"Hi looking for a club to visit when they open just started to get into the way of things and me and wife would like to visit a club where iys not pushy and layed back"
hi guys , VA would be your best bet and not too far away |
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"Hi looking for a club to visit when they open just started to get into the way of things and me and wife would like to visit a club where iys not pushy and layed back"
To be honest op, I've never been to a 'pushy' club. No club owners or staff will push you , or even suggest to you that you do something. All that matters to them is that everyone is happy, comfortable and safe.
You two can decide to just sit and enjoy your drinks as you would in a pub, be a little, or a lot  more adventurous. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"Hi looking for a club to visit when they open just started to get into the way of things and me and wife would like to visit a club where iys not pushy and layed back
To be honest op, I've never been to a 'pushy' club. No club owners or staff will push you , or even suggest to you that you do something. All that matters to them is that everyone is happy, comfortable and safe.
You two can decide to just sit and enjoy your drinks as you would in a pub, be a little, or a lot more adventurous."
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As others have said, there aren't any swingers clubs where you'd be pushed, by management/staff, to do anything you're not comfortable with. However, nobody can guarantee there not being people who appear pushy, like trying to touch or join without asking or persistently following you. They can always be reported to staff and would be dealt with.
When you do choose your club, do remember that there are a few different types of clubs. Firstly, there are those like nightclubs, where it's dress up (smart casual, usually, but whatever you find comfortable and sexy; no trainers/sportswear) for most areas apart from wet areas.
Secondly, a step down from this, are clubs where you are dressed up at first or in the bar area, but if you want to proceed to wet areas or play areas, it's dress down (underwear/lingerie/towel to naked).
Thirdly, some clubs (spa-based ones) are dress down from the beginning.
As you are based in Leighton Buzzard, looking at your profile, your nearest swingers club is VA near Sandy (dress up then dress down for play areas and wet areas) and Jaydees near St Neots (dress up in most areas). A bit further you have Kestrels (daytime, spa based) and AbFabs (evenings, dress up) near Heathrow. Then up north- The Attic (I would avoid Thursday greedy girls nights if you don't want tons of single men in) and Chameleon in Darlaston (dress down), as well as Xstasia in Birmingham (dress up).
I think those are the nearest clubs for you. |
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