So we are looking at heading to xtasia once its safe to do so after checking out the website. So we are all prepared for our first club visit, but I cant seem to find much advice on condoms in the club. Like are they mandatory, are they required for the gloryholes, or is it all down to individuals? Help, and thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs like ours usually promote safe sex but ultimately its a personal choice a club can not control.
We do however provide totally free condoms of many different types to promote safe sex in all our rooms at Club Play.
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Yeah take your own OP , think xtasia sells them too mind ????
I for one of course use them for sex in the clubs but in the g holes , nahhhh , poke the little fella through and wait .... you know like fishing for a carp  |
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
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My partner of 20yrs and i dont, together, anyone else its a no brainer even if a rare occurance. I suspect it depends also on your set up, for example if its someone you meet elsewhere, or long term, or exclusive and trusted, then i guess we are grown ups its down to individuals, to protect themselves. |
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When we play in a club, we don’t use condoms between us as we’re a couple and don’t at home.
But, we would always with others, without exception.
We know this could be confusing to others that may see us playing and possibly expect to play ‘bareback’ but our advice would be to always, always ask.
The attempt to play without a condom without checking first stands you more chance of being asked to leave. And not in a pleasant way.
We understand that it can be a minefield, especially for single guys at a club but communication is key.
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Not happened to us , but if a guy tried it on without a condom
Then I would be happy to set him straight , and happy to say at the bar ,
Were you that cheeky bastard etc , etc
Can't believe someone wouldn't have condoms with them
We've seen plenty of guys wandering around with one in their hand ,
And you think , ahh , your looking for an invite
We've usually got lots
If you are playing with a couple , then you are going to swap around, and it's a fresh condom every time |
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We’ve always promoted safe sex but ultimately you are adults and are responsible for your own health and well-being.
We will provide condoms when requested, these are given to us by Terrance Higgins trust as we are ambassadors, however despite the common perception....one size does not fit all, take you’re own xx |
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"When we play in a club, we don’t use condoms between us as we’re a couple and don’t at home.
But, we would always with others, without exception.
We know this could be confusing to others that may see us playing and possibly expect to play ‘bareback’ but our advice would be to always, always ask.
The attempt to play without a condom without checking first stands you more chance of being asked to leave. And not in a pleasant way.
We understand that it can be a minefield, especially for single guys at a club but communication is key.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Key for any club is go prepared and keep on hand to avoid disappointment
Always best to take your own that way you get use a brand, type, flavour or fit your confortable with.
I'm pretty sure that every club either sells or provides them but there is nothing worse on having to dash to the bar without any clothes/money or going on a wild goose chase in the heat of the moment.
Also just grabbing one from what's on offer may throw up an unusual colour or undesirable flavour.  |
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"When we play in a club, we don’t use condoms between us as we’re a couple and don’t at home.
But, we would always with others, without exception.
We know this could be confusing to others that may see us playing and possibly expect to play ‘bareback’ but our advice would be to always, always ask.
The attempt to play without a condom without checking first stands you more chance of being asked to leave. And not in a pleasant way.
We understand that it can be a minefield, especially for single guys at a club but communication is key.
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