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Anyone a member of killing kittens
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After reading a couple of articles about it recently is anyone a member or been a member at some point.
Must be weird if you cannot approach a lady and you have to wear masks all for £100 a month with some parties costing £250 per couple.What are your thoughts or opinions? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
You would have thought if they were that exclusive they would maybe spellcheck their website. 
Not for me. Why would I cough up for parties where there are no single men? It would be seriously dull. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You would have thought if they were that exclusive they would maybe spellcheck their website.
Not for me. Why would I cough up for parties where there are no single men? It would be seriously dull."
There are plenty of single guys that go.. with escorts!
and not the Ford kind.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Elitest and non inclusive. Each to their own but not for me and I don't want my ego dentong by being told I'm not attractive enough to attend!
We know quite a few people that have been but don't know anyone that has ever been twice
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our kitties are being "done" tomorrow and I was thinking we could let them out when they've recovered, but not after reading this
What's wrong with you people   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Elitest and non inclusive. Each to their own but not for me and I don't want my ego dentong by being told I'm not attractive enough to attend!
We know quite a few people that have been but don't know anyone that has ever been twice
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Watched the video on their website, wouldn't even risk it. The woman being interviewed was skeletal  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I'm very anti-elitist. I wouldn't be seen dead in there. Just as well, as they probably wouldn't have me, anyway.
Does the name sound like a heavy metal band with more pretensions than talent or tact to anyone else, or is it just me?  |
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Looking at the website and reading the blurb, the impression I got was that it would all end up a damp squib. A yacht in St Tropez? Really? If it was that elitist, they really wouldn't need to advertise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very anti-elitist. I wouldn't be seen dead in there. Just as well, as they probably wouldn't have me, anyway.
Does the name sound like a heavy metal band with more pretensions than talent or tact to anyone else, or is it just me? "
I did think it was a totally ridiculous name for a swinging club, especially for the elite and yes, I did think it more a heavy metal band |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
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I did think it was a totally ridiculous name for a swinging club, especially for the elite and yes, I did think it more a heavy metal band "
Are we thinking a band that even Spinal Tap would think twice about supporting on a bill? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did think it was a totally ridiculous name for a swinging club, especially for the elite and yes, I did think it more a heavy metal band
Are we thinking a band that even Spinal Tap would think twice about supporting on a bill? "
I think anyone would think twice about supporting them  |
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"I will add in their defence that my Set Designer met his wife at a Killing Kittens party. "
Were they expecting to bump into each other there, how embarrassing!
"hello darling' I thought you were out with your friends tonight?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretentious bollox IMHO.
If the parties (they've been running for years now) are so exclusive why need to advertise...
There's other more exclusive swinging parties that don't advertise or broadcast themselves... |
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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago
Derby |
"You would have thought if they were that exclusive they would maybe spellcheck their website.
Not for me. Why would I cough up for parties where there are no single men? It would be seriously dull.
There are plenty of single guys that go.. with escorts!
and not the Ford kind.
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We felt this was the case the last time we went to AbFabs on a couples only night. |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
London |
"I'm very anti-elitist. I wouldn't be seen dead in there. Just as well, as they probably wouldn't have me, anyway.
Does the name sound like a heavy metal band with more pretensions than talent or tact to anyone else, or is it just me? "
Every time you masturbate god kills a kitten..
Hence the name of the club..
Reading the newspaper reports is quite interesting, The Kate Middleton connection and the tca self the bloke who got done for GBH after catching his partner there with somebody in a cubicle off her head on ..
Doesn't quite seem the Eyes Wide Shit vision |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my female friends went,said it was boring and full of people that like the idea of being called a swinger but hav'nt got the bollocks to actually be one,everyone just stood around staring at everyone else,no atmosphere at all |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"I have decided to give it a try... Will share my experience with the forum afterwards. "
We will look forward to that, not that we could go, to old and probably to ugly but like the idea of the club but not sure it works in reality.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attended the KK Hedonism party last night.
Had a blast of a time!
Lots of gorgeous kinky people. A rather young crowd but all good looking, fit and very happy.
Although I didn't see any drug use, I suspect some of the revellers were under the influence. Overall, I would say it was not a swingers event but rather a wild party.
If you are looking for beUtiful people, this is the place to go. |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"Attended the KK Hedonism party last night.
Had a blast of a time!
Lots of gorgeous kinky people. A rather young crowd but all good looking, fit and very happy.
Although I didn't see any drug use, I suspect some of the revellers were under the influence. Overall, I would say it was not a swingers event but rather a wild party.
If you are looking for beUtiful people, this is the place to go."
Thank you for the feed back glad to see you had a good time. |
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I'm a member of killing-kittens and been to one of their parties in London. Most members are posh people that do not want to associate the 'play' bit with the word 'swinging'. As long as Killing-Kittens are concern, they dont swing but play. And the rules are the same as swinging parties. No difference atall except you pay more to get in and the opportunity to befriend the top-guns.
