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VA bank hols BBQ 31st May
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hands up who’s going?! We’ve just booked, can’t wait! Should be an awesome start to the summer. |
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Not booked yet but planning on going. |
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It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds. |
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And yes, we are thinking of coming, will make a decision in the next couple days. |
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"Where is this please ?"
Off A1 near Sandy in Bedfordshire and Black Cat Roundabout. |
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Is there a web site for this?
If so can someone share a link? |
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Is there a web site for this?
If so can someone share a link? |
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We've booked. Can't wait!
For details check out pink_flamingo profile. |
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Tickets now booked. Looking forward to it. |
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"Is there a web site for this?
If so can someone share a link?"
Have a look at my profile for
Details xx |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Oh yes, putting this in the diary now! |
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"It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds. "
It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again. |
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"It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again."
That can, unfortunately, be the case in many swingers clubs, the "wanking zombies". |
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We are making plans to be there - crossing fingers  |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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On a warm day it is absolutely heavenly around the lux Lounge area, that with one of their new cocktails (with an ice lolly in it) just sounds like the perfect bank holiday to me! |
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"It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds.
It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again."
I’m thinking that must have been on milf club event. That’s the only event where that would be permitted. |
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I wish I was but single and only been 1 time  . Never mind I will come again soon |
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It's in my diary. Should be great fun |
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"I wish I was but single and only been 1 time . Never mind I will come again soon "
It’s open to everyone, it’s not a restricted event it’s just a bbq with friends x |
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"I wish I was but single and only been 1 time . Never mind I will come again soon
It’s open to everyone, it’s not a restricted event it’s just a bbq with friends x"
OK sorry i read it as I needed to have been 3 time to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ohhhhh this looks fun xx |
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Ohhhhh this is a maybe I think. Need to look into it |
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"I wish I was but single and only been 1 time . Never mind I will come again soon
It’s open to everyone, it’s not a restricted event it’s just a bbq with friends x OK sorry i read it as I needed to have been 3 time to you "
That’s the festival of fun in Aug x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks like we will be going |
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"Looks like we will be going "
Excellent  looks like it’ll be a great event abs chill day xx |
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
milton keynes and kent |
I want to go but need a partner.... any offers?? |
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"I want to go but need a partner.... any offers?? "
Why do you need a partner? The event is not restricted to couples only. |
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"I want to go but need a partner.... any offers?? "
Also, it is actually cheaper to go as a single guy than couple to this event. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes going just need to book.. The Lux Lounge is very well laid out brilliant for a social.
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
milton keynes and kent |
"I want to go but need a partner.... any offers??
Why do you need a partner? The event is not restricted to couples only. "
Having been to clubs alot as a single guy and also equally extensivly as a couple, it is my opinion that i get much better responses/attention when as a couple.
Although i should clarify the sex side of it is pretty much equal but the social side of swing clubs is far better as a couple and i enjoy that, especially at a bbq event. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow that was a shock.
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What was? xx |
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
milton keynes and kent |
Had an offer to go together then got blocked for asking to see her profile !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had an offer to go together then got blocked for asking to see her profile !!!"
Strange xx |
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
milton keynes and kent |
Well to be honest i was a bit daft posting asking for someone to go with lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well to be honest i was a bit daft posting asking for someone to go with lol."
Im sure you will be fine on your own xx |
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By *ayeandbenCouple
over a year ago
Clubs and hotels |
Thinking about it....... need to get back to naughtiness!!....... i mean normality!...........NOPE, definitely meant naughtiness  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finally sorted sitters so we could book our tickets |
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Yay..
Let's all do a sun dance the day before!! Would be out of this world if it was warm and sunny...
We just can't wait to see it all. |
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"It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds. "
Thanks so much for the heads up regarding there being another thread on this.. I should have found that instead of starting a new one.. Oops
Is the club itself with all the play rooms not gonna be open then? We were looking forward to having a nose around.. As some of the changes sound so awesome!! (I heard the back of the club will be open... As in the play rooms and not the dance floor / bar area
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I've received some absolute claffication...
