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By *rfun OP Man
over a year ago
Southampton |
Wondering when Boris allows who would be interested in a bi night where everyone is not straight per fab profile (at time of booking and on night) Therefore ensuring no wallflowers and if things happen no hang ups between anyone. Seen reference and seen many str guys just turn up for the fems cpls on a night not aimed for them. Thoughts? |
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No hang ups between anyone isn't what you think - everyone can be bi but not want to play with everyone there, in exactly the same way as a straight night doesn't mean a woman will shag every bloke.
Good hosts will ensure all are bi - see SpicyMinx profile who runs such parties which we very much enjoy, but equally very selective who we want to get jiggy with.
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By *rfun OP Man
over a year ago
Southampton |
"No hang ups between anyone isn't what you think - everyone can be bi but not want to play with everyone there, in exactly the same way as a straight night doesn't mean a woman will shag every bloke.
Good hosts will ensure all are bi - see SpicyMinx profile who runs such parties which we very much enjoy, but equally very selective who we want to get jiggy with.
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you hit it on the head parties where all bi but no pressure to play. Taking out the str wallflowers allows those who want to play out of what some would call the norm can happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’d love it once parties can return as normal safely. Have been to parties where majority of the men at bi parties are straight & don’t approve of bi play unless it’s fem-fem |
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By *rfun OP Man
over a year ago
Southampton |
"We’d love it once parties can return as normal safely. Have been to parties where majority of the men at bi parties are straight & don’t approve of bi play unless it’s fem-fem "
you've hit it 100% on the head the str guys go because they think they will get more than a normal party. Pleased i'm not the only one thinking a true bi party would be good.
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Been to a few bi parties in my time and they are great fun. I’ve seen straight guys turn up hoping to play with my female play partner. They disappear sharpish when she asks them to suck my cock before they get to play with her  |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"We’d love it once parties can return as normal safely. Have been to parties where majority of the men at bi parties are straight & don’t approve of bi play unless it’s fem-fem you've hit it 100% on the head the str guys go because they think they will get more than a normal party. Pleased i'm not the only one thinking a true bi party would be good."
I've heard people say this before karma I don't really understand it though. Why would straight guys think they are going to get a big helping of fun than apart from with other guys? (Which apparently they are not interested in) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi cham on mon was great really hope they make it through this mess sad to see arouals has gone, but spicy is looking for a new venue, so fingers crossed . there was a bi night at v a that was good hope to see more bi nights and parties after lockdown |
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By *ilthyBIMan
over a year ago
Stoke- Newcastle staffs |
Chams BI nights can be good but get a lot of straight people in now and it's not the same.
Now go back about 10 years or longer and they were awesome nights really really great times all genuine BI people met a lot of Freund's from the BI nights. |
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"Chameleons in Darlaston used to have an excellent bi night every monday.
Really can't wait for it to open again"
It was a great night — just too many straight single guys pretending to be bi lol - ps m here is not bi but better half is enthusiastically bi lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few years back, guys used to be challenged by staff as to whether they were straight or not but that was knocked on the head in favour of revenue unfortunately.
You can spot them a mile off though, following women around in groups like the pied piper.
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Just asking this as the question popped up in my head and I found I had no opinion on it one way or the other, which started me thinking (or what passes for thinking in my lockdown addled brain).
If a couple attends this Bi get together, should they both be bi or is one of them being bi sufficient ?
And while we are at it (or not as it happens) which came first the chicken or the egg  |
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"Just asking this as the question popped up in my head and I found I had no opinion on it one way or the other, which started me thinking (or what passes for thinking in my lockdown addled brain).
If a couple attends this Bi get together, should they both be bi or is one of them being bi sufficient ?
And while we are at it (or not as it happens) which came first the chicken or the egg "
For our NAUGHTY BI NATURE parties we always stipulated that any couples wanting to attend, that they both needed to be Bi, which proved to be one reason why this event was so popular xxx |
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"Just asking this as the question popped up in my head and I found I had no opinion on it one way or the other, which started me thinking (or what passes for thinking in my lockdown addled brain).
