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By *oe_prMan
over a year ago
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They are alive and thriving and in my opinion they do diminish some club nights.
I have been to some clubs where the clicks change the dynamics of the interactions and I think they discourage play at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have felt 'ignored' occasionally before, but rationalise it like this:
-Friends meeting friends in a club environment isn't necessarily a clique, but when the drinks are flowing and a group are clearly into each other it may come across as so.
We have always found (certainly at our favourite club) that if you make the effort to engage with people, the conversation soon flows.
Mr PD will chat to anyone and particularly likes to talk to people who look like they're on their own or first timers...he swears it's his gregarious nature rather than wanting to get in their pants!! PDx |
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People always gravitate towards those they know, trust and feel secure with, especially in clubs. Why wouldn't they? It's safe and sensible. Who would walk into a pub and expect to just sit down with a group of strangers and be welcomed into their discussion? Cliques are just groups of people who feel happy being and maybe playing together. It's not an indictment of everyone outside that group but it is their prerogative. |
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