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Abfabs Death
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"How tragic"
My condolences go out to those who knew him
Who ever tried to save him deserves to be thanked and offered some sort of counselling, as this tragic shock will affect everybody in different ways.
To think, I was there with my partner and friends on Saturday afternoon. |
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By *adylerieWoman
over a year ago
Leatherhead, Surrey |
It was awful, the guy must’ve had a heart attack or fit. It all happened so quickly and everyone did what they could and worked together to help him.
Trust the Sun to make it look so seedy. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"It was awful, the guy must’ve had a heart attack or fit. It all happened so quickly and everyone did what they could and worked together to help him.
Trust the Sun to make it look so seedy. "
Tell me about it; if it was a women they would have published her vital statistics, given half a chance. |
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"It was awful, the guy must’ve had a heart attack or fit. It all happened so quickly and everyone did what they could and worked together to help him.
Trust the Sun to make it look so seedy. "
Hear,hear. Good old sun sinking into the mire as usual? Disgraceful rag |
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Such sad news  and traumatic for those who tried to help him. I hope his family and other people who were there get support if they need it.
I wouldn't trust anything that the Sun publish. The fiance of a work colleague died in a car crash and they published an article which which was full of lies. It was heartbreaking for him to have to read that.
Ms x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was awful, the guy must’ve had a heart attack or fit. It all happened so quickly and everyone did what they could and worked together to help him.
Trust the Sun to make it look so seedy. "
How did they make it look seedy?  |
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"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive.."
For a couple of reasons. Firstly because it’s a club that people from this site frequent and so they might be interested to know and secondly it might be closed now if you wanted to go there.
Yes this is a sex site but we presume you have seen the different posts in the forum. People post about lots of things. |
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By *horty4Man
over a year ago
london |
"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive.."
Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.
(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk) |
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"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..
Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.
(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk)"
As an adult I rather be responsible for my own safety rather than place the onus on a venue/another person.
And no the club was not at fault, it was a tragic incident.
My thoughts are with this persons family x |
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By *horty4Man
over a year ago
london |
"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..
Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.
(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk)
As an adult I rather be responsible for my own safety rather than place the onus on a venue/another person.
And no the club was not at fault, it was a tragic incident.
My thoughts are with this persons family x "
If I pay an operator to get on their train I expect the operator to have discharged all their responsibilities to keep me safe. If they have then yes, it’s unfortunate and no liability on anyone. |
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I believe all staff are first aid trained and the local council have given them an operation licence to use the pool.
If I'm right the poor guy had a cardiac arrest. That can happen to anyone at anytime just look at the fit footballer at the euros he was lucky.
Such a sad situation |
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"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..
Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.
(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk)
As an adult I rather be responsible for my own safety rather than place the onus on a venue/another person.
And no the club was not at fault, it was a tragic incident.
My thoughts are with this persons family x
If I pay an operator to get on their train I expect the operator to have discharged all their responsibilities to keep me safe. If they have then yes, it’s unfortunate and no liability on anyone. "
The club is not liable, as someone who was present at the time and for the respect of the person who tragically lost their life and those who where involved.
I am not going to say anything other than a Thank You to all the staff and guests for coming together and working as a team to help someone in need. |
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By *horty4Man
over a year ago
london |
"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..
Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.
(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk)
As an adult I rather be responsible for my own safety rather than place the onus on a venue/another person.
And no the club was not at fault, it was a tragic incident.
My thoughts are with this persons family x
If I pay an operator to get on their train I expect the operator to have discharged all their responsibilities to keep me safe. If they have then yes, it’s unfortunate and no liability on anyone.
The club is not liable, as someone who was present at the time and for the respect of the person who tragically lost their life and those who where involved.
I am not going to say anything other than a Thank You to all the staff and guests for coming together and working as a team to help someone in need. "
Ok, that’s good then. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..
Because its we known swinging club maybe..."
I was there, the week before this poor man died.
Abfab is the night time party venue for swingers
Kestrels is the daytime naturist/swinger venue.
This club doesn't have an official listing on this site.
Plenty of forum users would have visited their previous building, over the years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's been a fair few people die at the posh gym/health club near me over the years (they post memorials on the club facebook page  ) - heart attack, stroke, epilepsy etc - but because they have clothes on the Sun doesn't report on that. Nor is it the club's fault. Cardiac arrests and such can strike at any time.
How very sad for the gentleman and for those who witnessed and tried to help. |
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"..didn’t something similar happen in the pool at the old Abfabs?..sympathises to the gentleman’s family and staff at the venue. It must of been harrowing.
Think that was Radletts"
Yes that was Radletts
https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-beds-bucks-herts-32114015.amp |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..
Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.
(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk)"
True, you can't force club goers to remember to take their medication, such as inhalers, angina tablets or the like.
That is solely down to the individual, not the hosts. |
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