If a couple attends this Bi get together, should they both be bi or is one of them being bi sufficient ?
And while we are at it (or not as it happens) which came first the chicken or the egg
For our NAUGHTY BI NATURE parties we always stipulated that any couples wanting to attend, that they both needed to be Bi, which proved to be one reason why this event was so popular xxx"
That makes sense to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very much up for a bi party  I have been to a few bi party's and would also like no straight guys attending. Could there not be a rule? every guy wether single or not suck a cock for at least 10 seconds at the door to gain entry or is that not pc? Personally I would be happy too lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very much up for a bi party I have been to a few bi party's and would also like no straight guys attending. Could there not be a rule? every guy wether single or not suck a cock for at least 10 seconds at the door to gain entry or is that not pc? Personally I would be happy too lol. "
right behind you mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very much up for a bi party I have been to a few bi party's and would also like no straight guys attending. Could there not be a rule? every guy wether single or not suck a cock for at least 10 seconds at the door to gain entry or is that not pc? Personally I would be happy too lol. "
Certainly a fun idea to gain entry..... hahaha tho I’d still be shy meeting people after that!!! |
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As others have said, there were some great nights which had carefully managed guest lists and ensured there was a good mix. The party organisers who put that kind of work in will deserve plenty of support once things open up again.
I also noticed at some other nights that as it came closer to closing time a few of those who’d been ostentatiously non-bi got a bit friskier... maybe it took time for inhibitions to relax or it’s the spaghetti syndrome* Plus as I’ve said on another thread I on a couple of occasions got messages from guys who knew we’d both been at the same event but had felt shy on the night to dip their toes in (or any other bit of their anatomy!)
(*straight until in hot water) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As others have said, there were some great nights which had carefully managed guest lists and ensured there was a good mix. The party organisers who put that kind of work in will deserve plenty of support once things open up again.
I also noticed at some other nights that as it came closer to closing time a few of those who’d been ostentatiously non-bi got a bit friskier... maybe it took time for inhibitions to relax or it’s the spaghetti syndrome* Plus as I’ve said on another thread I on a couple of occasions got messages from guys who knew we’d both been at the same event but had felt shy on the night to dip their toes in (or any other bit of their anatomy!)
(*straight until in hot water)"
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Used to love the BI-Fun Club on Monday mornings.
Getting fucked by a wife with a strap-on in the dungeon room whilst sucking her husbands spunky cock.
Girlfriend sucking off 5-6 guys at once, covered in cum. Cock and Tits everywhere.
Oh God, it was an amazing place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Used to love the BI-Fun Club on Monday mornings.
Getting fucked by a wife with a strap-on in the dungeon room whilst sucking her husbands spunky cock.
Girlfriend sucking off 5-6 guys at once, covered in cum. Cock and Tits everywhere.
Oh God, it was an amazing place."
Sounds amazing..... |
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"Used to love the BI-Fun Club on Monday mornings.
Getting fucked by a wife with a strap-on in the dungeon room whilst sucking her husbands spunky cock.
Girlfriend sucking off 5-6 guys at once, covered in cum. Cock and Tits everywhere.
Oh God, it was an amazing place."
That is a fair description of the sort of scenario I used to see regularly at the Bi Fun Club parties. When new first time guests arrived mid party and I used to show them around the house and their reaction when they first looked into the main play rooms was always precious. In those rooms there would be 20 or so people indulging in various sexual activities in many different combinations. Describing it as an orgy seems like an understatement for scenario that wouldn’t be out of place in a porn movie or a Caligula fantasy.
I know from my mailbox that the parties are being missed by a lot of people but until it’s legal to have large indoor gatherings without social distancing rules they will just have to be a happy memory. If anyone wants to be invited to the parties when the start again you can join the mailing list and you’ll be sent the details when that time arrives.