So the back of the club will be open during this event.. (from midday - 8pm)  the couples area, play rooms, are all open.. Its just the dance floor, bar - sofa area that is closed xx
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"I've received some absolute claffication...
So the back of the club will be open during this event.. (from midday - 8pm) the couples area, play rooms, are all open.. Its just the dance floor, bar - sofa area that is closed xx
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That's great, though we are hoping for some sunshine and warm weather, too, to enjoy being naked or wearing next to nothing outside |
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"I've received some absolute claffication...
So the back of the club will be open during this event.. (from midday - 8pm) the couples area, play rooms, are all open.. Its just the dance floor, bar - sofa area that is closed xx
That's great, though we are hoping for some sunshine and warm weather, too, to enjoy being naked or wearing next to nothing outside"
Same here.. We haven't been naked around ppl in ages.. We had a small trip to our local nudist trip a couple of weeks ago but it was pretty damn cold and completely deserted |
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"I've received some absolute claffication...
So the back of the club will be open during this event.. (from midday - 8pm) the couples area, play rooms, are all open.. Its just the dance floor, bar - sofa area that is closed xx
That's great, though we are hoping for some sunshine and warm weather, too, to enjoy being naked or wearing next to nothing outside
Same here.. We haven't been naked around ppl in ages.. We had a small trip to our local nudist trip a couple of weeks ago but it was pretty damn cold and completely deserted "
We tried it a few weeks ago, when we had some warmer weather. Also, our local nudist club is a sun trap, luckily. But it was only Beast who stripped fully naked (even though he is normally one for shivering more). Devil only got her boobs out. |
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By *redy81Man
over a year ago
London |
Just a quick question. I really want to go, but not sure yet if I can make myself free for that day workwise, so no point to book my ticket yet.
Is that any limit for single guys? What happens, if it gets extremely busy? After all this madness that we went through, I can imagine that happen... |
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Gutted to be missing this. I'll have to wait a few more weeks til I can get there for a well deserved chill |
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"Just a quick question. I really want to go, but not sure yet if I can make myself free for that day workwise, so no point to book my ticket yet.
Is that any limit for single guys? What happens, if it gets extremely busy? After all this madness that we went through, I can imagine that happen... "
We have 8 acres and as it’s a bbq pool party and not actually a swinging event we don’t limit single guys. This is predominantly a naturism lifestyle event, however those that wish to partake in the rule of 6 may safely do so if following the guidelines that our risk assessment states, this will be a non negotiable guidance as it has been passed by the eho.
So all in all, it’ll be fun and everyone is welcome but don’t test my patience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a quick question. I really want to go, but not sure yet if I can make myself free for that day workwise, so no point to book my ticket yet.
Is that any limit for single guys? What happens, if it gets extremely busy? After all this madness that we went through, I can imagine that happen...
We have 8 acres and as it’s a bbq pool party and not actually a swinging event we don’t limit single guys. This is predominantly a naturism lifestyle event, however those that wish to partake in the rule of 6 may safely do so if following the guidelines that our risk assessment states, this will be a non negotiable guidance as it has been passed by the eho.
So all in all, it’ll be fun and everyone is welcome but don’t test my patience "
Haha the boss has spoken! |
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Just got my ticket very much looking forward to a fab day out. Say hi if you are going |
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"Just a quick question. I really want to go, but not sure yet if I can make myself free for that day workwise, so no point to book my ticket yet.
Is that any limit for single guys? What happens, if it gets extremely busy? After all this madness that we went through, I can imagine that happen...
We have 8 acres and as it’s a bbq pool party and not actually a swinging event we don’t limit single guys. This is predominantly a naturism lifestyle event, however those that wish to partake in the rule of 6 may safely do so if following the guidelines that our risk assessment states, this will be a non negotiable guidance as it has been passed by the eho.
So all in all, it’ll be fun and everyone is welcome but don’t test my patience
Haha the boss has spoken! "
We love the boss.... Can't wait to see you... X |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again.
