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Kestrels first time, what to expect
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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago
Ruislip |
Expect nothing is the best advice.
In the day time sometimes you can be the only person in there. Have a walk, explore, get your steps up, do some lengths of the pool, sit in the hot tubs, have a wank in the cinema if you like.
Just occasionally though there might be a few couples visiting in which case have a chat and see what they are looking for.
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Hey all
As a single bloke, I'm considering visting Kestrels during the day midweek over the next couple of weeks. Just wondered what to expect and any tips you've got on what to do / what goes on?"
. I have been to the new Kestrels just once but often go to Rios as location wise it’s easier for me.When going to a spa my attitude is to enjoy the facilities chat to people and if a couple talk to both after that if anything else is a bonus no expectations no disappointments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been meaning on trying it but just haven't got round to it"
It's a lovely place, for some chilling in the pool and for making new connections.
I'm going tomorrow with some friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been meaning on trying it but just haven't got round to it
It's a lovely place, for some chilling in the pool and for making new connections.
I'm going tomorrow with some friends "
I don't drive so it will take effort on my part to get there which is why I haven't been so far. |
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We went last Saturday afternoon for the first time
We spent time in the large heated pool and the spas. Upstairs we got talking to a couple of guys in the bar area.
Invited one to the private room for sex and had a bit of an audience.
Overall it’s clean, nice facilities and lots of relaxations rooms. There was 2 other couples and 2 single girls and about 10 single guys.
Check out their blog as you need to prove you have had at least 1 jab.
Enjoy
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"Hey all
As a single bloke, I'm considering visting Kestrels during the day midweek over the next couple of weeks. Just wondered what to expect and any tips you've got on what to do / what goes on?"
Engage verbally with people. Just talk about normal stuff. If you are talking to a couple don`t just talk to the lady. Several guys, who Sue wouldn`t even have looked at once in the street, have got lucky, purely because they have engaged with both of us and not been leery. It`s not all about looks. If you have a nice personality, this will shine through, and like others, you may get lucky.
Don`t be one of the Wanking Dead who follow ladies and couples around wherever they go in the hope that they may get some action. A complete turn off. These guys cannot expect to get anywhere if they don`t converse or even make eye contact, which a lot of them don`t. Oh, and depending on what handed you are, make sure you wear your locker key on the other hand. Nothing more off putting, if you are playing in public, than to hear the constant rattling of locker keys. |
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By *ove2Couple
over a year ago
colchester |
"Hey all
As a single bloke, I'm considering visting Kestrels during the day midweek over the next couple of weeks. Just wondered what to expect and any tips you've got on what to do / what goes on?
Engage verbally with people. Just talk about normal stuff. If you are talking to a couple don`t just talk to the lady. Several guys, who Sue wouldn`t even have looked at once in the street, have got lucky, purely because they have engaged with both of us and not been leery. It`s not all about looks. If you have a nice personality, this will shine through, and like others, you may get lucky.
Don`t be one of the Wanking Dead who follow ladies and couples around wherever they go in the hope that they may get some action. A complete turn off. These guys cannot expect to get anywhere if they don`t converse or even make eye contact, which a lot of them don`t. Oh, and depending on what handed you are, make sure you wear your locker key on the other hand. Nothing more off putting, if you are playing in public, than to hear the constant rattling of locker keys."
So well said as that is how my wife feels about men. |
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"Hey all
As a single bloke, I'm considering visting Kestrels during the day midweek over the next couple of weeks. Just wondered what to expect and any tips you've got on what to do / what goes on?
Engage verbally with people. Just talk about normal stuff. If you are talking to a couple don`t just talk to the lady. Several guys, who Sue wouldn`t even have looked at once in the street, have got lucky, purely because they have engaged with both of us and not been leery. It`s not all about looks. If you have a nice personality, this will shine through, and like others, you may get lucky.
Don`t be one of the Wanking Dead who follow ladies and couples around wherever they go in the hope that they may get some action. A complete turn off. These guys cannot expect to get anywhere if they don`t converse or even make eye contact, which a lot of them don`t. Oh, and depending on what handed you are, make sure you wear your locker key on the other hand. Nothing more off putting, if you are playing in public, than to hear the constant rattling of locker keys."
You're spot on I've seen alot of men harassing and making couples uncomfortable and ready to leave the place. Locker keys always go around my ankl |
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"Hey all
As a single bloke, I'm considering visting Kestrels during the day midweek over the next couple of weeks. Just wondered what to expect and any tips you've got on what to do / what goes on?
Engage verbally with people. Just talk about normal stuff. If you are talking to a couple don`t just talk to the lady. Several guys, who Sue wouldn`t even have looked at once in the street, have got lucky, purely because they have engaged with both of us and not been leery. It`s not all about looks. If you have a nice personality, this will shine through, and like others, you may get lucky.
Don`t be one of the Wanking Dead who follow ladies and couples around wherever they go in the hope that they may get some action. A complete turn off. These guys cannot expect to get anywhere if they don`t converse or even make eye contact, which a lot of them don`t. Oh, and depending on what handed you are, make sure you wear your locker key on the other hand. Nothing more off putting, if you are playing in public, than to hear the constant rattling of locker keys.
You're spot on I've seen alot of men harassing and making couples uncomfortable and ready to leave the place. Locker keys always go around my ankl "
At Kestrels we can’t say we have been harassed.
Overwhelmingly the single men there are polite and respectful. |
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"Hey all
As a single bloke, I'm considering visting Kestrels during the day midweek over the next couple of weeks. Just wondered what to expect and any tips you've got on what to do / what goes on?
Engage verbally with people. Just talk about normal stuff. If you are talking to a couple don`t just talk to the lady. Several guys, who Sue wouldn`t even have looked at once in the street, have got lucky, purely because they have engaged with both of us and not been leery. It`s not all about looks. If you have a nice personality, this will shine through, and like others, you may get lucky.
Don`t be one of the Wanking Dead who follow ladies and couples around wherever they go in the hope that they may get some action. A complete turn off. These guys cannot expect to get anywhere if they don`t converse or even make eye contact, which a lot of them don`t. Oh, and depending on what handed you are, make sure you wear your locker key on the other hand. Nothing more off putting, if you are playing in public, than to hear the constant rattling of locker keys.
You're spot on I've seen alot of men harassing and making couples uncomfortable and ready to leave the place. Locker keys always go around my ankl
At Kestrels we can’t say we have been harassed.
Overwhelmingly the single men there are polite and respectful. "
totally true I never been at kestrels I became a member but never attended myself hence why I'm going to do it soon.
I hope the place is very inviting |
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Don't expect anything, take advantage of their amazing wet facilities and just relax. If there are any ladies or couples, at least smile, and try to engage in a polite conversation. If you don't think you're getting anywhere, please move on rather than keep trying. It's very off-putting if I already made it clear, in my opinion, that I am not interested yet the man in question keeps following me or keeps trying his luck.
If you do get invited to play, follow boundaries set by them.
And please don't just show off your cock to people. When I went with my partner and our friends, there was a guy there who never spoke to anyone, as far as I'm aware, don't even think he got into a pool or hot tub. He just kept coming to the swimming pool area when we were there, taking off his towel and just showing us his cock from different angles. Yes, he had a decent member, rather big actually, but I don't go for dick only. Maybe some do, but don't think it's very often. |
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