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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
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Erm no
If it was a free for all, there'd be this little problem of consent |
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over a year ago
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
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only if it’s that type of party |
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
Erm no
If it was a free for all, there'd be this little problem of consent"
Suppose that depends on what you want as to what you consent too |
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We found Infusion was good. Not sure what happening re opening. Otherwise a trip to Angels and Sinners in Walsall. A sex shop and very comfy and clean cinema ideal for a cuck to see guys using the missus. We go a bit when open Nice clientele too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As with any club night Greedy Girls parties aren’t just a free for all; it’s all about consensual play. You may get ladies who want to play with anyone who wants to play with them but the basic rules apply and anyone wanting to play in this type of situation should ask “Do you mind if I join you?”
Greedy Girls parties are normally just for ladies or coupes who enjoy playing with single men, but you do coupes who enjoy playing with other couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
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Infusions in Blackpool buse to do a greedy girls night in a Thursday,you could try that,when opened |
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"Don't exspect a million ladies to be there all gagging for it. Last one we went to, it was 3 ladies and only 2 were playing. "
A friend of mine was the only woman playing in a club with only 3 women in on the day. She did have fun with 9 guys though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
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Up for it for sure x |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
chesterfield |
It shouldn't be a free for all, unless that's what you want. You do need to keep your wits about you as there is a small minority of guys who think because its a swingers club they can just help themselves. Don't be afraid of saying no to someone who isn't your type , if they become abusive or struggle to understand no , don't be afraid to speak to a member of staff and they should deal with it . |
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
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Much as i like group sex i am very picky at who i shag. |
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Keep your eyes open and stay aware of who is around, potentially shuffling or pushing themselves towards you. I find it can be helpful to establish a system, where you make clear gestures to each guy that you want involved. It then marks someone out who's trying to impose themselves on to you - other guys will often deter them too |
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By *u4rFunMan
over a year ago
wigan |
You could invite guys you find attractive Into one of rooms at infusions leaving the curtains open , would be more safe and pleasurable for you both With the thought of guys wanting you and you having control over cuck To invite any of the guys you want Into the room . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We found Infusion was good. Not sure what happening re opening. Otherwise a trip to Angels and Sinners in Walsall. A sex shop and very comfy and clean cinema ideal for a cuck to see guys using the missus. We go a bit when open Nice clientele too"
Not every male half of a couple who go to A + S is cuckold. Certainly not the case with Fire. |
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I've always found the hardest thing at greedy girls nights is the people assuming it's a free for all.
Every lady attending has different wants and needs. It's rare someone will take on anyone.
I've often done high numbers but I've turned down plenty of guys too. Ans always make sure condoms are used. So limit the guys having full sex with me. |
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I've been in many situations where a woman is taking on lots of men (and women). Some 'takers' may not care if you ask whether you can join in or not. However, as a rule of thumb - it's always polite to ask. Whether you do or you don't ask and are then told you're not wanted...respect this and move on.
This applies regardless of whether it's a so-called 'greedy girls night' or any situation where people are seemingly taking on all comers. No one should assume they have the right to do what they want and get upset if they're asked to back away. |
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Infusions have them on a Thursdays I think. They're not as hard-core as you might think. But you do have less social and more fucking I think. Not sure when infusion will be back open but drop me a message if you'd like to |
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Attended a few greedy girls in clubs and private meets.
Most clubs do a greedy girl type event where you can take or refuse as many or few guys as you feel.
I usually take breaks throughout the event but I always feel in control.
Never had a bad experience, have the rules explained, your likes and dislikes before starting.
Remember some guys may not fancy the lady and not want to have fun with you.
I've always loved greedy girls parties, either in clubs, homes or outdoors....
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"Infusions have them on a Thursdays I think. They're not as hard-core as you might think. But you do have less social and more fucking I think. Not sure when infusion will be back open but drop me a message if you'd like to"
It looks like they’re held on a Thursday evening from their website, which does mean you need to pay their annual membership as a single guy, but they offer a reduced entry fee for the GG event......? |
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
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In a club sex is not guaranteed. Remember that when you attend....thank you. |
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
In a club sex is not guaranteed. Remember that when you attend....thank you. "
Nothing is guaranteed and some seem to forget this. X I always only promise to say hi to someone if I see them at a club no more x |
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
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Depends where you go and what you want, Greedy Girl parties are a lot of fun in the right place. And depends on what you want, if you want to flirt for a bit, pick a handful of guys and go off or you go one by one. Completely depends on what you want.