I would recommend Killing-Kittens for those after friends with benefit with fat-wallet people. |
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They are worth each penny  if you want a night to remember and if you are lucky enough to attend these are the parties to go... you will find hard to put up with any other normal clubs once you have tried Killing Kittens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will certainly attend any other KK parties I can. The only problem for me was that the girls were so hot I sometimes felt like an ugly duckling but once things started hitting up and the play began my confidence was boosted and I had a great time (surely the two G&Ts helped as well). |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I would love to try one of their parties, without trying one I can't really feel like I have enough information to firm an option.
I liked the City Slickers party I attended recently and I am considering possibly going to the next one... Naked concert in a penthouse... |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"I will certainly attend any other KK parties I can. The only problem for me was that the girls were so hot I sometimes felt like an ugly duckling but once things started hitting up and the play began my confidence was boosted and I had a great time (surely the two G&Ts helped as well)."
You felt like a ugly duckling Really! Well there must of been some lovely looking ladies there if it made you feel like that because you were definitely not at the back of the queue when they handed out the good looks. Surely not everyone there had super model looks and figures? |
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If you are lucky enough to be invited or even accepted to Killing Kittens you should grab the chance with both hands. There is absolutely no doubt that these are one of the best parties you could possibly attend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only way I'm going there is if someone else pays. Can just about cope with normal swinging clubs once in a while. I'd have to save for a year to go there! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are lucky enough to be invited or even accepted to Killing Kittens you should grab the chance with both hands. There is absolutely no doubt that these are one of the best parties you could possibly attend."
But let's be honest your viewpoint is far from unbiased  |
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"If you are lucky enough to be invited or even accepted to Killing Kittens you should grab the chance with both hands. There is absolutely no doubt that these are one of the best parties you could possibly attend.
But let's be honest your viewpoint is far from unbiased "
For the swinging scene YES I most certainly highly recommend Killing Kittens but for the Fetish scene I could not advise you on that one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're really new to this so looks interesting to us but not sure how to justify £100 per month, seems OTT but maybe we're just missing the point somewhere.... |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
"If you are lucky enough to be invited or even accepted to Killing Kittens you should grab the chance with both hands. There is absolutely no doubt that these are one of the best parties you could possibly attend."
This profile is just a blatant advert for a private club- can't possibly understand how it has not been removed by the site owners.
Free advertising? why not pay for it like others do?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're really new to this so looks interesting to us but not sure how to justify £100 per month, seems OTT but maybe we're just missing the point somewhere...."
No point missed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are lucky enough to be invited or even accepted to Killing Kittens you should grab the chance with both hands. There is absolutely no doubt that these are one of the best parties you could possibly attend.
But let's be honest your viewpoint is far from unbiased
For the swinging scene YES I most certainly highly recommend Killing Kittens but for the Fetish scene I could not advise you on that one "
You know full well the point I was making. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're really new to this so looks interesting to us but not sure how to justify £100 per month, seems OTT but maybe we're just missing the point somewhere....
No point missed. "
oh ok so its just expensive then. Ta for clarifying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're really new to this so looks interesting to us but not sure how to justify £100 per month, seems OTT but maybe we're just missing the point somewhere....
No point missed.
oh ok so its just expensive then. Ta for clarifying "
As well as needing to be vetted to make sure you are attractive enough to attend you also need to be wealthy enough. After all poor people are just as unattractive in their own way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking at the website and reading the blurb, the impression I got was that it would all end up a damp squib. A yacht in St Tropez? Really? If it was that elitist, they really wouldn't need to advertise."
I've a canal boat on borobridge canal do you think they would be interested in using it |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"I only paid one off £100 fee to attend one function so not a member and no monthly fees. Def money well spent as I had a fantastic time."
So single women have to pay then? I would of thought they would of got in for free? Or is the entrance fee for single women reduced? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only paid one off £100 fee to attend one function so not a member and no monthly fees. Def money well spent as I had a fantastic time.So single women have to pay then? I would of thought they would of got in for free? Or is the entrance fee for single women reduced? "
I went with hubby, hence the £100. Not sure what the fee is for single fems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking at the website and reading the blurb, the impression I got was that it would all end up a damp squib. A yacht in St Tropez? Really? If it was that elitist, they really wouldn't need to advertise."
Exactly it would be word of mouth only. You never normally find clubs or organisations that are that "elitist" have to advertise. |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
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"I only paid one off £100 fee to attend one function so not a member and no monthly fees. Def money well spent as I had a fantastic time.So single women have to pay then? I would of thought they would of got in for free? Or is the entrance fee for single women reduced?
I went with hubby, hence the £100. Not sure what the fee is for single fems."
Oh ok thank you for clearing that up we assumed that because you said I and not We that you went on your own. |
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"I will add in their defence that my Set Designer met his wife at a Killing Kittens party.
Were they expecting to bump into each other there, how embarrassing!
"hello darling' I thought you were out with your friends tonight?"