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"My nights will be back up and running once play is allowed again. I cannot wait. There's a few surprises ahead .
Everyone loves a decent bi night  "
Great news! Something to look forward to. Hope you’re keeping safe and well and very excited for those surprises! |
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"Used to love the BI-Fun Club on Monday mornings.
Getting fucked by a wife with a strap-on in the dungeon room whilst sucking her husbands spunky cock.
Girlfriend sucking off 5-6 guys at once, covered in cum. Cock and Tits everywhere.
Oh God, it was an amazing place."
I wonder though if things will go back to that sort of scenario...or will there be a new normal? |
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"Used to love the BI-Fun Club on Monday mornings.
Getting fucked by a wife with a strap-on in the dungeon room whilst sucking her husbands spunky cock.
Girlfriend sucking off 5-6 guys at once, covered in cum. Cock and Tits everywhere.
Oh God, it was an amazing place.
I wonder though if things will go back to that sort of scenario...or will there be a new normal?"
I used to get around 100+ folks attend my daytime events. When they start again the numbers are bound to be lower but I'm sure those that turn up will be looking to enjoy themselves "like the old days" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The bi fun parties were intense! I think the midday, time-limited event made everyone keen to get down to it and pretty much everyone was into everyone...mmmmm 
AbFab Mondays tended to suffer from the “straight stalker syndrome” mentioned by others here - no guarantee guys would be up for same-sex play notwithstanding the clearly advertised theme...might be worth staff reminding blokes on the door that it was bi-night...
Using the past tense here but obvs very much hoping life & play returns to normal ASAP!! |
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"My nights will be back up and running once play is allowed again. I cannot wait. There's a few surprises ahead .
Everyone loves a decent bi night "
It's been so long since we've partied with you now.... Cant wait to get back to your events Xx |
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"From the other side I’m straight and hubby is bi so a party where all are bi rules us out ????? Surely it has to be allowed for mixed couples"
For us the importance of bi nights is that they are orientated towards the bi males. We wouldnt have any issue with a straight female partner enjoying their husbands bi side with him.
We think bi female/straight male couples have enough other club nights to have their fun already without coming to bi night as well though! |
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By *S2505Couple
over a year ago
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"From the other side I’m straight and hubby is bi so a party where all are bi rules us out ????? Surely it has to be allowed for mixed couples
For us the importance of bi nights is that they are orientated towards the bi males. We wouldnt have any issue with a straight female partner enjoying their husbands bi side with him.
We think bi female/straight male couples have enough other club nights to have their fun already without coming to bi night as well though!"
That’s great to hear, bi MMF is our thing and we love enjoying his bi side together |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Used to go to Bi Night at Old Kestrels and Arousals, sadly both now closed. More than happy to attend
Has Arousals, in Dunstable, shut down ? "
. I believe it has as there have been a couple of threads about it one from the couple that ran bi events were looking for alternatives premises to hold their events. |
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I think we have to accept that if people want to go out on any given night they’ll go regardless of the theme.
Straight people going to bi night is no different to bi people going to other nights.
I’m not bi and haven’t attended bi nights but constantly get hit on by bi ladies on other nights.
It doesn’t bother me, everyone has their preference.
A polite refusal shouldn’t be an issue. |
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"The best Bi nights we’ve been to.
Chams. Monday Night.
Club Play. Pandemonium.
VA. Spicy’s Bi Night.
All awesome. Club Play probably the most full on. That is a night we will do again ASAP. "
Thank you for the great feedback on our club night!  |
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"Used to love the BI-Fun Club on Monday mornings.
Getting fucked by a wife with a strap-on in the dungeon room whilst sucking her husbands spunky cock.
Girlfriend sucking off 5-6 guys at once, covered in cum. Cock and Tits everywhere.
Oh God, it was an amazing place.