That can, unfortunately, be the case in many swingers clubs, the "wanking zombies". "
Sadly, crossbows are prohibited. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Ohhhhh this is a maybe I think. Need to look into it"
Come on over Cali, you'll love it, I'll introduce you to Lloyd too. Hehehehe. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I've received some absolute claffication...
So the back of the club will be open during this event.. (from midday - 8pm) the couples area, play rooms, are all open.. Its just the dance floor, bar - sofa area that is closed xx
That's great, though we are hoping for some sunshine and warm weather, too, to enjoy being naked or wearing next to nothing outside
Same here.. We haven't been naked around ppl in ages.. We had a small trip to our local nudist trip a couple of weeks ago but it was pretty damn cold and completely deserted
We tried it a few weeks ago, when we had some warmer weather. Also, our local nudist club is a sun trap, luckily. But it was only Beast who stripped fully naked (even though he is normally one for shivering more). Devil only got her boobs out. "
I have proof of this on camera. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bumping this as it's next week! |
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"Bumping this as it's next week!"
Yes, and we can't wait! Counting down the days. |
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"Bumping this as it's next week!"
Well the 31st…don’t take my time away Ive got stuff to prepare haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s come so quickly... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Need to buy a ticket... ASAP.. |
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Just look up vanilla alternative swingers club it’s got a good website hope that’s ok |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I'm very much looking forward to this, and fingers crossed for the warm weather otherwise I might have to bring an umbrella (or transparent plastic mac....kinky!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s come so quickly... "
That's what she said |
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Definitely gonna be there... who is coming?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are coming. Looking forward to this |
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We are coming, tickets booked. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"We are coming, tickets booked. "
Brolly at the ready too, it's yellow and big enough for two. |
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By *redy81Man
over a year ago
London |
" We have 8 acres and as it’s a bbq pool party and not actually a swinging event we don’t limit single guys. This is predominantly a naturism lifestyle event, however those that wish to partake in the rule of 6 may safely do so if following the guidelines that our risk assessment states, this will be a non negotiable guidance as it has been passed by the eho.
So all in all, it’ll be fun and everyone is welcome but don’t test my patience "
Thanks, it sounds amazing. One thing, I`m not sure how can I get back to London after 8pm on bank holiday, but I guess a taxi to Bedford, then the train will work. :D
Thanks for your response! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking forward to it .. can’t wait ..xx |
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" We have 8 acres and as it’s a bbq pool party and not actually a swinging event we don’t limit single guys. This is predominantly a naturism lifestyle event, however those that wish to partake in the rule of 6 may safely do so if following the guidelines that our risk assessment states, this will be a non negotiable guidance as it has been passed by the eho.
So all in all, it’ll be fun and everyone is welcome but don’t test my patience
Thanks, it sounds amazing. One thing, I`m not sure how can I get back to London after 8pm on bank holiday, but I guess a taxi to Bedford, then the train will work. :D
Thanks for your response! "
We'd suggest train to Sandy, then taxi to VA. Less mileage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Thanks, it sounds amazing. One thing, I`m not sure how can I get back to London after 8pm on bank holiday, but I guess a taxi to Bedford, then the train will work. :D
Thanks for your response! "
Simply step out of the front door and you're on the A1. Just stick your thumb out, you should get picked up...just make sure it is your thumb and nothing else, don't want to distract all those lorry drivers  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well that's us out now, thankfully a vile individual we would never want to run into has said they're going, it would ruin our experience.
To everyone else who is going, have an amazing day at a wonderful venue, it's going to be great! |
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Can I just remind the single chaps
Planning on attending that they MUST HAVE A CURRENT MEMBERSHIP NUMBER to attend.
This isn’t negotiable fellas….you will be asked for this on arrival.
Ta muchly
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
milton keynes and kent |
How do we get a membership number ???? |
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"How do we get a membership number ????"
Apply online, have a look at my profile |
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"Well that's us out now, thankfully a vile individual we would never want to run into has said they're going, it would ruin our experience.
To everyone else who is going, have an amazing day at a wonderful venue, it's going to be great! "
That's a shame, we were hoping to bump into you |
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
milton keynes and kent |
"How do we get a membership number ????
