It's hard to say. I went once, with my FWB, a few months ago. It was quite busy, and there were quite a few men. Which is normal, as this event caters for women/couples who like to meet men.
Apparently, all events at VA are now indoors so you'll get access to play areas (all open play areas, with just one bed that can have a curtain drawn around it for privacy- it was not respected though when we went), bar and hot tub. |
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I have been a couple of times and had a great time. Very social and not a pushy atmosphere. Found it easy to have conversations with people, and there are plenty of opportunities to play, although not many private areas. Hot tub is great too!
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By *j555Couple
over a year ago
Huntingdon |
We're thinking of going next week,what do the guys and ladies wear? We dont want to be over or under dressed!
Also assume no pressure to play atmosphere, will be our first time as a couple to a club. |
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"We're thinking of going next week,what do the guys and ladies wear? We dont want to be over or under dressed!
Also assume no pressure to play atmosphere, will be our first time as a couple to a club."
I’ve been to VA on a Wednesday for Milf club as a single female lots and love it.
In terms of what to wear, just wear what you feel comfortable in. I tend to change into something I feel sexy in, nice lingerie or dress and heels when I arrive but also bring something to slip on when get out of hot tub like a sheer beach tunic or lace robe. Some people get naked from the start, whilst others stay dressed until want to play. So like I said dress however you feel comfortable and if nervous just bring something you feel sexy in just in case  Guys tend to stay dressed, naked or wear a towel, much simpler for them lol
Remember your in charge and absolutely no pressure to play. The people that attend are a really friendly bunch and if you let the club know it’s your first time they will give you a tour and introduce you to a few people. My advice would be go soak up the atmosphere, make some new friends, watch what is going on and get involved if you want to .
Hopefully I will be there next week too x |
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By *j555Couple
over a year ago
Huntingdon |
"We're thinking of going next week,what do the guys and ladies wear? We dont want to be over or under dressed!
Also assume no pressure to play atmosphere, will be our first time as a couple to a club.
I’ve been to VA on a Wednesday for Milf club as a single female lots and love it.
In terms of what to wear, just wear what you feel comfortable in. I tend to change into something I feel sexy in, nice lingerie or dress and heels when I arrive but also bring something to slip on when get out of hot tub like a sheer beach tunic or lace robe. Some people get naked from the start, whilst others stay dressed until want to play. So like I said dress however you feel comfortable and if nervous just bring something you feel sexy in just in case Guys tend to stay dressed, naked or wear a towel, much simpler for them lol
Remember your in charge and absolutely no pressure to play. The people that attend are a really friendly bunch and if you let the club know it’s your first time they will give you a tour and introduce you to a few people. My advice would be go soak up the atmosphere, make some new friends, watch what is going on and get involved if you want to .
Hopefully I will be there next week too x"
Thank you very much  although it just means we'll spend the weekend looking for that perfect outfit! X |
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"Has anyone been and can let us know what it’s like? Numbers, age range, guy gal ratio?
Thinking of going as mid week fun sounds amazing
Thank you "
Hiya just to give a run through
We have a new couples lounge which is for
couples only, this is respected by the chaps abs we deal with any that don’t.
Obviously since easing of lockdown all areas are open.
One darker/dark play room
The hotub area and playroom
New (this week) Gloryhole and kink room
A brighter play area for those that like to be seen  
Chill out seated area
Nightclub dance floor
Fully licensed bar
Ratio is that single men is capped at no more than 25. It very much depends on how many women abs couples attend as to the % ratio on the day xx |
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"We're thinking of going next week,what do the guys and ladies wear? We dont want to be over or under dressed!
Also assume no pressure to play atmosphere, will be our first time as a couple to a club.
I’ve been to VA on a Wednesday for Milf club as a single female lots and love it.
In terms of what to wear, just wear what you feel comfortable in. I tend to change into something I feel sexy in, nice lingerie or dress and heels when I arrive but also bring something to slip on when get out of hot tub like a sheer beach tunic or lace robe. Some people get naked from the start, whilst others stay dressed until want to play. So like I said dress however you feel comfortable and if nervous just bring something you feel sexy in just in case Guys tend to stay dressed, naked or wear a towel, much simpler for them lol
Remember your in charge and absolutely no pressure to play. The people that attend are a really friendly bunch and if you let the club know it’s your first time they will give you a tour and introduce you to a few people. My advice would be go soak up the atmosphere, make some new friends, watch what is going on and get involved if you want to .
Hopefully I will be there next week too x"
This is great advice
..and nice to see the forum being used for good causes again |
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"Has anyone been and can let us know what it’s like? Numbers, age range, guy gal ratio?
Thinking of going as mid week fun sounds amazing
Thank you "
We are going next week, meeting a male friend there x For milf club as it’s a day event, we undress when we get there, I wear a robe, for between rooms and I take a towel for the hot tub.
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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago
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"What time is it best to arrive here? Going for the first time x"
Starts at 11; you don’t want to be the first through the door but get there late you’re not getting in (there’s a ‘cut off’) anyway I’d say about 12 is the best time to aim for.
I am hoping to get there today |
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"What time is it best to arrive here? Going for the first time x
Starts at 11; you don’t want to be the first through the door but get there late you’re not getting in (there’s a ‘cut off’) anyway I’d say about 12 is the best time to aim for.
I am hoping to get there today"
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Ok sounds like some friendly folk going ...
I take it it's all indoors now and Lux no longer really exists?"
May be a bit too chilly for that. I don't want you pointing and laughing after all!
(I'm not actually attending this time) |
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