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My first swingers club experience
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm looking to go to my first ever night at a swingers club/spa but I'm looking for a lady to come with me to 'show me the ropes' as such.
Swindon, Bournemouth, Brighton etc...
Message me or reply to this if you're interested x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry but I don’t think you’ll have much success with this request. I can’t imagine that many ladies would like to attend a club with a stranger. Perhaps try and arrange a meet at one? |
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Do what I did when I first started out. Go to clubs on your own, and once you've settled with a regular one, and put in the effort of socialising with people, you'll find your circle of swinging friends should increase. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go on your own, go with no expectations, talk to people with the aim of having a good night out and meeting new people. If something happens then that’s a bonus |
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"I'm looking to go to my first ever night at a swingers club/spa but I'm looking for a lady to come with me to 'show me the ropes' as such.
Swindon, Bournemouth, Brighton etc...
Message me or reply to this if you're interested x"
If I can go to a club alone you can go to a club on your own plus you would get better luck |
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"Put your big boy pants on and go alone - you'll have a better time and more chance of success."
To be fair, I found it similar to Moses parting the waves being a solo guy in the clubs, but far easier to chat with other people when in the company of a female. I doubt I will ever visit a club as a solo guy again  |
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"Go on your own, go with no expectations, talk to people with the aim of having a good night out and meeting new people. If something happens then that’s a bonus"
Couldn't agree more with this advice |
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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago
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Go on your own, imagine your just going to the most friendly pub ever and be respectful and friendly, anything after that is a bonus and if nothing happens at least you have had a nice night out and met loads of amazing people x |
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"I'm also a club virgin and really want to try one out. Which is the best in leeds to try?  "
I think for a first time visit Quest is better as it is much smaller (easier to get chatting) and all on one level. |
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Brilliant information as i am considering going to Sutton on the 7th of August. A lady was interested in coming but doesn't feel she is ready. I now will go alone... Is there any advice things i should know?? Keep it positive  |
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