As lots of people have mentioned aslong as all have consent. I’ve found it’s good to have someone kind of ‘looking after’ you. So your hubby or a friend to keep an eye on the guys and make sure no one tries to join in without asking or is being naughty. |
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"Different etiquette in clubs. The lady always has the final say. In cinemas tho it seems different as most guys seem to expect when fun begins. Which What we like "
I dont think the etiquette is any different in cinemas. Although normally find my reputation preceeds me and people know not to be pushy. |
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Some greedy girl nights can be fun but like all things it depends on what you want from it. I’m not into big numbers so a queue at the door of guys with cock in hand is not for me.
Just because it’s a GG night doesn’t mean you can’t be choosy |
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"Infusions have them on a Thursdays I think. They're not as hard-core as you might think. But you do have less social and more fucking I think. Not sure when infusion will be back open but drop me a message if you'd like to
It looks like they’re held on a Thursday evening from their website, which does mean you need to pay their annual membership as a single guy, but they offer a reduced entry fee for the GG event......?"
Yeah. You can just pay on the door but if you're a member it's reduced rates.
There's also a greedy girl event on in Bolton now and again. Them girls are greedy!
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
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Any night at a club can be "greedy girl" if single guys are allowed to attend ... you can always set up your own "meet, flirt, chat, fuck" scene ... and we find that when you are "open minded and keen" you get offers from bystanders / onlookers ... x Anne |
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"Any night at a club can be "greedy girl" if single guys are allowed to attend ... you can always set up your own "meet, flirt, chat, fuck" scene ... and we find that when you are "open minded and keen" you get offers from bystanders / onlookers ... x Anne "
Anne has nailed this right there. set up your own. If you go to a club on a defined greedy night you may find more guys but possibly lower quality of choice.
Nothing to stop you chatting to a couple of guys and asking if they'd like to play together with you, very rare they will say no. Then you get your onlookers and there maybe an opportunity to invite others to play, if the mood takes you. |
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
In a club sex is not guaranteed. Remember that when you attend....thank you.
Nothing is guaranteed and some seem to forget this. X I always only promise to say hi to someone if I see them at a club no more x "
Been a while since we've said hello in person
I always say the same to other men looking at attending these sorts events & parties...... "Be polite, be social, have no expectations & take nothing as an insult". |
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"We both like the idea of this but in too damn picky when it comes to men. Maybe an arranged gang bang would be better for me  "
Be prepared for 80% of your invitees to drop out on the day! Or try a club night where single men are allowed and pick the ones that catch your eye, and round them up!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We both like the idea of this but in too damn picky when it comes to men. Maybe an arranged gang bang would be better for me
Be prepared for 80% of your invitees to drop out on the day! Or try a club night where single men are allowed and pick the ones that catch your eye, and round them up! "
can we just put handcuffs on them and just drag them with us or is that not acceptable  |
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"I like to blindfold my lady and pick who fucks her
I make sure they have protection
Fun bit is knowing who has when we get back to the social area and she has to guess lol "
Same here. Its such a trill |
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
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We attend gg events at cjs would never consider organising our own |
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For couples or women thinking of attending club greedy girl events there is always the option to just watch and see what happens. Treat it as an experience and can come back if it floats your boat. As said by others before the women are in charge and can decline anyone as it is their choice. |
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"I understand and totally support the right of anyone to say no to someone but how crushing for a man to be rejected when everyone else gets tbe thumbs up."
Im sure they will live.. I can seem to be not picky.. then suddenly I'll not want certain people x
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I went to 1 at infusions and 2 guys there and one at no3 in Chorley and didn't like the expectation of all the guys so didn't do anything. Much better to go to organised gangbangs |
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"I went to 1 at infusions and 2 guys there and one at no3 in Chorley and didn't like the expectation of all the guys so didn't do anything. Much better to go to organised gangbangs "
yet see I find it the other way around. Much prefer greedy girls nights as seems to be less expectations
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"I went to 1 at infusions and 2 guys there and one at no3 in Chorley and didn't like the expectation of all the guys so didn't do anything. Much better to go to organised gangbangs "
How do the expectations differ at a GG event in a club, to that of an organised gangbang? Is it just that at the gb you have chosen which guys attend first, rather than who turns up to a club event? |
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"Any night at a club can be "greedy girl" if single guys are allowed to attend ... you can always set up your own "meet, flirt, chat, fuck" scene ... and we find that when you are "open minded and keen" you get offers from bystanders / onlookers ... x Anne "
I agree this does happen regularly on a good night with a great woman. |
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By *ohn1953Man
over a year ago
North Wales |
The Attic in Derby have greedy girls nights on every other Thursday night when it’s back open, had some very good greedy girls nights, you be surprised how many hubbies love to watch their wife enjoying more than one cock, also good at the Attic day cinema too |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
Before Covid19 I use to go to OP4F on a Tuesday as that was their Greedy Girl night.Some girls played with guys that took their fancy others just wanted guys and as long as you were asked to join in or your asked to join in there have never been any problems. |
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"Quite fancy going to one when the clubs re open...