Apply online, have a look at my profile "
Well i assume i must be a member seeing as i have been lots of times both as a single and as a couple. |
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"How do we get a membership number ????
Apply online, have a look at my profile
Well i assume i must be a member seeing as i have been lots of times both as a single and as a couple."
Nope not at all, we are asking everyone to re-register as we have a new website abs membership has been started again. So please re-register. |
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"How do we get a membership number ????
Apply online, have a look at my profile
Well i assume i must be a member seeing as i have been lots of times both as a single and as a couple.
Nope not at all, we are asking everyone to re-register as we have a new website abs membership has been started again. So please re-register."
Listen to the boss! Lol. It's not that complicated, doesn't even take 5 min to register. And it's free. |
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
milton keynes and kent |
"How do we get a membership number ????
Apply online, have a look at my profile
Well i assume i must be a member seeing as i have been lots of times both as a single and as a couple.
Nope not at all, we are asking everyone to re-register as we have a new website abs membership has been started again. So please re-register.
Listen to the boss! Lol. It's not that complicated, doesn't even take 5 min to register. And it's free. "
Lol thats me told. |
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"How do we get a membership number ????
Apply online, have a look at my profile
Well i assume i must be a member seeing as i have been lots of times both as a single and as a couple.
Nope not at all, we are asking everyone to re-register as we have a new website abs membership has been started again. So please re-register.
Listen to the boss! Lol. It's not that complicated, doesn't even take 5 min to register. And it's free. "
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We have just booked, cant wait to see you all xx |
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I cannot seems to get a reply either from Phone line ,mobile phone or email address so not sure if I am coming there or not lol and this is the first time I booked a day off to attend the milf club
Can so some one please guide how to get the ticket |
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"I cannot seems to get a reply either from Phone line ,mobile phone or email address so not sure if I am coming there or not lol and this is the first time I booked a day off to attend the milf club
Can so some one please guide how to get the ticket "
This has nothing to do with milf, but you will need to register on the new site. Details in my profile |
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Would this be a good taster for a new couple to clubs ?? |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
"Would this be a good taster for a new couple to clubs ?? "
As an opportunity to see what The Vanilla Alternative has to offer and meet lots of like minded people, definitely yes. Don't forget to bring your own towels in case you get tempted to try the hot tub. |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just re-registered in the website, hoping all is good to get a ticket in time |
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By *redy81Man
over a year ago
London |
"We'd suggest train to Sandy, then taxi to VA. Less mileage. "
Thx for the tip! |
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By *redy81Man
over a year ago
London |
"Can I just remind the single chaps
Planning on attending that they MUST HAVE A CURRENT MEMBERSHIP NUMBER to attend.
This isn’t negotiable fellas….you will be asked for this on arrival.
Ta muchly
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Thx a lot for this, I`d have missed that! Now it`s done waiting for response. |
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"Would this be a good taster for a new couple to clubs ?? "
Yes it would be a fab place to start xx |
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"Hands up who’s going?! We’ve just booked, can’t wait! Should be an awesome start to the summer."
Can't wait to see you there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's going to be a sunny day... LUX Lounge in full affect |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Well to be honest i was a bit daft posting asking for someone to go with lol.
Im sure you will be fine on your own xx"
Being as a couple is good for the male ego. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's going to be a sunny day on the 31st .. LUX Lounge in full affect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were looking forward to it but now wondering if its still going ahead! Current news this morning is no travel allowed into and out of Bedfordshire. Waiting for more government advice and update from club.  |
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"We were looking forward to it but now wondering if its still going ahead! Current news this morning is no travel allowed into and out of Bedfordshire. Waiting for more government advice and update from club. "
Seems bizarre the government updated their website but didn't inform councillors or make a public announcement |
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Glad i hadn't heard about the travel restrictions. I just booked my visit and really looking forward to the bbq and meeting people again |
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"We were looking forward to it but now wondering if its still going ahead! Current news this morning is no travel allowed into and out of Bedfordshire. Waiting for more government advice and update from club. "
That’s not something we’ve been informed of
By the council, eho, or government. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was all over this mornings breakfast news! Apparently the government posted it on Friday but didn't tell anyone! |
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"It was all over this mornings breakfast news! Apparently the government posted it on Friday but didn't tell anyone! "
It’s guidance, we don’t fall into the area affected.