That is a fair description of the sort of scenario I used to see regularly at the Bi Fun Club parties. When new first time guests arrived mid party and I used to show them around the house and their reaction when they first looked into the main play rooms was always precious. In those rooms there would be 20 or so people indulging in various sexual activities in many different combinations. Describing it as an orgy seems like an understatement for scenario that wouldn’t be out of place in a porn movie or a Caligula fantasy.
I know from my mailbox that the parties are being missed by a lot of people but until it’s legal to have large indoor gatherings without social distancing rules they will just have to be a happy memory. If anyone wants to be invited to the parties when the start again you can join the mailing list and you’ll be sent the details when that time arrives.
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Par for the course and what a course. Cant wait for the return of the happy Mondays. Keep it up Dave we are all depending on you xx |
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"Used to go to Bi Night at Old Kestrels and Arousals, sadly both now closed. More than happy to attend"
NAUGHTY BI NATURE parties has returned, at a new location now.
A very dedicated bisexual/transgender party x |
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"Used to go to Bi Night at Old Kestrels and Arousals, sadly both now closed. More than happy to attend
NAUGHTY BI NATURE parties has returned, at a new location now.
A very dedicated bisexual/transgender party x "
Now this looks interesting. I’ve been to a few great Bi Parties that are Pro Trans guests. But not many.
I’m assuming this would tick my boxes. Oct 30th… I’ve tried messaging direct but don’t meet your requirements. I’ll try again soon. X |
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"Wondering when Boris allows who would be interested in a bi night where everyone is not straight per fab profile (at time of booking and on night) Therefore ensuring no wallflowers and if things happen no hang ups between anyone. Seen reference and seen many str guys just turn up for the fems cpls on a night not aimed for them. Thoughts?"
My events are back up and running again. These rype of events are the best!! |
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"Used to go to Bi Night at Old Kestrels and Arousals, sadly both now closed. More than happy to attend
NAUGHTY BI NATURE parties has returned, at a new location now.
A very dedicated bisexual/transgender party x
Now this looks interesting. I’ve been to a few great Bi Parties that are Pro Trans guests. But not many.
I’m assuming this would tick my boxes. Oct 30th… I’ve tried messaging direct but don’t meet your requirements. I’ll try again soon. X "
I’m not sure where you messaged but certainly wasn’t myself. You would be most welcome to attend any of events.
Sparkly C
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"Used to go to Bi Night at Old Kestrels and Arousals, sadly both now closed. More than happy to attend
NAUGHTY BI NATURE parties has returned, at a new location now.
A very dedicated bisexual/transgender party x
Now this looks interesting. I’ve been to a few great Bi Parties that are Pro Trans guests. But not many.
I’m assuming this would tick my boxes. Oct 30th… I’ve tried messaging direct but don’t meet your requirements. I’ll try again soon. X
I’m not sure where you messaged but certainly wasn’t myself. You would be most welcome to attend any of events.
Sparkly C
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Just for clarity.
I didn’t mean being a T Human I can’t message. I meant as a non site supporter. Which i really should clear up.
I am actually very keen to try one of your Bi friendly nights. It looks like a fun place. |
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"Used to go to Bi Night at Old Kestrels and Arousals, sadly both now closed. More than happy to attend
NAUGHTY BI NATURE parties has returned, at a new location now.
A very dedicated bisexual/transgender party x
Now this looks interesting. I’ve been to a few great Bi Parties that are Pro Trans guests. But not many.
I’m assuming this would tick my boxes. Oct 30th… I’ve tried messaging direct but don’t meet your requirements. I’ll try again soon. X
I’m not sure where you messaged but certainly wasn’t myself. You would be most welcome to attend any of events.
Sparkly C
Just for clarity.
I didn’t mean being a T Human I can’t message. I meant as a non site supporter. Which i really should clear up.
I am actually very keen to try one of your Bi friendly nights. It looks like a fun place. "
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