Single male Chams (first time)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm considering going to my first swingers club, Chams in Darlaston. Are single males frowned upon? or are they generally welcomed?

By *aveandkate35Couple over a year ago

telford

"I'm considering going to my first swingers club, Chams in Darlaston. Are single males frowned upon? or are they generally welcomed? "

Speak to the club first. Sometimes they have a waiting list for single males.

As for frowned on - like most things, only assholes are discouraged regardless of sex.

Personally we love Friday nights when single males are in. If you can behave yourself and hold a conversation, you'll be fine.

Cheers

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for the info

i'd like to think I can hold a conversation. I've been wanting to go for ages, i'm a bit nervous if i'm being honest lol.

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was thinking of joining chams,anyone know how much it is to join?

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"I was thinking of joining chams,anyone know how much it is to join?"

£75 i think, then yo have to pay entry

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was thinking of joining chams,anyone know how much it is to join?

£75 i think, then yo have to pay entry"

Ok thanks will phone them to see if there are any places for me

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am sure there is a long waiting list for the club for single men so i would ring and find out before you go there

By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Also, remember that membership is never guaranteed when you go along with your ID to join.

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are several other clubs around the area so if you can't get into chams then have a look at the others as they may have spaces

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i have been going to chams as a single guy for over a year now.

as far as i know we are not frowened upon, we are their main form of making money with memberships and entry fees.

saying that, how we are percieved by other couples and single ladies differ depending on what they are looking for.

in general, just remember you there to have a good time the same as everyone else, be polite and chat to people.