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"All clubs are closed for swinging parties indefinitely. Depending on lockdown and 'tiers' very few will be open at all, even for socials x" I'm aware of the current situation, but I'm planning ahead! not going to sit around worrying about what could happen! | |||
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"All clubs are closed for swinging parties indefinitely. Depending on lockdown and 'tiers' very few will be open at all, even for socials x I'm aware of the current situation, but I'm planning ahead! not going to sit around worrying about what could happen! " You do know that I am a club owner, offering you inside knowledge? Buy a lottery ticket, you have more chance of winning the jackpot than attending a swinging party in a club at Christmas lol You asked for suggestions and opinions. You got that plus a dose of fact. No need for the passive aggressive response | |||
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"All clubs are closed for swinging parties indefinitely. Depending on lockdown and 'tiers' very few will be open at all, even for socials x I'm aware of the current situation, but I'm planning ahead! not going to sit around worrying about what could happen! You do know that I am a club owner, offering you inside knowledge? Buy a lottery ticket, you have more chance of winning the jackpot than attending a swinging party in a club at Christmas lol You asked for suggestions and opinions. You got that plus a dose of fact. No need for the passive aggressive response" We all know the facts and your response added nothing to that which has been said many times before. Calling the response passive/aggressive is silly. | |||
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"All clubs are closed for swinging parties indefinitely. Depending on lockdown and 'tiers' very few will be open at all, even for socials x I'm aware of the current situation, but I'm planning ahead! not going to sit around worrying about what could happen! You do know that I am a club owner, offering you inside knowledge? Buy a lottery ticket, you have more chance of winning the jackpot than attending a swinging party in a club at Christmas lol You asked for suggestions and opinions. You got that plus a dose of fact. No need for the passive aggressive response We all know the facts and your response added nothing to that which has been said many times before. Calling the response passive/aggressive is silly." Clearly the OP doesn't know the facts Their telly is obviously busted too, and they've missed the fact that 500 people are dying every day Maybe Santa'll buy 'em a new one | |||
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"All clubs are closed for swinging parties indefinitely. Depending on lockdown and 'tiers' very few will be open at all, even for socials x I'm aware of the current situation, but I'm planning ahead! not going to sit around worrying about what could happen! Absolutely agree You do know that I am a club owner, offering you inside knowledge? Buy a lottery ticket, you have more chance of winning the jackpot than attending a swinging party in a club at Christmas lol You asked for suggestions and opinions. You got that plus a dose of fact. No need for the passive aggressive response We all know the facts and your response added nothing to that which has been said many times before. Calling the response passive/aggressive is silly." | |||
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"So, never hit a club before, having got a couple of solo/couple meets under our belt, we feel ready.. Can anyone recommend a decent club nearish Hampshire/Surrey? Also is there any particular etiquette to be aware of, like unwritten rules etc? " If panning for the future then try Hellfire club which I think is Surrey | |||
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"All clubs are closed for swinging parties indefinitely. Depending on lockdown and 'tiers' very few will be open at all, even for socials x I'm aware of the current situation, but I'm planning ahead! not going to sit around worrying about what could happen! You do know that I am a club owner, offering you inside knowledge? Buy a lottery ticket, you have more chance of winning the jackpot than attending a swinging party in a club at Christmas lol You asked for suggestions and opinions. You got that plus a dose of fact. No need for the passive aggressive response We all know the facts and your response added nothing to that which has been said many times before. Calling the response passive/aggressive is silly." He obviously doesn't know the facts, otherwise he wouldn't be looking for swinging parties in clubs at christmas, would he? Really? | |||
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"I do apologise, I've noticed the thread header" Lol...Jim just did the same thing, you're not the only one  xx | |||