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No sorry, you misunderstood, he went there as a single guy, met a single girl there, whom he later married. They now have a kid together and are working in Afganistan, so there's a change of pace and career for you! |
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As you may have read in a previous thread Killing Kittens derive from the following populist myth:
- “Every time a woman 'sins' by pleasuring herself God, in retribution, kills a kitten.” -
However a name is just a name, surely the reputation of a Club has to be owned and well deserved from what they do and the clientele who attracts... rather than just a name 
So sad to see some people making sarcastic comments on Clubs when they have not even been there...  while those who have in fact attended such parties (including myself) can strenuously confirm that such parties are a dream come true an absolute Paradise for the lifestyle. You would struggle in getting back to normal life once you have attended to Killing Kittens Party.
There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
Just something to think about. That's All! |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
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There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
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so John Mertc could go on a diet and take better care of himself a nd would garner an invite ? |
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"There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you. "
Wow.....that's a bit patronising.....don't you think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" You would struggle in getting back to normal life once you have attended to Killing Kittens Party. "
That is quite possibly the most unintentionally hilarious comment I have ever read. And the arrogance of it just re-enforces my belief of why killing kittens is somewhere best avoided. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
Just something to think about. That's All!"
I'd not be getting an invite then, not sure I'd want one either.
I've yet to attend a party but when I do I'd rather just have normal average people with wobbly bits and all.
Having a 'hot' body doesn't guarantee I'd want to have sex with someone. |
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There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
Just something to think about. That's All!
I'd not be getting an invite then, not sure I'd want one either.
I've yet to attend a party but when I do I'd rather just have normal average people with wobbly bits and all.
Having a 'hot' body doesn't guarantee I'd want to have sex with someone."
Somehow I do not find hard to believe you, however is more the other way round it’s those who in fact attend Killing Kittens that would not like to go where “normal average people with wobbly bits and all” go as they would not want to have sex with them that is the trouble!
Are we allowed to have a choice of such parties or do we have to be forced to attend those “normal average” places? Surely if they cost more and are full of sexy people ther must be a demand and they cannot be illegal either!
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There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
so John Mertc could go on a diet and take better care of himself a nd would garner an invite ?"
Well look at what Sam Bailey did with her will power and motivation in a few weeks that proves that it is possible and you could do the same (if you so wish as I fear your comment was from a defensive viewpoint) |
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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago
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There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
so John Mertc could go on a diet and take better care of himself a nd would garner an invite ?
Well look at what Sam Bailey did with her will power and motivation in a few weeks that proves that it is possible and you could do the same (if you so wish as I fear your comment was from a defensive viewpoint) "
One suspects that as all Sam Bailey had to do over those weeks was sing, and exercise. She had everything provided for her, and I would imagine she had a dietician and chef specially preparing her meals. She didn't have to work, clean houses etc. I'm sure that if you took anyone off here, gave them the opportunity to just exercise while someone else did everything for them, then they too could lose dramatic amounts of weight. Unfortunately we live in the real world. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
so John Mertc could go on a diet and take better care of himself a nd would garner an invite ?
Well look at what Sam Bailey did with her will power and motivation in a few weeks that proves that it is possible and you could do the same (if you so wish as I fear your comment was from a defensive viewpoint)
One suspects that as all Sam Bailey had to do over those weeks was sing, and exercise. She had everything provided for her, and I would imagine she had a dietician and chef specially preparing her meals. She didn't have to work, clean houses etc. I'm sure that if you took anyone off here, gave them the opportunity to just exercise while someone else did everything for them, then they too could lose dramatic amounts of weight. Unfortunately we live in the real world. "
Not sure who Sam Bailey is but wonder who is going to do my real life stuff when I should be out doing all this exercise. Also wonder would have my kids every night so I could getout and exercise. I need a chef dietitian trainer and babysitter too.
No??
I will stay as I am then xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
Just something to think about. That's All!
I'd not be getting an invite then, not sure I'd want one either.
I've yet to attend a party but when I do I'd rather just have normal average people with wobbly bits and all.
Having a 'hot' body doesn't guarantee I'd want to have sex with someone.
Somehow I do not find hard to believe you, however is more the other way round it’s those who in fact attend Killing Kittens that would not like to go where “normal average people with wobbly bits and all” go as they would not want to have sex with them that is the trouble!
Are we allowed to have a choice of such parties or do we have to be forced to attend those “normal average” places? Surely if they cost more and are full of sexy people ther must be a demand and they cannot be illegal either!
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What one finds sexy is not what everyone finds sexy, for me, the sexiest people are those who aren't sexy due to their looks alone. Nor can I be arsed to try and conform to whatever standards that some pretentious club has.
I'm me and I'm not going to try and be anything else. I am also damn sexy to those who want to meet me, if people don't think I am good enough then that's just tough.
Does having a 'perfect' body make someone better than me? no chance. |
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There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
Just something to think about. That's All!
I'd not be getting an invite then, not sure I'd want one either.
