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When is best to visit Chams
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
We are hoping to make our first trip to a club in the near future.
But we are wondering when is best to visit, to make the most of a very rare kid free day.
Is a Friday or Saturday best. Daytimes or evenings??
Thanks all
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...it really depends what you're after.
Fridays are open to single gentlemen and Saturdays exclude single guys after 19:30. Of course evenings can be busier than daytimes.
Either way, you can just find a spot and people watch or engage as little/much as you want.
Chat to people and you'll find them friendly and of course saying hi doesn't mean you are committed to playing!
We were trally nervous on our first, but really shouldn't have been. Best club we have ever visited and keep going back for more...
Look at the review section on here and have a look at Chameleons' website. Enjoy!
PDx
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We love Fri nights as always plenty of single men to play with, get my fill 
We love Sat nights as get to socialise with friends and still have fun
We just love Chams any night of the week, so much so we go Fri, leave Sunday afternoon/evening and enjoy both nights for different reasons, you'll enjoy it whatever night you go, as others have said, one of, if not the best club out there 
Only downside to Chams is that it is 138 miles away or we'd be there every other night for sure  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We love Fri nights as always plenty of single men to play with, get my fill
We love Sat nights as get to socialise with friends and still have fun
We just love Chams any night of the week, so much so we go Fri, leave Sunday afternoon/evening and enjoy both nights for different reasons, you'll enjoy it whatever night you go, as others have said, one of, if not the best club out there
Only downside to Chams is that it is 138 miles away or we'd be there every other night for sure "
Perfect thank you. We are kid free this Friday, so sounds like that’s the day to head up  |
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We went last Saturday. Before lockdown we were visiting this club once or twice a month on Friday's.
I must say that we prefer Fridays. Not only because we like mfm sometimes, but because we found the couples are more open.
Where last Friday a lot of couples knew each other already and they stayed in their own areas. Other couples were very shy and scared to play. So for mfmf for us it was easier on Fridays.
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We have been members/regulars at Chams for over 10 years and we avoid Saturday nights like the plaque, far too clichy, far too much posing and by the time there is any action we have headed for home and drinking chocolate.
Fridays a little better but quite a few guys seem to think that having paid their entrance fee they are guarenteed to get laid.
Monday evenings, too many straight guys claiming to be Bi in order to get in but freaking out at the sight of another cock, but generally a good night. Go early, before 7-30pm for the start of any action
For us Sun/Wed/Thurs evenings by far the best. A reasonable atmosphere but far less posing and Thurs in particular now seems to be the favoured night of the 40+ crowd.
Still by far the best club in the country. This week we cant make the latter half so it has to be Wed. We might give the new back stairs and the viewing panels a go. We might even give the two platforms under the viewing panels a go.
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"We have been members/regulars at Chams for over 10 years and we avoid Saturday nights like the plaque, far too clichy, far too much posing and by the time there is any action we have headed for home and drinking chocolate.
Fridays a little better but quite a few guys seem to think that having paid their entrance fee they are guarenteed to get laid.
G&A"
Can't be explained better |
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"We have been members/regulars at Chams for over 10 years and we avoid Saturday nights like the plaque, far too clichy, far too much posing and by the time there is any action we have headed for home and drinking chocolate.
Fridays a little better but quite a few guys seem to think that having paid their entrance fee they are guarenteed to get laid.
G&A
Can't be explained better"
Exactly our reasons for avoiding Saturday nights |
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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago
Worcestershire |
Hmmm, interesting
We've had several recommendations to try Chams, and we're definitely keen as Ms is a water baby and loves the idea of the hot tub.
As we're generally pretty busy during the week, we were planning on a Saturday night, but sounds like this might not be the best option for newbies? |
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By *hropsDuoCouple
over a year ago
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Everyone's experience is different. For us personally we usually go on a Saturday and have never found it cliquey. Sure there may be groups of people that stay together because they know each other, but equally there are lots of couples on their own. Either way if you make the effort to interact most people are very friendly.
We have always found lots of play opportunities any time of the evening. Maybe more later on but we always stay to the end anyway
Maybe try both nights and decide which one suits you better |
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Can’t say we’ve really encountered any cliques
However you certainly do get people who attend together i.e. several different couples or singles yet we tend to find they separate throughout the night to do their own thing and usually reconvene in the smoking/Vaping area outside. (Which tends to be quite a social hub of activity)
Saturdays are generally our favoured night due to work/kids etc however we do occasionally get Fridays free to attend.
All depends what are you are looking for out of your visit, either way we tend to find each night is nice and relaxed with no pressure or expectation.
We are also attending this Friday night  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the advice all
We are heading up on Friday
Hoping to just take in the surroundings and soak up the atmosphere and just see where the night leads.
H is very nervous, more about the fact if there is an expectation to be semi naked from the start. I think she’d like to go at her own pace of losing any attire.
Would a silk gown and underwear be frowned up on?
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"Thanks for the advice all
We are heading up on Friday
Hoping to just take in the surroundings and soak up the atmosphere and just see where the night leads.
H is very nervous, more about the fact if there is an expectation to be semi naked from the start. I think she’d like to go at her own pace of losing any attire.
Would a silk gown and underwear be frowned up on?
Many thanks "
That's perfectly fine. Quite a few ladies wear a flimsy robe over their lingerie x |
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"Thanks for the advice all
We are heading up on Friday
Hoping to just take in the surroundings and soak up the atmosphere and just see where the night leads.
H is very nervous, more about the fact if there is an expectation to be semi naked from the start. I think she’d like to go at her own pace of losing any attire.
Would a silk gown and underwear be frowned up on?
Many thanks "
Lingerie is never frowned upon. You are also provided with a towel to wrap around yourself so IF you get comfortable enough to remove lingerie then you still have something to keep you wrapped up
Quite often S started the evening this way - lingerie usually disappears once we’ve been into the jacuzzi though |
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By *bgbCouple
over a year ago
Banbury |
We love going up on a Saturday afternoon and just chilling and chatting to people, then during the evening tend to have a wander around the rooms and see what happens, never been let down and wife prefers to a Friday night when can be a few too many males trying to get involved.
All booked for Halloween |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all, all the feedback is much appreciated.
We aren’t adverse to single guys, so happy to stick with the Friday.
Just hope they’re not there in expectation or get pushy.
Hopefully there are some couples to chat to too. Sure there will be. |
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