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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi, basically cos my wife isn't up for it I am thinking of attending a uk swingers club as a single man.

I'm apprehensive about doing this though, will people think I'm a sad d1ckhead, will I get any action etc etc.

Just wondering what peoples views are on this?

Thanks for any advice.

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By *ogerBottomsMan over a year ago

Aberdare

Just be yourself. Talk to people. The hot tub can be good for meeting people and starting to talk to them.

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By *iss LovelyWoman over a year ago

Here and There

How people react to you will depend on how you behave. Be chilled out, friendly and non pushy and you’ll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeh thats exactly how I am , thanks for the advice.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman over a year ago

Thurrock

A lot of single women, couples only look for single men in clubs so your certainly won't be made to feel unwelcome if you act respectfully

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven't been to a club OP but the advice I've always read is not to expect to play and just have a night out anything else is a bonus

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By *uLou69Couple over a year ago

Glos

Lots of positive advice on this thread, nice to see.

We play more often than not with single men in clubs, it's just our thing.

To echo what's being said. It is all about the people. Not just the single guys but us as well, if we connect and progress to play part of the build up is the chatter establishing boundaries. If that chat goes well and all are happy to carry on then it's straight into it. If those boundaries for all are kept then it's normally a great experience.

Be yourself, talk to people and most of all don't have expectations. Even as a couple we've gone to clubs and not played with anyone and that's just the mood.

Best of luck!!

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By *ud and BryanCouple over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Clubs are the main place we - and many other couples/ladies meet single guys, so go for it.

Check the venue website for the dress code, rules etc. Be friendly and enjoy yourself.

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