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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we went to abfab last night on bi night and yes we had fun but it was a little spoilt by to many single old men.
It was more dogging than swinging.#
All the couples there were great.sexy,funny and great to chat to before anything kinky happens which for us half the fun.
Single bi guys just come up to u without a smile and start wanking infront of your face...not for us!
Go find a layby on the a3 for that....
anyway,our piont is it would be great to pre arannge a couple before we go.
we know we are going to get a tun of abusse from this and our gripe isnt with sinlges,its the way most conducted themselfs.(remember,we said most!)
anyway,were hoping to go in two wkks time so lets talk about it...!xxxxx
helen  |
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depends where you go:
Darkroom; anything goes.
Grope cage; expect to be groped.
swing room and large bed room have lockable stable doors. Three other rooms (2 in the house are private) with locks and 7 lockable voyuer rooms, not enough for you?
Maybe you not quite ready for bi-club play yet, or just abfabs. |
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over a year ago
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They know exactly how to play..and I think the point being made was more about univited men approaching far to closely and even joining in univited wherever you play.
I fully appreciate that if you play in public you will be watched (surely that is why some of us fo it), but unless you are in a free for all area no one needs to "get in your face" - mostly literally in many cases  |
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"They know exactly how to play..and I think the point being made was more about univited men approaching far to closely and even joining in univited wherever you play.
I fully appreciate that if you play in public you will be watched (surely that is why some of us fo it), but unless you are in a free for all area no one needs to "get in your face" - mostly literally in many cases "
I understand this totaly and dont disagree about some men but also as a single guy if i stand a little too far back, im ignored if there is any 3rd party action: I think "the couple" think: im just there voyering.
Its a tough call how close is too close, within arms reach ? within 2 arms length ? + each couple has a different acceptance/tolerance level? I always ask, but others dont and where as im declined at that moment, but others who just touch/grope get accepted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should try The Vanilla Alternatives Bi night on the 31st of August, they vet all their single guys really well and if people feel uncomfortable with anyone in the club not just single guys, just tell the management and they will have a quiet word or if necessary ask them to leave.
We are going, even though mark is straight because they will be using a wrist band system to help people to know who is bi/gay/straight/curious and just social. which will be useful as i am bi but mark isn't. so he won't want to be hit on by guys all the time lol whereas i probably will (by guys and girls  ):P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I always ask, but others dont and where as im declined at that moment, but others who just touch/grope get accepted."
I would never accept someone just touching me or mark with no signals or communication. |
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