I've yet to attend a party but when I do I'd rather just have normal average people with wobbly bits and all.
Having a 'hot' body doesn't guarantee I'd want to have sex with someone.
Somehow I do not find hard to believe you, however is more the other way round it’s those who in fact attend Killing Kittens that would not like to go where “normal average people with wobbly bits and all” go as they would not want to have sex with them that is the trouble!
Are we allowed to have a choice of such parties or do we have to be forced to attend those “normal average” places? Surely if they cost more and are full of sexy people ther must be a demand and they cannot be illegal either!
Happy Days
What one finds sexy is not what everyone finds sexy, for me, the sexiest people are those who aren't sexy due to their looks alone. Nor can I be arsed to try and conform to whatever standards that some pretentious club has.
I'm me and I'm not going to try and be anything else. I am also damn sexy to those who want to meet me, if people don't think I am good enough then that's just tough.
Does having a 'perfect' body make someone better than me? no chance."
A new series of studies shows that attractive people earn more money and marry better-looking spouses, and that the economic benefits of being good looking make them happier than their homely counterparts:
- “For a woman, it just matters to walk down the street being good-looking. It hurts to walk down the street being bad-looking,” Hamermesh says. “For a man, beauty’s direct relation to happiness is not as great. It will give you a better-looking wife, a higher-earning wife and — most important — extra earnings.” -
Another fairly well-proven path for a man to get a better-looking wife is to be rich—which, presumably, will then lead to happiness. So which comes first: wealth or happiness? Or beauty? At some point, this could become a chicken-egg discussion.
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There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
so John Mertc could go on a diet and take better care of himself a nd would garner an invite ?
Well look at what Sam Bailey did with her will power and motivation in a few weeks that proves that it is possible and you could do the same (if you so wish as I fear your comment was from a defensive viewpoint)
One suspects that as all Sam Bailey had to do over those weeks was sing, and exercise. She had everything provided for her, and I would imagine she had a dietician and chef specially preparing her meals. She didn't have to work, clean houses etc. I'm sure that if you took anyone off here, gave them the opportunity to just exercise while someone else did everything for them, then they too could lose dramatic amounts of weight. Unfortunately we live in the real world.
Not sure who Sam Bailey is but wonder who is going to do my real life stuff when I should be out doing all this exercise. Also wonder would have my kids every night so I could getout and exercise. I need a chef dietitian trainer and babysitter too.
No??
I will stay as I am then xx"
... or you could stay at home and stuff yourself... the choice is yours
You are not the only one to have kids you know? Healthier food it's much cheaper and if you eat smaller quantities you save even more money |
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There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
Just something to think about. That's All!
I'd not be getting an invite then, not sure I'd want one either.
I've yet to attend a party but when I do I'd rather just have normal average people with wobbly bits and all.
Having a 'hot' body doesn't guarantee I'd want to have sex with someone.
Somehow I do not find hard to believe you, however is more the other way round it’s those who in fact attend Killing Kittens that would not like to go where “normal average people with wobbly bits and all” go as they would not want to have sex with them that is the trouble!
Are we allowed to have a choice of such parties or do we have to be forced to attend those “normal average” places? Surely if they cost more and are full of sexy people ther must be a demand and they cannot be illegal either!
Happy Days
What one finds sexy is not what everyone finds sexy, for me, the sexiest people are those who aren't sexy due to their looks alone. Nor can I be arsed to try and conform to whatever standards that some pretentious club has.
I'm me and I'm not going to try and be anything else. I am also damn sexy to those who want to meet me, if people don't think I am good enough then that's just tough.
Does having a 'perfect' body make someone better than me? no chance.
A new series of studies shows that attractive people earn more money and marry better-looking spouses, and that the economic benefits of being good looking make them happier than their homely counterparts:
- “For a woman, it just matters to walk down the street being good-looking. It hurts to walk down the street being bad-looking,” Hamermesh says. “For a man, beauty’s direct relation to happiness is not as great. It will give you a better-looking wife, a higher-earning wife and — most important — extra earnings.” -
Another fairly well-proven path for a man to get a better-looking wife is to be rich—which, presumably, will then lead to happiness. So which comes first: wealth or happiness? Or beauty? At some point, this could become a chicken-egg discussion.
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What impresses me most about killing kittens is that the 2 profiles linked to it just keep managing to post ever increasingly more offensive posts.
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I think we can all accept that people have different sexual preferences and that it is OK for that to be the case. So if someone prefers clubs with average looking people they should not be harassed about it and similarly if someone prefers a club full of people with "model looks" then that should also be accepted.
We all have choices about what we prefer and we are free to exercise those choices and share them with others. |
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The economists analyzed data from five surveys conducted by social scientists in the U.S., Canada, Germany and Britain. These surveys asked more than 25,000 thousand participants about their levels of happiness and also either required an interviewer to rate participants' attractiveness or evaluate their beauty from their pictures.