Just spoke to our HSE chap and he has advised that we are still able to go ahead. As of this morning…let’s hope it doesn’t change again! |
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By *woodcplCouple
over a year ago
Borehamwood |
Doesn’t look like it’s enforceable in any way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was all over this mornings breakfast news! Apparently the government posted it on Friday but didn't tell anyone!
It’s guidance, we don’t fall into the area affected.
Just spoke to our HSE chap and he has advised that we are still able to go ahead. As of this morning…let’s hope it doesn’t change again!"
Phew! No more bad news this week please!! |
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over a year ago
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If nothing changes for the worse then we will be there |
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over a year ago
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We will be going. Looking forward to being back there after so long! |
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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago
East Midlands |
Hoping to go on Monday, looking forward to getting to VA again and seeing LUX lounge
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over a year ago
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"Hoping to go on Monday, looking forward to getting to VA again and seeing LUX lounge
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The weather is looking promising |
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By *andS69Couple
over a year ago
bury st edmunds |
Going on Monday ?? Hope the weather meets the forecast! Is clothing optional? ?? |
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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We're still torn...up for LAM on Sunday, have tickets for Mon....may be weather dependent and how we feel in the day. Or if anyone wants to try really hard to convince us.... |
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By *andS69Couple
over a year ago
bury st edmunds |
"It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds.
It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again."
That’s a shame, I hope this event will be better attended by a nice mixture of couples, ladies and gents and VA/Lux will keep the single male numbers under control. Nobody wants single guys wanking |
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By *andS69Couple
over a year ago
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"We're still torn...up for LAM on Sunday, have tickets for Mon....may be weather dependent and how we feel in the day. Or if anyone wants to try really hard to convince us.... "
We’ll have to try, and what’s LAM? |
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over a year ago
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London alternative market! X |
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"We were looking forward to it but now wondering if its still going ahead! Current news this morning is no travel allowed into and out of Bedfordshire. Waiting for more government advice and update from club. "
Bedford itself, not Bedfordshire. And it seems that no one mentioned it to the localities. Just put it on the government Website Friday afternoon... |
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"It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds.
It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again.
That’s a shame, I hope this event will be better attended by a nice mixture of couples, ladies and gents and VA/Lux will keep the single male numbers under control. Nobody wants single guys wanking "
If you look on one of the comments above, this is considered a social event with everyone welcome. Though all single men that want to come have to be members (simple and quick registration via their website). |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds.
It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again.
That’s a shame, I hope this event will be better attended by a nice mixture of couples, ladies and gents and VA/Lux will keep the single male numbers under control. Nobody wants single guys wanking "
electric bug zappers, anyone? |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"We have just booked, cant wait to see you all xx"
I'll be there with my other half, . Looking forward to it too. |
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"It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds.
It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again.
That’s a shame, I hope this event will be better attended by a nice mixture of couples, ladies and gents and VA/Lux will keep the single male numbers under control. Nobody wants single guys wanking
If you look on one of the comments above, this is considered a social event with everyone welcome. Though all single men that want to come have to be members (simple and quick registration via their website). "
Well it’s not milf club abs it’s a day time bbq so it’s not the same at all. The day described above was an event that is supposed to weigh heavily on single men as it is a greedy girl event.
The BBQ on bank holiday is not this event! Numbers are controlled abs it is not a free for all. Hope this helps out things into perspective a little x |
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Hoping the weather is going to be kind. Looking forward to this event |
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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago
East Midlands |
"Hoping to go on Monday, looking forward to getting to VA again and seeing LUX lounge
The weather is looking promising"
Getting better by the day, tickets bought and looking forward to it |
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"It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds.
It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again.