Is it a free for all?
Do ladies go and just take whats on offer?
We're in blackpool any suggestions for the better events
Thanks
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Club play/ was SX is my fave in that area.
But I find if you find the event you fancy that matters more than which actual club your in.
I don’t do greedy girls nights, but I don’t know any club gal that just takes what’s on offer lol. And definitely not a free for all xx |
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"I went to 1 at infusions and 2 guys there and one at no3 in Chorley and didn't like the expectation of all the guys so didn't do anything. Much better to go to organised gangbangs
How do the expectations differ at a GG event in a club, to that of an organised gangbang? Is it just that at the gb you have chosen which guys attend first, rather than who turns up to a club event?"
see in my experience at organised gangbangs the expectation is you will play with every guy there.... and guys can get quite arsey If on the day you don't. Where as at gg nights/ events guys know the same applies as at any night. They know to ask before touching and seem to be much more accepting that one particular woman may not be into them |
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"I went to 1 at infusions and 2 guys there and one at no3 in Chorley and didn't like the expectation of all the guys so didn't do anything. Much better to go to organised gangbangs
How do the expectations differ at a GG event in a club, to that of an organised gangbang? Is it just that at the gb you have chosen which guys attend first, rather than who turns up to a club event?"
Good question, my experience in this is that swinging clubs persay don't administrate the greedy girl event, just hold them and expect people to be adult enough to be polite and ask if they can join in.
Gangbangs usually are organised by one or two people, who manage the play, oversee the play the event the party, organise and vet the male attendees in advance letting them know what the GG wants and how to be treated.
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"I went to 1 at infusions and 2 guys there and one at no3 in Chorley and didn't like the expectation of all the guys so didn't do anything. Much better to go to organised gangbangs
How do the expectations differ at a GG event in a club, to that of an organised gangbang? Is it just that at the gb you have chosen which guys attend first, rather than who turns up to a club event? see in my experience at organised gangbangs the expectation is you will play with every guy there.... and guys can get quite arsey If on the day you don't. Where as at gg nights/ events guys know the same applies as at any night. They know to ask before touching and seem to be much more accepting that one particular woman may not be into them "
My impression with an organised gangbang is, the guys know in advance who the female will be, and the female will also know who the guys will be. So, everyone should be happy on the day?
I doubt a GG event in a club will have this level of pre-organising, so it's more a case of who is there on the day (for all concerned), and therefore, potential disappointment for some, on the grounds of mutual attraction? |
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"I went to 1 at infusions and 2 guys there and one at no3 in Chorley and didn't like the expectation of all the guys so didn't do anything. Much better to go to organised gangbangs
How do the expectations differ at a GG event in a club, to that of an organised gangbang? Is it just that at the gb you have chosen which guys attend first, rather than who turns up to a club event? see in my experience at organised gangbangs the expectation is you will play with every guy there.... and guys can get quite arsey If on the day you don't. Where as at gg nights/ events guys know the same applies as at any night. They know to ask before touching and seem to be much more accepting that one particular woman may not be into them
My impression with an organised gangbang is, the guys know in advance who the female will be, and the female will also know who the guys will be. So, everyone should be happy on the day?
I doubt a GG event in a club will have this level of pre-organising, so it's more a case of who is there on the day (for all concerned), and therefore, potential disappointment for some, on the grounds of mutual attraction?"
I'm not given to think that "attraction" is all that relevant. I know one (ex) friend we went to a club with just lies back and lets whatever happen happen. Closes her eyes with one guy on top, opens them again to find someone else. All part of the fun apparently :/ |
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LittleMissCali hi there seeing as you were like part of the furniture at the attic ( meant in the nicest possible way) when it was open do you happen to have any inside info on when it’s going to reopen as I miss the greedy girl nights there
Even had the pleasure of seeing you there on multiple occasions and hopefully get to enjoy your company again soon xx |
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