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"Goddamn stupid phone tripletext. Sorry about that! Anyway! as I was saying! to the 'don't you know im a club owner?' ...obviously not.. I've no clue who you are.. you aren't special.. as for Christmas opening, yes, perhaps optimistic, but we choose to plan on. we've several things planned for xmas. and despite the sarcasm from some other cretin 'HURR DURR, THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT COVID' K actually works for the NHS.. on literal COVID wards. We just choose to be positive and hope for the best, if things get rearranged so be it. Also, you must not be paying too much attention to the news, as its nowhere near 500/day. - https://www.england.nhs.uk/statistics/statistical-work-areas/covid-19-daily-deaths/ " Ooh dear me.. the forum just gets better!! | |||
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"Goddamn stupid phone tripletext. Sorry about that! Anyway! as I was saying! to the 'don't you know im a club owner?' ...obviously not.. I've no clue who you are.. you aren't special.. as for Christmas opening, yes, perhaps optimistic, but we choose to plan on. we've several things planned for xmas. and despite the sarcasm from some other cretin 'HURR DURR, THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT COVID' K actually works for the NHS.. on literal COVID wards. We just choose to be positive and hope for the best, if things get rearranged so be it. Also, you must not be paying too much attention to the news, as its nowhere near 500/day. - https://www.england.nhs.uk/statistics/statistical-work-areas/covid-19-daily-deaths/ Ooh dear me.. the forum just gets better!!" Doesn't it just . Lol. | |||
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"So, never hit a club before, having got a couple of solo/couple meets under our belt, we feel ready.. Can anyone recommend a decent club nearish Hampshire/Surrey? Also is there any particular etiquette to be aware of, like unwritten rules etc? " Nearest ones are Kestrel/Ab Fab, Hellfire and Rios I guess - however all are closed and tbf unlikely to be open by Xmas | |||
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"Goddamn stupid phone tripletext. Sorry about that! Anyway! as I was saying! to the 'don't you know im a club owner?' ...obviously not.. I've no clue who you are.. you aren't special.. as for Christmas opening, yes, perhaps optimistic, but we choose to plan on. we've several things planned for xmas. and despite the sarcasm from some other cretin 'HURR DURR, THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT COVID' K actually works for the NHS.. on literal COVID wards. We just choose to be positive and hope for the best, if things get rearranged so be it. Also, you must not be paying too much attention to the news, as its nowhere near 500/day. - https://www.england.nhs.uk/statistics/statistical-work-areas/covid-19-daily-deaths/ " It's on my profile, if you cared enough to have a look following my initial advice, but hey ho!  | |||
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" to the 'don't you know im a club owner?' ...obviously not.. I've no clue who you are.. you aren't special.. " Doesn't the word "Townhouse" in the profile name tell you it is the Townhouse club owner ? What are the several things you have planned for Christmas ? | |||
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"Goddamn stupid phone tripletext. Sorry about that! Anyway! as I was saying! to the 'don't you know im a club owner?' ...obviously not.. I've no clue who you are.. you aren't special.. as for Christmas opening, yes, perhaps optimistic, but we choose to plan on. we've several things planned for xmas. and despite the sarcasm from some other cretin 'HURR DURR, THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT COVID' K actually works for the NHS.. on literal COVID wards. We just choose to be positive and hope for the best, if things get rearranged so be it. Also, you must not be paying too much attention to the news, as its nowhere near 500/day. - https://www.england.nhs.uk/statistics/statistical-work-areas/covid-19-daily-deaths/ " This has to be a complete wind up ! | |||
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"Goddamn stupid phone tripletext. Sorry about that! Anyway! as I was saying! to the 'don't you know im a club owner?' ...obviously not.. I've no clue who you are.. you aren't special.. as for Christmas opening, yes, perhaps optimistic, but we choose to plan on. we've several things planned for xmas. and despite the sarcasm from some other cretin 'HURR DURR, THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT COVID' K actually works for the NHS.. on literal COVID wards. We just choose to be positive and hope for the best, if things get rearranged so be it. Also, you must not be paying too much attention to the news, as its nowhere near 500/day. - https://www.england.nhs.uk/statistics/statistical-work-areas/covid-19-daily-deaths/ "  | |||