That’s a shame, I hope this event will be better attended by a nice mixture of couples, ladies and gents and VA/Lux will keep the single male numbers under control. Nobody wants single guys wanking
If you look on one of the comments above, this is considered a social event with everyone welcome. Though all single men that want to come have to be members (simple and quick registration via their website).
Well it’s not milf club abs it’s a day time bbq so it’s not the same at all. The day described above was an event that is supposed to weigh heavily on single men as it is a greedy girl event.
The BBQ on bank holiday is not this event! Numbers are controlled abs it is not a free for all. Hope this helps out things into perspective a little x"
Is it ok if girls lay round the pool wanking.. asking for a friend |
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"It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds.
It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again.
That’s a shame, I hope this event will be better attended by a nice mixture of couples, ladies and gents and VA/Lux will keep the single male numbers under control. Nobody wants single guys wanking
If you look on one of the comments above, this is considered a social event with everyone welcome. Though all single men that want to come have to be members (simple and quick registration via their website).
Well it’s not milf club abs it’s a day time bbq so it’s not the same at all. The day described above was an event that is supposed to weigh heavily on single men as it is a greedy girl event.
The BBQ on bank holiday is not this event! Numbers are controlled abs it is not a free for all. Hope this helps out things into perspective a little x
Is it ok if girls lay round the pool wanking.. asking for a friend "
Yer why not |
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"Hoping to go on Monday, looking forward to getting to VA again and seeing LUX lounge
The weather is looking promising
Getting better by the day, tickets bought and looking forward to it"
Woop Woop. It's going to be a great afternoon! |
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22 that is just about right. Let hope for a great day |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds.
It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again.
That’s a shame, I hope this event will be better attended by a nice mixture of couples, ladies and gents and VA/Lux will keep the single male numbers under control. Nobody wants single guys wanking
If you look on one of the comments above, this is considered a social event with everyone welcome. Though all single men that want to come have to be members (simple and quick registration via their website).
Well it’s not milf club abs it’s a day time bbq so it’s not the same at all. The day described above was an event that is supposed to weigh heavily on single men as it is a greedy girl event.
The BBQ on bank holiday is not this event! Numbers are controlled abs it is not a free for all. Hope this helps out things into perspective a little x
Is it ok if girls lay round the pool wanking.. asking for a friend "
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Hoping my (2) registrations go through in time to come along, in slightly less glamourous attire! |
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Tickets booked. Can't wait to relax in the sun with friends |
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We are thinking of coming just waiting on our membership approval fingers crossed it comes through in time x |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
Applied for membership so if it's good news I'd like to come along. Keeping fingers crossed!! |
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"Applied for membership so if it's good news I'd like to come along. Keeping fingers crossed!!"
I think all the single guy tickets are now gone according to the website booking page. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
"Applied for membership so if it's good news I'd like to come along. Keeping fingers crossed!!
I think all the single guy tickets are now gone according to the website booking page. "
Ah, that's a shame. Maybe another time then. |
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"We are thinking of coming just waiting on our membership approval fingers crossed it comes through in time x"
All been done! Couples are welcome without membership as you can do it on the day if not.
However I have done them all xx |
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"We are thinking of coming just waiting on our membership approval fingers crossed it comes through in time x
All been done! Couples are welcome without membership as you can do it on the day if not.
However I have done them all xx"
Hi, not got anything back? |
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over a year ago
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Looking forward to it! It's been far too long! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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The question is, is it going to be too warm for a latex dress? |
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over a year ago
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"The question is, is it going to be too warm for a latex dress? "
Never too hot |
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over a year ago
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What to wear ? Is it ok to wear heels .XX |
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"What to wear ? Is it ok to wear heels .XX "
Well we have had that discussion several times with and our friends too. So Tina is taking a summer dress, and casual summer wear and a couple other options! Lol
She’s also taking heels but taking wedges so you can walk on the grass which will probably be the surface you’ll walk in the most.
Had to tell what the vibe will be like. So taking several options. Sexy, everyday and naked of course in case it’s comfortable to do a bit of naturism. Lol
Best of luck. |
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"Is anybody staying over?"