The current study suggests these indirect, economic benefits account for at least half of the additional happiness that good-looking people report. Beauty affects women's happiness more directly than men's.
The top 15 percent of people ranked by looks are over 10 percent happier than people ranked in the bottom 10 percent of looks, researchers say.
The findings come as some political leaders and economists advocate for countries to begin measuring national happiness alongside their economic productivity.
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"The economists analyzed data from five surveys conducted by social scientists in the U.S., Canada, Germany and Britain. These surveys asked more than 25,000 thousand participants about their levels of happiness and also either required an interviewer to rate participants' attractiveness or evaluate their beauty from their pictures.
The current study suggests these indirect, economic benefits account for at least half of the additional happiness that good-looking people report. Beauty affects women's happiness more directly than men's.
The top 15 percent of people ranked by looks are over 10 percent happier than people ranked in the bottom 10 percent of looks, researchers say.
The findings come as some political leaders and economists advocate for countries to begin measuring national happiness alongside their economic productivity.
This Post confirms exactly the same "
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But scientists also say:-
"Fat people really ARE more jolly - because their genes mean they're less likely to get depressed
Scientists from McMaster University in Canada found the so called 'fat gene' FTO is also a 'happy gene', too
Associated with an eight per cent reduction in the risk of depression"
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"But scientists also say:-
"Fat people really ARE more jolly - because their genes mean they're less likely to get depressed
Scientists from McMaster University in Canada found the so called 'fat gene' FTO is also a 'happy gene', too
Associated with an eight per cent reduction in the risk of depression"
Facts can be used to prove anything lol"
They also say:-
"People tend to get happier as they age, and a new study could explain why: Older adults may be better able to deal with negative emotions like anger and anxiety.
In the study, older adults were less likely than younger adults to feel angry and anxious in their everyday lives, as well as when they were asked to perform a stressful task.
In addition, older adults scored higher on a test designed to measure how well participants accept their negative emotions. The researchers call this trait "acceptance," or a tendency to be in touch with rather than avoid negative emotions."
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"The economists analyzed data from five surveys conducted by social scientists in the U.S., Canada, Germany and Britain. These surveys asked more than 25,000 thousand participants about their levels of happiness and also either required an interviewer to rate participants' attractiveness or evaluate their beauty from their pictures.
The current study suggests these indirect, economic benefits account for at least half of the additional happiness that good-looking people report. Beauty affects women's happiness more directly than men's.
The top 15 percent of people ranked by looks are over 10 percent happier than people ranked in the bottom 10 percent of looks, researchers say.
The findings come as some political leaders and economists advocate for countries to begin measuring national happiness alongside their economic productivity.
This Post confirms exactly the same "
data can be collected to support any argument. |
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"There is no such a thing as “ugly” in support to a previous thread, anyone if they so wish, can take sufficient steps to improved themselves and boost their self esteem by changing your diet, eating healthy food, doing some sort of exercise and basically taking good care of yourself as a matter of self respect and also respect for the others especially if you are keen to attend such parties in which you are likely to take your clothes off and expect to see as many people as possible to be attracted at you.
Wow.....that's a bit patronising.....don't you think! "
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It's a crock of shit
Read about it on google ... Very little happens
A reporter went and watched
All that happened was people just hung around a bar drinking overpriced piss and trying to out do each other with the false tans and fake designer gear
Give me a good old northern club that has pan Hagerty and egg butties on
And beautiful people ... Real ones ... In the real world
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"It's a crock of shit
Read about it on google ... Very little happens
A reporter went and watched
All that happened was people just hung around a bar drinking overpriced piss and trying to out do each other with the false tans and fake designer gear
Give me a good old northern club that has pan Hagerty and egg butties on
And beautiful people ... Real ones ... In the real world
As for the hooray Henry's who go ... The jokes on you ! "
That was not what I experienced at all. Was lucky to play with one of the most gorgeous men I have ever seen (Armani perfume model standard) and had a fantastic time. Lots of easy going sexy people, lots of play in the pool and surrounding areas, overall a very good fun night. |
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All very good comments in her and Thank You.
The things is that OP asked some info on Killing Kittens and how the price can be justified and we notice that who has attended such parties highly recommend them as worth every single penny, who was just about to go for the first time, has later confirm that she had a blasting time while those who have never been are taking a very defensive position as if they felt offended. Now who is being snobbish in here if you pardon me?
It seems to me that people who take good care of themselves have a much positive mental attitude to those who do not as they seem to slug on people who makes efforts to be better, but anybody can do the same and be motivated in better themselves if they so wish. Those who are quite happy to be BBW be happy but do not show your happiness slugging those who are different than you, there are absolutely endless places for normal people to go to, nobody is forcing you to go to Killing Kitten are they?
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"All very good comments in her and Thank You.
The things is that OP asked some info on Killing Kittens and how the price can be justified and we notice that who has attended such parties highly recommend them as worth every single penny, who was just about to go for the first time, has later confirm that she had a blasting time while those who have never been are taking a very defensive position as if they felt offended. Now who is being snobbish in here if you pardon me?