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"Goddamn stupid phone tripletext. Sorry about that! Anyway! as I was saying! to the 'don't you know im a club owner?' ...obviously not.. I've no clue who you are.. you aren't special.. as for Christmas opening, yes, perhaps optimistic, but we choose to plan on. we've several things planned for xmas. and despite the sarcasm from some other cretin 'HURR DURR, THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT COVID' K actually works for the NHS.. on literal COVID wards. We just choose to be positive and hope for the best, if things get rearranged so be it. Also, you must not be paying too much attention to the news, as its nowhere near 500/day. - https://www.england.nhs.uk/statistics/statistical-work-areas/covid-19-daily-deaths/ "  
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"Goddamn stupid phone tripletext. Sorry about that! Anyway! as I was saying! to the 'don't you know im a club owner?' ...obviously not.. I've no clue who you are.. you aren't special.. as for Christmas opening, yes, perhaps optimistic, but we choose to plan on. we've several things planned for xmas. and despite the sarcasm from some other cretin 'HURR DURR, THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT COVID' K actually works for the NHS.. on literal COVID wards. We just choose to be positive and hope for the best, if things get rearranged so be it. Also, you must not be paying too much attention to the news, as its nowhere near 500/day. - https://www.england.nhs.uk/statistics/statistical-work-areas/covid-19-daily-deaths/ It's on my profile, if you cared enough to have a look following my initial advice, but hey ho! "I don’t look at everybody’s profile who posts on here and someone new to clubs wouldn’t know about “Townhouse” either, especially if they are in a different part of the country. | |||
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"Hi Between us we've visited loads of clubs all over the country, had great times, met great people. Our advice would be to ignore belligerent, argumentative self-entitled people. Luckily they're easy to spot. E" If having an opinion in an open forum makes me belligerent argumentative self-entitled then so be it!  | |||
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"Hi Between us we've visited loads of clubs all over the country, had great times, met great people. Our advice would be to ignore belligerent, argumentative self-entitled people. Luckily they're easy to spot. E If having an opinion in an open forum makes me belligerent argumentative self-entitled then so be it! "No, having an opinion doesn't make you any of those things in regard to this thread topic. E | |||
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" to the 'don't you know im a club owner?' ...obviously not.. I've no clue who you are.. you aren't special.. Doesn't the word "Townhouse" in the profile name tell you it is the Townhouse club owner ? What are the several things you have planned for Christmas ? " If you don't go to clubs and are asking help for a first time in a club in their own area, then no , why would they know that Townhouse is a club. The profile name wouldn't give it away and not everyone will open a profile to read it. | |||
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"All clubs are closed for swinging parties indefinitely. Depending on lockdown and 'tiers' very few will be open at all, even for socials x" If only you had sold pasties as a main meal you would have been allowed to remain open through out most of this pandemic. | |||
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"All clubs are closed for swinging parties indefinitely. Depending on lockdown and 'tiers' very few will be open at all, even for socials xIf only you had sold pasties as a main meal you would have been allowed to remain open through out most of this pandemic. "Hahaha...hey we're a classy venue. One doesn't sell pasties on the Wirral Peninsulaaaaa hahahaha | |||
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"All clubs are closed for swinging parties indefinitely. Depending on lockdown and 'tiers' very few will be open at all, even for socials xIf only you had sold pasties as a main meal you would have been allowed to remain open through out most of this pandemic.
Hahaha...hey we're a classy venue. One doesn't sell pasties on the Wirral Peninsulaaaaa hahahaha"Dammit. Do you at least offer cake? E | |||
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"All clubs are closed for swinging parties indefinitely. Depending on lockdown and 'tiers' very few will be open at all, even for socials xIf only you had sold pasties as a main meal you would have been allowed to remain open through out most of this pandemic.
Hahaha...hey we're a classy venue. One doesn't sell pasties on the Wirral Peninsulaaaaa hahahaha
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Do you at least offer cake?