I believe the hotel is full so yes! |
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"The question is, is it going to be too warm for a latex dress? "
We don’t mind if you wear latex!
It’s always hot (temperature wise) wearing latex sooner or later but if you take a few outfits you can always strut your stuff in latex then change!
Though I reckon at 24 degrees if your latex is black you’ll last about ten minutes!!! |
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"What to wear ? Is it ok to wear heels .XX "
Lux Lounge is a "clothing optional" venue so we'd expect people to wear as little as they dare? We have no problem being naked, we are quite comfortable with all our wobbly bits, scars etc. But we find it rather uncomfortable being naked (or wearing as little as people dare) when others are dressed to a T and stay like that during the event. |
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Anyone know if it’s ok to turn up as a couple and pay on the door. It appears we can no longer buy tickets online
Also do we have to register online prior to attending if we have been before
Many thanks
Ian and becks |
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"What to wear ? Is it ok to wear heels .XX
Lux Lounge is a "clothing optional" venue so we'd expect people to wear as little as they dare? We have no problem being naked, we are quite comfortable with all our wobbly bits, scars etc. But we find it rather uncomfortable being naked (or wearing as little as people dare) when others are dressed to a T and stay like that during the event. "
As this is kind of a one off and more or less first of the season event it’s hard to tell what the mood will be like so we are being prepared for all eventualities.
I think a lot will go for the naturism but a lot may go to have a chance to dress up (even if it’s just summer wear) for the first time in ages!!! I’m going for the food so one hopes that will be well organised! Lol
So it would be great if people will be tolerant of whatever others do and not expect others to ‘fall into line’ with their pre-conceptions of what they think the event is all about!!!
We are just hoping for a chilled day with no other expectations! |
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"Anyone know if it’s ok to turn up as a couple and pay on the door. It appears we can no longer buy tickets online
Also do we have to register online prior to attending if we have been before
Many thanks
Ian and becks "
The ticket sales stopped 48 hrs before the event. But the tickets are £50 on the door so only £6 more after booking fees than online, BUT I believe you have to be registered with the club, get a membership number and then membership is validated when you arrive at the venue (I think you need photo ID as you have to upload your face photos when joining).
So you may be too late to join for tomorrow but worth trying today regardless and maybe contact the club and ask nicely if they can priorities your membership. Always worth a try.
Good luck.
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"Anyone know if it’s ok to turn up as a couple and pay on the door. It appears we can no longer buy tickets online
Also do we have to register online prior to attending if we have been before
Many thanks
Ian and becks "
If you look further back on this thread Pink Flamingo said the following....
Couples are welcome without membership as you can do it on the day if not.
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We’re thinking of going and just got out email back confirming the membership - but you’re absolutely right - couples can do it on the day looking forward to it! Should be good fun and weather is supposed to be amazing |
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over a year ago
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Can anyone be a little more clear?
I'm not a member.
May come as a single or couple.
Can we/I just turn up tomorrow? |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
"Can anyone be a little more clear?
I'm not a member.
May come as a single or couple.
Can we/I just turn up tomorrow? "
Single guys have to be pre-booked. Couples and single ladies can pay on the door and if not members, sort that out at the same time. |
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So excited for tomorrow - it’s going to be a scorcher. Can’t wait to see all you sexy people x |
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over a year ago
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"Can anyone be a little more clear?
I'm not a member.
May come as a single or couple.
Can we/I just turn up tomorrow?
Single guys have to be pre-booked. Couples and single ladies can pay on the door and if not members, sort that out at the same time."
Perfect thank you |
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"It's Lux Lounge rather than VA (as clubs are not allowed to open yet), but they do share the grounds.
Lux Lounge is a clothing optional venue on the grounds of Vanilla Alternative swingers club. They are open during the day, for Ibiza-style parties. So they are best when the weather is playing ball. We'd describe it as Eureka-like venue on this side of Dartford Crossing, though with smaller grounds.