It seems to me that people who take good care of themselves have a much positive mental attitude to those who do not as they seem to slug on people who makes efforts to be better, but anybody can do the same and be motivated in better themselves if they so wish. Those who are quite happy to be BBW be happy but do not show your happiness slugging those who are different than you, there are absolutely endless places for normal people to go to, nobody is forcing you to go to Killing Kitten are they?
Just let it be "
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"All very good comments in her and Thank You.
The things is that OP asked some info on Killing Kittens and how the price can be justified and we notice that who has attended such parties highly recommend them as worth every single penny, who was just about to go for the first time, has later confirm that she had a blasting time while those who have never been are taking a very defensive position as if they felt offended. Now who is being snobbish in here if you pardon me?
It seems to me that people who take good care of themselves have a much positive mental attitude to those who do not as they seem to slug on people who makes efforts to be better, but anybody can do the same and be motivated in better themselves if they so wish. Those who are quite happy to be BBW be happy but do not show your happiness slugging those who are different than you, there are absolutely endless places for normal people to go to, nobody is forcing you to go to Killing Kitten are they?
Just let it be "
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My mum says i'm beautiful. Does that count?
..each to their own at the end of the day. I've never heard of this Killing Kittens parties - if it's meant to attract a certain 'type' of people to it's parties, then so be it. It will only be that niche market who would be willing to pay the price set by the organisers for the parties.
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No no no... I didn’t start it... You started it! lol
Look at the pictures and the details of each profile that has shown interest in this post; do compare the one who have attended such parties with those who have not... How interesting is that?
The vetting system of such clubs is noticeable there is no doubt while those who have not attended these parties nor would have the chance to attend them either... feel so offended to the point to attacking the same with a defensive attitude:
- These parties are clearly not for me so... if they are not for me they must be AGAINST ME and therefore I am going to AGAINST THEM TOO –
It’s so funny, I feel this post does make a very interesting point. How childish is that? It’s hilarious and we have the proofs herewith written in black and white.
Now if such parties are clearly not for you, why not go elsewhere?
There is ample choice of places to go, but on the other hand if you want to attend these parties, do make some efforts to take good care of yourself you have the choice to do so if you so wish and it could only motivate you for better, which is a good, however if you are not interested, be happy as you are! Are you a BBW so what?
There is apparently a Club for BBW’s, now if I was into fat women that is exactly where I would go, but I would never slug the organisers of those parties for doing something which is not for me? I am very happy for them for finding a niche suitable for some people who might appreciate such parties! Currently there is a post about hosting parties for Cuckolds Couples, once again is not for me but I feel happy to hear that some people are trying hard to bring happiness for each one of us in this lifestyle.
As you will know Fabswingers provides also a section for top photos... should we feel unfair that the sexiest people or rather those individual that most people would like to fuck most (let’s say it how it actually is) happens to be always at the top in the front page? This is mother nature, the strongest and healthiest will always attract the opposite sex because they have the good genes and you cannot change that not in a million years and you will have to live with it.
You do have a choice to look after yourself or you can eat yourself to the grave. I try to live my as best as I can every day as if it was my last one. You can decide how you can live your own life as you wish
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with |
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over a year ago
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with "
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy. Everyone seems to be on the same page that it is down to preference.
What people have been offended by is the almost arrogant, definitely offensive and patronising posts by one member. That member has stooped to a level where they assume that everyone who has a different opinion to them is fat, unhappy, second class, unworthy and unfit to share the same air as them.
Ironically, with killing kittens in the media due to luisa zissmans alleged attendance, this person is doing a good job of putting off potential new members by being offensive. Far from the elite nature of the club they are representing which supposedly has strict criteria on charisma... Something must have gone wrong as we always thought charm and charisma normally has an air of friendliness about it.
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy. Everyone seems to be on the same page that it is down to preference.
What people have been offended by is the almost arrogant, definitely offensive and patronising posts by one member. That member has stooped to a level where they assume that everyone who has a different opinion to them is fat, unhappy, second class, unworthy and unfit to share the same air as them.
Ironically, with killing kittens in the media due to luisa zissmans alleged attendance, this person is doing a good job of putting off potential new members by being offensive. Far from the elite nature of the club they are representing which supposedly has strict criteria on charisma... Something must have gone wrong as we always thought charm and charisma normally has an air of friendliness about it.
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy.
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They have .....I have removed enough posts showing it. |
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy.
They have .....I have removed enough posts showing it."
but you have left the offensive posts? |
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy.
They have .....I have removed enough posts showing it."
PS but there are lots of "offended " posts before BBW got mentioned. |
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy.
They have .....I have removed enough posts showing it.
but you have left the offensive posts?"
I shouldn't really be answering you in the forum as you questioning what I do should be made through the CONTACT button as the rules say.
But I will answer to your question....I removed posts that broke rules while getting their point across when being offended.. I cannot remove posts that are not against rules.
