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Awkward single guys in clubs Part 3
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"The thread just won’t die.... End of part 2: “Crikey, I can’t remember how much I spent on the actual night, but it was a bloody good laugh and I knew I’d had a skinful the next day Other people were counting the costs of their club visits, so I felt it reasonable to explain my thinking? To be fair; in the days leading up to that particular Friday night, I did regular status posts asking for a lift/share tax fare, changing my location to the Hyatt postcode. The only responses I received were from bi/gay men looking for local hook-ups....... “ Not disagreeing at all, getting properly wassocked on a night out is a hundred quid or so. Whereas in a swingers club you won’t / shouldn’t be getting hammered. So maybe suggest looking it as a straight choice, spending 100 quid on drinks in bars or on sexy party time in swingers clubs. There is no right answer, both have their merits. " It was a straight choice; going out with a bunch of friends to get hammered and have a good laugh together, or spend £120 to visit a club I’ve never been to, and know nobody in, having plenty of similar experiences in other clubs where (to bring the thread full circle), as a solo guy, it’s very easy to feel awkward, and out of place........ 
Depending on covid (and it looks highly unlikely at the moment), I may face the same dilemma in March, when my work takes me back to Birmingham for the weekend again........hmm! Choices choices!    | |||
"The thread just won’t die.... End of part 2: “Crikey, I can’t remember how much I spent on the actual night, but it was a bloody good laugh and I knew I’d had a skinful the next day Other people were counting the costs of their club visits, so I felt it reasonable to explain my thinking? To be fair; in the days leading up to that particular Friday night, I did regular status posts asking for a lift/share tax fare, changing my location to the Hyatt postcode. The only responses I received were from bi/gay men looking for local hook-ups....... “ Not disagreeing at all, getting properly wassocked on a night out is a hundred quid or so. Whereas in a swingers club you won’t / shouldn’t be getting hammered. So maybe suggest looking it as a straight choice, spending 100 quid on drinks in bars or on sexy party time in swingers clubs. There is no right answer, both have their merits. It was a straight choice; going out with a bunch of friends to get hammered and have a good laugh together, or spend £120 to visit a club I’ve never been to, and know nobody in, having plenty of similar experiences in other clubs where (to bring the thread full circle), as a solo guy, it’s very easy to feel awkward, and out of place........
Depending on covid (and it looks highly unlikely at the moment), I may face the same dilemma in March, when my work takes me back to Birmingham for the weekend again........hmm! Choices choices! "Do you remember “the Works” nightclub on Broadstreet, shut years ago. Thought it was great  | |||
"The thread just won’t die.... End of part 2: “Crikey, I can’t remember how much I spent on the actual night, but it was a bloody good laugh and I knew I’d had a skinful the next day Other people were counting the costs of their club visits, so I felt it reasonable to explain my thinking? To be fair; in the days leading up to that particular Friday night, I did regular status posts asking for a lift/share tax fare, changing my location to the Hyatt postcode. The only responses I received were from bi/gay men looking for local hook-ups....... “ Not disagreeing at all, getting properly wassocked on a night out is a hundred quid or so. Whereas in a swingers club you won’t / shouldn’t be getting hammered. So maybe suggest looking it as a straight choice, spending 100 quid on drinks in bars or on sexy party time in swingers clubs. There is no right answer, both have their merits. " . Not been a big drinker I guess it’s easy for me to say going to the swingers club would win easy.A much harder choice for me would be a night out at the at the swingers club or a night out at the casino with the same £100 for me the casino would probably edge it. | |||
"The thread just won’t die.... End of part 2: “Crikey, I can’t remember how much I spent on the actual night, but it was a bloody good laugh and I knew I’d had a skinful the next day Other people were counting the costs of their club visits, so I felt it reasonable to explain my thinking? To be fair; in the days leading up to that particular Friday night, I did regular status posts asking for a lift/share tax fare, changing my location to the Hyatt postcode. The only responses I received were from bi/gay men looking for local hook-ups....... “ Not disagreeing at all, getting properly wassocked on a night out is a hundred quid or so. Whereas in a swingers club you won’t / shouldn’t be getting hammered. So maybe suggest looking it as a straight choice, spending 100 quid on drinks in bars or on sexy party time in swingers clubs. There is no right answer, both have their merits. . Not been a big drinker I guess it’s easy for me to say going to the swingers club would win easy.A much harder choice for me would be a night out at the at the swingers club or a night out at the casino with the same £100 for me the casino would probably edge it." Yikes I find casinos terrifying lol. The money goes... so quick....  | |||
"The thread just won’t die.... End of part 2: “Crikey, I can’t remember how much I spent on the actual night, but it was a bloody good laugh and I knew I’d had a skinful the next day Other people were counting the costs of their club visits, so I felt it reasonable to explain my thinking? To be fair; in the days leading up to that particular Friday night, I did regular status posts asking for a lift/share tax fare, changing my location to the Hyatt postcode. The only responses I received were from bi/gay men looking for local hook-ups....... “ Not disagreeing at all, getting properly wassocked on a night out is a hundred quid or so. Whereas in a swingers club you won’t / shouldn’t be getting hammered. So maybe suggest looking it as a straight choice, spending 100 quid on drinks in bars or on sexy party time in swingers clubs. There is no right answer, both have their merits. It was a straight choice; going out with a bunch of friends to get hammered and have a good laugh together, or spend £120 to visit a club I’ve never been to, and know nobody in, having plenty of similar experiences in other clubs where (to bring the thread full circle), as a solo guy, it’s very easy to feel awkward, and out of place........
Depending on covid (and it looks highly unlikely at the moment), I may face the same dilemma in March, when my work takes me back to Birmingham for the weekend again........hmm! Choices choices!
Do you remember “the Works” nightclub on Broadstreet, shut years ago. Thought it was great "I've only been out in Birmingham a couple of times, I actually live much further North. This partly made my mind up about visiting the club, as paying for an annual membership (£40), for a one-off visit, held no value for me. | |||
"The thread just won’t die.... End of part 2: “Crikey, I can’t remember how much I spent on the actual night, but it was a bloody good laugh and I knew I’d had a skinful the next day Other people were counting the costs of their club visits, so I felt it reasonable to explain my thinking? To be fair; in the days leading up to that particular Friday night, I did regular status posts asking for a lift/share tax fare, changing my location to the Hyatt postcode. The only responses I received were from bi/gay men looking for local hook-ups....... “ Not disagreeing at all, getting properly wassocked on a night out is a hundred quid or so. Whereas in a swingers club you won’t / shouldn’t be getting hammered. So maybe suggest looking it as a straight choice, spending 100 quid on drinks in bars or on sexy party time in swingers clubs. There is no right answer, both have their merits. . Not been a big drinker I guess it’s easy for me to say going to the swingers club would win easy.A much harder choice for me would be a night out at the at the swingers club or a night out at the casino with the same £100 for me the casino would probably edge it. Yikes I find casinos terrifying lol. The money goes... so quick.... ". True the money can go fast but for me with a group of like mined friends it’s a good evening out. | |||
