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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
south west |
Yes they do , but not a lot. Normally go with friends etc..
I think some clubs are easier for singles in general and single ladies in particular...well run, good clientele, chilled atmosphere etc.. going on a couples and single ladies night might be a bit easier as well..
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
south west |
"Thank you "
I'm no expert but I have met a few single ladies in chams ..its very well run ..and a nice atmosphere.
I'm sure if you post on here you can find someone nice to meet there or go with..
The clubs also give you a tour and will look after you I'm sure ...
Good luck x |
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Yes I do. I’ve been many times alone to clubs.
Not all attendees think I am alone, some guys assume I’m with a man who is in the changing room which I find bizarre so they won’t come over then it’s down to me to choose who to talk to and I’m very fussy.
I enjoy going with my fwb but also very happy to go alone, however when I’m alone my guard is up more. |
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Women on their own are always made very welcome and are well respected - especially - in my experience - at day time events - thinking particularly MILF Monday at Townhouse - not near you OP but for anyone else interested |
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"I know this has come up before but do any women fly solo? Both actual single women and hotwives attending without a partner "
I have spent most of the last 20 or so years going solo... I have on occasion gone with a partner or good friend but mostly gone by myself.
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"I know this has come up before but do any women fly solo? Both actual single women and hotwives attending without a partner "
It depends on which clubs - I go to kink and mixed swing and kink clubs and most of the time I go alone. There have been a few occasions when I arranged to go with someone because I wasn't sure of the place and it definitely is a good idea to go with someone to a small club in my experience.
I've only been once to a swingers club which was a big event. There was a little group of acquaintances going but I went ahead of them and later caught up with them. I wasn't impressed, if not for the tour guide who also offered House Domination, it would have been a disappointing evening. But you never know, it depends on so many things, on people who are there, on luck etc.
It may be worth going with someone else the first time and then return alone if the place is nice to be on the safe side but equally, if you are confident that the place has a good reputation and is safe then why not attend alone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s scary for single men too"
Maybe your going with the wrong attitude, I attend clubs as a single guy, with the foresight of it just being a night out.... and if I get to play all well and good. Otherwise I’ll take a fb or fwb |
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Yep, have been for a while, love the freedom I have & I've never had any trouble in the club's I frequent, they look out for us single ladies!
I do enjoy going with friends as well though, so I'm a lucky girl!  |
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Depending on my level of trust in the club and its staff, I'll go along solo.
Usually we turn up as a group of single women though, mostly because we are friends and enjoy going out together be that for a meal or to an event  |
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Couples can be nightmares with single women in clubs, they want performing seals usually for the bi curious wife. I’ll chat to them socially but can see they are dying to ask me the question but I don’t play with couples on my own and I’m very choosy! |
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I went first time alone , i was petrified . Since at day i always went alone because i felt so welcome.
For a month i went almost every single day to my favourite club.
Can wait clubs reopen again
Saying this i don't put off that i would be more than happy having people who would like to go with me or be invited to go with them but of course i do need to be tempted and they need to be tempting
In other hand with the people i have met or they who know me personally of course there's no neet for temptations , the answer always will be, yes i'm in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples can be nightmares with single women in clubs, they want performing seals usually for the bi curious wife. I’ll chat to them socially but can see they are dying to ask me the question but I don’t play with couples on my own and I’m very choosy! "
I hear you. The couples seeing you that way can be a downside. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"Couples can be nightmares with single women in clubs, they want performing seals usually for the bi curious wife. I’ll chat to them socially but can see they are dying to ask me the question but I don’t play with couples on my own and I’m very choosy! "
Same. Not my thing but I’m not particularly bi. I love a big group but mf-couple-plus-me isn’t usually what I’m interested in. It’s nice chatting and having a laugh though. It’s for this reason I only go to clubs on nights there are single/solo men
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"Yes there are single women in clubs on there own , might be better to go on couples and single ladies night first off "
I've never gone on a couples and singles night... I'm straight and I'm a bit intimidated by couples. You never know the dynamic.
I like a club night with a surplus of men.  |
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By *unxxxMan
over a year ago
Leicester |
Single man and when things get normal going to visit my first club and scarry
And by no means whatsoever a prude and never been, but need to do it and crapping myself where to start,what to say etc etc
Funny world |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
Regularly went to La Chambre and Quest alone and loved it. Always felt welcome, and always found someone to chat and play with.
Even went to Kage at Partners (BDSM event), but didnt much like that, totally different crowd to the swinging bunch and not a fraction as friendly and sociable. |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Glasgow, Sheffield |
Yes, but not often. I've played with one single woman at La Chambre a couple of times, and another lovely young lady at Club SX who said sometimes she went alone, other times her partner came along. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
I never plucked up the courage to go to clubs on my own... I really regret that now. 
If the club scene ever exists again, I’ll definitely be going and doing roadtrips to visit the most popular ones! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been on my own before. Was treated very well and lots of people looking out for you.
I think because it doesn’t seem to happen that often, when it does the other guests want to make sure you have a great time and want to come back again |
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Yes of course you get single ladies in clubs, mostly because they get to socialise with others and it’s a way of getting sex with out all the dating . The first tine I went to a club about 7 years ago I got chatting to a lady in her early 40s, she said she was single and has a busy lifestyle so going to clubs and meeting others was what she enjoyed, we chatted more then she asked if I fancied going upstairs in the club to have some fun, I said yes we went upstairs and she said do you fancy fun on the open beds or a private room, it was my first time at a club but I said on the open beds, that’s when I found out how much it turned me on to be watched as I fucked , it was so nice to have other guys and two couples watching us playing and have sex in front of them. But met lots of other single ladies and couples since, weather it’s for private meets or club or cinema fun. |
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"Single man and when things get normal going to visit my first club and scarry
And by no means whatsoever a prude and never been, but need to do it and crapping myself where to start,what to say etc etc
Funny world "
Whatever you do don’t start crapping yourself in a club, it’s not attractive lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the club but love going to Chams by myself.
I miss Chams "
Me too.
I’ve not been for a couple of years but I fully intend to again once the initial rush has died down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this has come up before but do any women fly solo? Both actual single women and hotwives attending without a partner "
Yes it has come up before read the last posts??? |
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From what we see in clubs, women, both single and in couples, seem to take to the scene more easily and confidently than men.
Maybe they’re more relaxed about having a good time rather than having a tendency to be a bit, er, single minded. |
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"From what we see in clubs, women, both single and in couples, seem to take to the scene more easily and confidently than men.
Maybe they’re more relaxed about having a good time rather than having a tendency to be a bit, er, single minded."
Maybe they feel more relaxed, because their presence is actually welcomed, so it is easier for them to feel at home.... |
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"From what we see in clubs, women, both single and in couples, seem to take to the scene more easily and confidently than men.
Maybe they’re more relaxed about having a good time rather than having a tendency to be a bit, er, single minded.
Maybe they feel more relaxed, because their presence is actually welcomed, so it is easier for them to feel at home...."
When single women visit clubs we are in control of what happens and it’s a good feeling! |
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