Hopefully that will clear up any confusion for you.
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We have been to a 'Killing Kitten' Party a while back so we do know what we are talking about and would dispel a couple of myths about them:
Myth One:
Yes there were some people who we found very attractive but we find attractive people in a normal Swingers Club. Equally, there were others who we did not find attractive (but that was in our opinion).
Myth Two
These parties are not strictly for couples and single ladies only. Single guys can and do get in if they have the right connections with the organisers and willing to pay.
The single guys will be paired with single ladies even though they have never met each other. Once they are through the doors, the guys can pretty much wander around on their own.
We will maintain our assertion in the earlier post that these parties are much hype and very little substance.
You can have a great night at a 'normal' Swingers Club and meet some fantastic people. |
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy. Everyone seems to be on the same page that it is down to preference.
What people have been offended by is the almost arrogant, definitely offensive and patronising posts by one member. That member has stooped to a level where they assume that everyone who has a different opinion to them is fat, unhappy, second class, unworthy and unfit to share the same air as them.
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I am a larger lady and wouldn't get into the parties by the sounds of it and didn't feel how you describe when reading the posts.
Is it my "couldn't give a toss what people think of me" attitude? who knows.
What I do think is, everyone has a choice of what type of meet they attend...there are lots of successful BBW meets that happen but they don't seem to have the reaction this type of meet attracts when it is discussed or asked about on the forum.
Having said that, even if we met the criteria of the meets, it wouldn't be for us. I firmly believe sexiness comes from confidence, and confidence doesn't mean you need a perfect body |
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy. Everyone seems to be on the same page that it is down to preference.
What people have been offended by is the almost arrogant, definitely offensive and patronising posts by one member. That member has stooped to a level where they assume that everyone who has a different opinion to them is fat, unhappy, second class, unworthy and unfit to share the same air as them.
I am a larger lady and wouldn't get into the parties by the sounds of it and didn't feel how you describe when reading the posts.
Is it my "couldn't give a toss what people think of me" attitude? who knows.
What I do think is, everyone has a choice of what type of meet they attend...there are lots of successful BBW meets that happen but they don't seem to have the reaction this type of meet attracts when it is discussed or asked about on the forum.
Having said that, even if we met the criteria of the meets, it wouldn't be for us. I firmly believe sexiness comes from confidence, and confidence doesn't mean you need a perfect body "
I'm not offended as I am a 32waist 38chest slim male, my partner is a beautiful 12/14 lady. However, when someone posts "You do have a choice to look after yourself or you can eat yourself to the grave." Its a bit more offensive and different to your not to my/our/clubs preference/criteria... |
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy. Everyone seems to be on the same page that it is down to preference.
What people have been offended by is the almost arrogant, definitely offensive and patronising posts by one member. That member has stooped to a level where they assume that everyone who has a different opinion to them is fat, unhappy, second class, unworthy and unfit to share the same air as them.
I am a larger lady and wouldn't get into the parties by the sounds of it and didn't feel how you describe when reading the posts.
Is it my "couldn't give a toss what people think of me" attitude? who knows.
What I do think is, everyone has a choice of what type of meet they attend...there are lots of successful BBW meets that happen but they don't seem to have the reaction this type of meet attracts when it is discussed or asked about on the forum.
Having said that, even if we met the criteria of the meets, it wouldn't be for us. I firmly believe sexiness comes from confidence, and confidence doesn't mean you need a perfect body "
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" I'm not offended as I am a 32waist 38chest slim male, my partner is a beautiful 12/14 lady. However, when someone posts "You do have a choice to look after yourself or you can eat yourself to the grave." Its a bit more offensive and different to your not to my/our/clubs preference/criteria..."
But isn't that what all the experts tell us?
As I say, if people are offended thats their choice, I just don't see why they would be if it doesn't apply to them. |
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" I'm not offended as I am a 32waist 38chest slim male, my partner is a beautiful 12/14 lady. However, when someone posts "You do have a choice to look after yourself or you can eat yourself to the grave." Its a bit more offensive and different to your not to my/our/clubs preference/criteria...
But isn't that what all the experts tell us?
As I say, if people are offended thats their choice, I just don't see why they would be if it doesn't apply to them."
There is a difference between a professional health care professional saying it like that, as a shock to get someone with health issues to change their lifestyle. It's completely different when someone makes it as a blanket statement, condemning everyone who has posted a differing opinion to them. They have classed people as fat who are size 12 and above based on the profiles, hardly in a situation of life or death and not being given as a medical suggestion but as a get thin or be classed as ugly suggestion. Therefore offensive... |
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This post has unwillingly gone out of control and I apologize for stirring it.
I do have great respect for other people and it gives me great pleasure to see other people happy
I have very little sympathy for those who, when aware that a party is not for them, have to make huge efforts to spoil it for others. There are indeed many parties that are not for me too, however I avoid confrontation and see them from the positive side feeling happy for those people who have found their own enjoyment and on the other hand knowing where not to go which is equally useful.