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"lol there are Clubs already sending out Emails telling regulars that if we come out of Lockdown on the 2nd of December they will be reopening for Social distancing days - eves , not full on parties obviously so for all you people with Crystal balls that want to tell the swinging community to hide in a bunker for the next year or 2 - LIFE WILL GO ON lol " From the OP, he says he has a couple of meets under their belt and are ready to take it the next step to a club, implying that he wants more than a social. It's already been acknowledged on this thread that some clubs will be open for socials depending on their Tier coming out of lockdown. However, play events, which the OP is looking for, will not be going ahead. | |||
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"So, never hit a club before, having got a couple of solo/couple meets under our belt, we feel ready.. Can anyone recommend a decent club nearish Hampshire/Surrey? Also is there any particular etiquette to be aware of, like unwritten rules etc? " There is alot of negativity in this thread,which is quite common at the moment The fact is yes at the moment all clubs are closed in England, Hopefully when lockdown is over whether it's the beginning of December or later,we just don't know at the moment,there won't be xmas and new year parties like previous years most of us understand that,people shouldn't be assuming people want to play just because they say they want to try or go to a club There will be some clubs that are re-opening soon Lots of people have been going recently for the social experience with likeminded people,to meet friends/new people and to socialize NO PLAYING I can tell you of my experience,I was going to a naturist spa twice a month August to this lockdown,obviously to use the facilities but also to socialize with people and have alone chill time,the club was tier 1 and I am from tier 1,I am in the caring profession weekly tested for covid,quite capable of sticking to the rules,and have been safe doing so so far,there are a few rules to follow from the government and the local councils,which are on club websites,posters on walls there and told verbally If my tier changes to a higher tier obviously I won't be able to go I respect that This is a good time to go to a club at the moment because its just for socials no big parties,even spa's have restrictions of the amount of people using eg hottub/pool,I've actually been enjoying going more recently, as don't get wandering hands or keep getting asked for sex,so my experience is alot more chilled It is good that some people are supporting their clubs,Just follow the rules and be safe  | |||
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"lol there are Clubs already sending out Emails telling regulars that if we come out of Lockdown on the 2nd of December they will be reopening for Social distancing days - eves , not full on parties obviously so for all you people with Crystal balls that want to tell the swinging community to hide in a bunker for the next year or 2 - LIFE WILL GO ON lol From the OP, he says he has a couple of meets under their belt and are ready to take it the next step to a club, implying that he wants more than a social. It's already been acknowledged on this thread that some clubs will be open for socials depending on their Tier coming out of lockdown. However, play events, which the OP is looking for, will not be going ahead. " And they said quite early on in this thread that they are quite aware of the current situation, but planning for the future. So need to imply anything about the OP. | |||
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"lol there are Clubs already sending out Emails telling regulars that if we come out of Lockdown on the 2nd of December they will be reopening for Social distancing days - eves , not full on parties obviously so for all you people with Crystal balls that want to tell the swinging community to hide in a bunker for the next year or 2 - LIFE WILL GO ON lol From the OP, he says he has a couple of meets under their belt and are ready to take it the next step to a club, implying that he wants more than a social. It's already been acknowledged on this thread that some clubs will be open for socials depending on their Tier coming out of lockdown. However, play events, which the OP is looking for, will not be going ahead. And they said quite early on in this thread that they are quite aware of the current situation, but planning for the future. So need to imply anything about the OP. " They are planning for Christmas, as per the title of the thread | |||
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"lol there are Clubs already sending out Emails telling regulars that if we come out of Lockdown on the 2nd of December they will be reopening for Social distancing days - eves , not full on parties obviously so for all you people with Crystal balls that want to tell the swinging community to hide in a bunker for the next year or 2 - LIFE WILL GO ON lol From the OP, he says he has a couple of meets under their belt and are ready to take it the next step to a club, implying that he wants more than a social. It's already been acknowledged on this thread that some clubs will be open for socials depending on their Tier coming out of lockdown. However, play events, which the OP is looking for, will not be going ahead. And they said quite early on in this thread that they are quite aware of the current situation, but planning for the future. So need to imply anything about the OP. They are planning for Christmas, as per the title of the thread" And they are in exactly the same situation as you. There is no insider information as you claim. All the rules are in the public domain and I’m sure that any clubs that welcome the OP will be sticking to the rules as they pertain at the time. | |||
