Swingers clubs are places for swingers to go to and socialise with other like-minded people. Some go to have sex there, too, some go to watch others have sex, some go hoping they'd get sex. But first and foremost, swingers clubs are for socialising with confidence that all other people inside are (or willing to be) swingers. Therefore people are able to have more open conversations about sex, different fantasies, kinks. They can also dress provocatively or walk around naked, without getting the wrong kind of attention.
What swingers clubs ARE NOT, is a free-for-all orgy as soon as you get through the door. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Swingers clubs are places for swingers to go to and socialise with other like-minded people. Some go to have sex there, too, some go to watch others have sex, some go hoping they'd get sex. But first and foremost, swingers clubs are for socialising with confidence that all other people inside are (or willing to be) swingers. Therefore people are able to have more open conversations about sex, different fantasies, kinks. They can also dress provocatively or walk around naked, without getting the wrong kind of attention.
What swingers clubs ARE NOT, is a free-for-all orgy as soon as you get through the door. "
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
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Thank you for the explanation as I was also thinking the same question. I have never been to a club and would like to although I would not know how to go about it. Not being an orgy eases my mind willing to fit in is my question. |
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"Thank you for the explanation as I was also thinking the same question. I have never been to a club and would like to although I would not know how to go about it. Not being an orgy eases my mind willing to fit in is my question."
Just imagine it as a kind of a very friendly pub where people may not wear a lot and may have sex in open play areas.
Most clubs (99%) are very inclusive, all body shapes, ages, levels of "prettiness".
Have a look at the Clubs reviews section for a list of clubs in UK divided into areas. It would show you where the clubs are, if there are any near you, as well as it has links to clubs websites.
Before first visit, check the club's requirements regarding single men, and whether or not single men are even allowed in on that night (a lot of clubs limit Saturday nights to women and couples only, for example). Contact the club beforehand, tell them it's going to be your first time. A member of staff would give you a tour of the club and explain the rules, potentially also introduce you to some of the regulars.
Do make sure you check payment facilities in the club- there are still some clubs that only accept cash. |
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I'd add that clubs are relatively safe spaces to be able to express yourself as you wish. Mobiles are typically banned so no risk of unwanted photos surfacing on social media, and attitudes are generally more accepting which for me at least means a more relaxed evening |
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Yes they are nice places for social gatherings of people who like to spice up there sex lives without being judged ,A place for couples and some singles to either have explicit fun with ,or with people watching or watching others , maybe just to get naked and enjoy the facilities, like someone else has said not a brothel where some guys think they can just walk in and expect to have sex with who they chose , luckily the club we use is well managed and we have never come across anything like that |
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