I can appreciate that writing can be often misleading in forums, but do try to see things from a different point of view and not always “how to pick on every single and possible negative interpretation” as if you gained pleasure to demean what in fact pleases others!!?? This is very selfish in my opinion.
And yes you have a choice to take good care of yourself and NOT to take good care of yourself, I have lost 4 stones myself so I know exactly the difference it has made to me and yet I am the same person as before inside. You are free to chose how you want to live your life.
Once again I would like to apologize and Happy New Year
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" I'm not offended as I am a 32waist 38chest slim male, my partner is a beautiful 12/14 lady. However, when someone posts "You do have a choice to look after yourself or you can eat yourself to the grave." Its a bit more offensive and different to your not to my/our/clubs preference/criteria...
But isn't that what all the experts tell us?
As I say, if people are offended thats their choice, I just don't see why they would be if it doesn't apply to them.
There is a difference between a professional health care professional saying it like that, as a shock to get someone with health issues to change their lifestyle. It's completely different when someone makes it as a blanket statement, condemning everyone who has posted a differing opinion to them. They have classed people as fat who are size 12 and above based on the profiles, hardly in a situation of life or death and not being given as a medical suggestion but as a get thin or be classed as ugly suggestion. Therefore offensive..."
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I am a larger lady and wouldn't get into the parties by the sounds of it"
Yes you would. It's not the size of your body but the size of your wallet and knowing someone in the 'inner circle' of the organisers.
We saw people of all shapes and sizes when we went. That's why some of the posts reek of hypocrisy about only 'beautiful people' can attend. |
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Oh well then, I think this thread has been totally confusing if this is the case, as there are lots of offended people about who seem to think they wouldn't get in because of their size.
I am going for a lie down now as my head hurts |
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" I'm not offended as I am a 32waist 38chest slim male, my partner is a beautiful 12/14 lady. However, when someone posts "You do have a choice to look after yourself or you can eat yourself to the grave." Its a bit more offensive and different to your not to my/our/clubs preference/criteria...
But isn't that what all the experts tell us?
As I say, if people are offended thats their choice, I just don't see why they would be if it doesn't apply to them.
There is a difference between a professional health care professional saying it like that, as a shock to get someone with health issues to change their lifestyle. It's completely different when someone makes it as a blanket statement, condemning everyone who has posted a differing opinion to them. They have classed people as fat who are size 12 and above based on the profiles, hardly in a situation of life or death and not being given as a medical suggestion but as a get thin or be classed as ugly suggestion. Therefore offensive...
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I am a larger lady and wouldn't get into the parties by the sounds of it
Yes you would. It's not the size of your body but the size of your wallet and knowing someone in the 'inner circle' of the organisers.
We saw people of all shapes and sizes when we went. That's why some of the posts reek of hypocrisy about only 'beautiful people' can attend. "
I have only been once, I am very wealthy, but fat..... |
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy.
They have .....I have removed enough posts showing it.
but you have left the offensive posts?
I shouldn't really be answering you in the forum as you questioning what I do should be made through the CONTACT button as the rules say.
But I will answer to your question....I removed posts that broke rules while getting their point across when being offended.. I cannot remove posts that are not against rules.
Hopefully that will clear up any confusion for you.
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The thing is ruby .. The contact button appears not to work . I have used it several times and did not get an answer!
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy.
They have .....I have removed enough posts showing it.
but you have left the offensive posts?
I shouldn't really be answering you in the forum as you questioning what I do should be made through the CONTACT button as the rules say.
But I will answer to your question....I removed posts that broke rules while getting their point across when being offended.. I cannot remove posts that are not against rules.
Hopefully that will clear up any confusion for you.
The thing is ruby .. The contact button appears not to work . I have used it several times and did not get an answer!
Just saying"
I have used it 3 times and never had a reply. |
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I can't believe so many people are being offended by this.....is it a self esteem issue?
Love yourselves people, and you then might accept that other people can have preferences of who they play with
Not one person on this thread has been offended by killing kittens and it's attendance policy.
They have .....I have removed enough posts showing it.
but you have left the offensive posts?
I shouldn't really be answering you in the forum as you questioning what I do should be made through the CONTACT button as the rules say.
But I will answer to your question....I removed posts that broke rules while getting their point across when being offended.. I cannot remove posts that are not against rules.
Hopefully that will clear up any confusion for you.
The thing is ruby .. The contact button appears not to work . I have used it several times and did not get an answer!
Just saying
I have used it 3 times and never had a reply."
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You may not get an aswer back as advised in the FAQ's but Admin read all feedack and if needed acts on what has been sent as feedack.
Now rather than turn this into a thread about Admin let's get back to the OP.
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"You may not get an aswer back as advised in the FAQ's but Admin read all feedack and if needed acts on what has been sent as feedack.
Now rather than turn this into a thread about Admin let's get back to the OP.
Thanks. "
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