar perhaps wouldn't be the thing to do lol |
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As long as you don't slap it across the bar, people do eat there, I'm sure it fine, from one fellow flash walker to another.
Considering some of the things we have done on the actual bar, walking around without a towel on is nothing (and is NOT frowned upon by the club any night of the week) so just let it hang out, hard or soft    "
Thanks guys !!
I’m going to put it down to a one off and forget about it x |
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"I'm not aware of a rule around this, and I often go naked/carry towel - it's actually one of the things I love about the place, the freedom to do that!
I suppose the only issue is if you've got a cock, it's probably in poor taste to walk round the general public areas parading your erection about. But if you are flaccid then I don't see why not.
Yes exactly it’s the freedom thing I love !!!
Mmmm well mostly flaccid but sometimes hard too "
If your hard just hang your towel off your cock  |
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Don't let it get to you, we have all done some thing we shouldn't have in Chams, whether it be on the bar juccuzzi sauna cinema toilet stairs lol, walking with out a towel is nothing, looks like one guy had a problem with it, bet his wife looked though lol. |
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"Don't let it get to you, we have all done some thing we shouldn't have in Chams, whether it be on the bar juccuzzi sauna cinema toilet stairs lol, walking with out a towel is nothing, looks like one guy had a problem with it, bet his wife looked though lol."
To be fair his wife didn’t seem overly bothered  |
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Forget about those clowns. Naked is 100% fine. We're sometimes naked, we just love to be free and relax. No one has ever said anything to us and if they did the fools would get a piece of our mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never been to a club and to be fair I wouldn’t need a towel because the king size duvet I would have wrapped around me would just about cover up the embarrassment that is my body 
However, peeking at your pics OP I imagine the gentleman in question was perhaps intimidated by your errrrm sexy torso!!!
Pays to advertise hunny
Get ya rocks out if you wanna and be free xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think any comments like this take the wind out of your sail.. most of the people on chams are like minded a d open minded to see anything and not comment. But the odd one or two can make it challenging being yourself… take no notice should have done the helicopter at him haha!! |
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By *andb13Couple
over a year ago
Bradford |
Strip off and free everything.. its what clubs are about.. people shouldn't judge. They should just not look if its not their thing.
I (mr) have walked around naked and gone for drinks from the bar naked too.. and sometimes with a hard on in tow and never had negative comments said.. in fact totally the opposite on a couple of occasions lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It looks like you have a great body, if you have it, flaunt it.
I am not offended by the naked body. Carry on being you and ignore other peoples opinions "
Couldn’t agree more |
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Being a newbie and up for our first visit tomorrow , I was hoping this would be the kind of environment I could let my little one out without being frowned at
Me and the misses will probably be a little too nervous to start with anyway to be fair. |
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"Being a newbie and up for our first visit tomorrow , I was hoping this would be the kind of environment I could let my little one out without being frowned at
Me and the misses will probably be a little too nervous to start with anyway to be fair. "
Do what you are comfortable with and enjoy |
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Knock yourself out OP and walk around as you please, the one thing Chams has shown me is that we're all different shapes and sizes and all of it is absolutely fine within Chams walls.
P.s. the same goes for you ladies too, walk around naked as much as you like |
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"Knock yourself out OP and walk around as you please, the one thing Chams has shown me is that we're all different shapes and sizes and all of it is absolutely fine within Chams walls.
P.s. the same goes for you ladies too, walk around naked as much as you like "
Yeah this is true , I’ll admit this one instance is the only time I’ve been made to feel awkward , so thankfully it’s not the norm x |
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"Smoke often wanders around in just heels. We both used to love naked day - as others have said it’s a shame it’s not on any more  "
With that figure i don't blame her! So would I, Except swap the heels for converse and even then ill still trip over air. |
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"So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …
So usually when I’m at the club I’ll towel up at the start of the night but as the night progresses and it gets later I tend to have the towel round my neck instead and “wander free” so you speak ..
I thought this was ok ???
Until I walked past a couple the other night and the male tutted and said to his partner “pfff I thought towels had to stay on?”…. I mean I clearly heard and it really took the wind out of my sail :/
So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??
I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/"
Quite happily watch you walk around naked.. Will have to let you know next time up going!  |
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"So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …
So usually when I’m at the club I’ll towel up at the start of the night but as the night progresses and it gets later I tend to have the towel round my neck instead and “wander free” so you speak ..
I thought this was ok ???
Until I walked past a couple the other night and the male tutted and said to his partner “pfff I thought towels had to stay on?”…. I mean I clearly heard and it really took the wind out of my sail :/
So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??
I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/
Quite happily watch you walk around naked.. Will have to let you know next time up going! "
Agree - can’t see why anybody would complain |
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