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"lol there are Clubs already sending out Emails telling regulars that if we come out of Lockdown on the 2nd of December they will be reopening for Social distancing days - eves , not full on parties obviously so for all you people with Crystal balls that want to tell the swinging community to hide in a bunker for the next year or 2 - LIFE WILL GO ON lol From the OP, he says he has a couple of meets under their belt and are ready to take it the next step to a club, implying that he wants more than a social. It's already been acknowledged on this thread that some clubs will be open for socials depending on their Tier coming out of lockdown. However, play events, which the OP is looking for, will not be going ahead. And they said quite early on in this thread that they are quite aware of the current situation, but planning for the future. So need to imply anything about the OP. They are planning for Christmas, as per the title of the thread And they are in exactly the same situation as you. There is no insider information as you claim. All the rules are in the public domain and I’m sure that any clubs that welcome the OP will be sticking to the rules as they pertain at the time." Am sure a club owner will know more than joe public.. | |||
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"lol there are Clubs already sending out Emails telling regulars that if we come out of Lockdown on the 2nd of December they will be reopening for Social distancing days - eves , not full on parties obviously so for all you people with Crystal balls that want to tell the swinging community to hide in a bunker for the next year or 2 - LIFE WILL GO ON lol From the OP, he says he has a couple of meets under their belt and are ready to take it the next step to a club, implying that he wants more than a social. It's already been acknowledged on this thread that some clubs will be open for socials depending on their Tier coming out of lockdown. However, play events, which the OP is looking for, will not be going ahead. And they said quite early on in this thread that they are quite aware of the current situation, but planning for the future. So need to imply anything about the OP. They are planning for Christmas, as per the title of the thread And they are in exactly the same situation as you. There is no insider information as you claim. All the rules are in the public domain and I’m sure that any clubs that welcome the OP will be sticking to the rules as they pertain at the time. Am sure a club owner will know more than joe public.." So tell us what rules are known to the club that are not in the public domain and not part of their licensing ? | |||
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"lol there are Clubs already sending out Emails telling regulars that if we come out of Lockdown on the 2nd of December they will be reopening for Social distancing days - eves , not full on parties obviously so for all you people with Crystal balls that want to tell the swinging community to hide in a bunker for the next year or 2 - LIFE WILL GO ON lol From the OP, he says he has a couple of meets under their belt and are ready to take it the next step to a club, implying that he wants more than a social. It's already been acknowledged on this thread that some clubs will be open for socials depending on their Tier coming out of lockdown. However, play events, which the OP is looking for, will not be going ahead. And they said quite early on in this thread that they are quite aware of the current situation, but planning for the future. So need to imply anything about the OP. They are planning for Christmas, as per the title of the thread And they are in exactly the same situation as you. There is no insider information as you claim. All the rules are in the public domain and I’m sure that any clubs that welcome the OP will be sticking to the rules as they pertain at the time. Am sure a club owner will know more than joe public.. So tell us what rules are known to the club that are not in the public domain and not part of their licensing ?" I don’t know am not a club owner just a goer .. but am sure they have a better idea than us! | |||
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"All clubs are closed for swinging parties indefinitely. Depending on lockdown and 'tiers' very few will be open at all, even for socials x I'm aware of the current situation, but I'm planning ahead! not going to sit around worrying about what could happen! If you do get in a club before Christmas you will ; A, be very lucky. B, very lonely! You had it from the horses mouth why not just accept it and wait til we can all return, safely " | |||
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"Goddamn stupid phone tripletext. Sorry about that! Anyway! as I was saying! to the 'don't you know im a club owner?' ...obviously not.. I've no clue who you are.. you aren't special.. as for Christmas opening, yes, perhaps optimistic, but we choose to plan on. we've several things planned for xmas. and despite the sarcasm from some other cretin 'HURR DURR, THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT COVID' K actually works for the NHS.. on literal COVID wards. We just choose to be positive and hope for the best, if things get rearranged so be it. Also, you must not be paying too much attention to the news, as its nowhere near 500/day. - https://www.england.nhs.uk/statistics/statistical-work-areas/covid-19-daily-deaths/ This has to be a complete wind up ! " I agree I can’t really imagine for one minute anyone who has experienced working on a COVID ward and knows how serious this is wanting to visit a club at Xmas .. | |||
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