It's a beautiful setting, with the owners having spent a lot of money on fixtures and fittings around the hot tub. Unfortunately everywhere I turned there were men sitting round the hot tub wanking. Not a pleasant sight and it's put me off going again.
That’s a shame, I hope this event will be better attended by a nice mixture of couples, ladies and gents and VA/Lux will keep the single male numbers under control. Nobody wants single guys wanking
If you look on one of the comments above, this is considered a social event with everyone welcome. Though all single men that want to come have to be members (simple and quick registration via their website).
Well it’s not milf club abs it’s a day time bbq so it’s not the same at all. The day described above was an event that is supposed to weigh heavily on single men as it is a greedy girl event.
The BBQ on bank holiday is not this event! Numbers are controlled abs it is not a free for all. Hope this helps out things into perspective a little x
Is it ok if girls lay round the pool wanking.. asking for a friend "
Absolutely okay!! I have a charged up waterproof wand ready for the joint wanking around the pool.. Can't wait xx |
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"So excited for tomorrow - it’s going to be a scorcher. Can’t wait to see all you sexy people x"
Can't wait to see you all sexy peeps too! Xx |
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Ooooooo not long now
So cannot wait to meet you all. Me and Paul are honestly beyond excited to see all the changes that have been made to the play rooms the weather is going to feel amazing - well worth the wait hey!! (it's been so bipolar lately - it will be nice for a steady warm day) xxx
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Ooooooo not long now
So cannot wait to meet you all. Me and Paul are honestly beyond excited to see all the changes that have been made to the play rooms the weather is going to feel amazing - well worth the wait hey!! (it's been so bipolar lately - it will be nice for a steady warm day) xxx
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
So today's the day and the whole team are looking forward to welcoming everyone back on what is promising to be a scorcher weather wise. Remember you need to bring your own towels (and suncream). |
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By *ngie40Woman
over a year ago
hemel |
I book the ticket and I just done the Online membership will that be okay |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
"I book the ticket and I just done the Online membership will that be okay "
Yes |
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By *ngie40Woman
over a year ago
hemel |
"I book the ticket and I just done the Online membership will that be okay
Yes"
Thanks |
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over a year ago
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There definitely needs to be a special forum page where girls discuss outfits... |
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"We are making plans to be there - crossing fingers "
Had a fantastic day out at this event. Sun, cocktails and the best vibe  |
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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago
East Midlands |
Fantastic day meeting up with friends, brilliantly organised by all at VA, LUX lounge looked awesome thank you everyone |
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over a year ago
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We both had a great time today, would love to see more events like this in the VA calendar! |
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"We both had a great time today, would love to see more events like this in the VA calendar!"
We definitely second that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was an excellent day in perfect weather. Was so lovely seeing everyone naked and happy |
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Well done VA! A great afternoon. Such a nice mix of people, a friendly vibe and awesome staff. Thanks all. |
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Wowww... what a lovely day and kudos to the great VA team.. fantastically organised and everyone that attended were nice, polite,beautiful and all had a lovely time. Shame to those that missed this event.. your loss.. one of the best day time event as the forum can testify to. It was an absolute pleasure to meet you happy lovely good hearted people. More please |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
Many thanks to everyone who attended and make it such an amazing day. The great feedback is so much appreciated. Wonderful seeing so many past visitors and all those attending for the first time. Hopefully as the year progresses we will get to see many of you at future VA events. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"We both had a great time today, would love to see more events like this in the VA calendar!
We definitely second that! "
Hats off to Pink Flamingo and the very busy team, who put on an amazing day. Just the perfect day. Can we bottle that?
We didn't want to go home. This was worth the wait.
Thank you Lux Lounge.
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Was Lovely to meet you! You’re such a nice girl! Wanted to send you a friend request but can’t! Add us |
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"We both had a great time today, would love to see more events like this in the VA calendar!
We definitely second that!
Hats off to Pink Flamingo and the very busy team, who put on an amazing day. Just the perfect day. Can we bottle that?
We didn't want to go home. This was worth the wait.
Thank you Lux Lounge.
x"
I agree...glad I attended... |
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