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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Assuming no covid, do you think there’s money to be made in clubs?

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple  over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

I'm really looking forward to the responses!!!! lol

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By *ethnmelvCouple  over a year ago

Cardiff

I don’t think there was ever much money to be made in Clubs. Most people running them do it because they enjoy it. Thank you to all of them!

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By *lirty CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Doncaster

The overheads will be huge. For those without a licensed bar, I've always wandered how they make any money. I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term.

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By *HaRiFMan  over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Assuming no covid, do you think there’s money to be made in clubs? "

Of course there is otherwise they wouldn't be in business but its probably not as much in it as people might think.

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By *andJCouple  over a year ago

fun town


"Assuming no covid, do you think there’s money to be made in clubs? "

More hard work and sweat than money to be made! Most do it as they enjoy it not for making loads of money but behind the scenes I know it’s very hard work!!! Definitely a 2 person job!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The overheads will be huge. For those without a licensed bar, I've always wandered how they make any money. I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term."

Why do you think they don’t have licensed bars?

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple  over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple  over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"The overheads will be huge. For those without a licensed bar, I've always wandered how they make any money. I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term.

Why do you think they don’t have licensed bars? "

Have you done any research on clubs before starting this thread? Only a small amount of clubs throughout the country have a licensed bar!

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Assuming no covid, do you think there’s money to be made in clubs? "

I'm sure clubs are financially viable businesses, but I doubt if they will produce millionaires. Mainly, I would guess that they are more something that you do because you're passionate about it.

Cal

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By *oDaveQuestSwingCouple  over a year ago

Leeds


"I'm really looking forward to the responses!!!! lol "

us too lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm really looking forward to the responses!!!! lol

us too lol "

Are you guys still closed?

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Membership businesses models are rubbish, growth is dismal, and most swingers didn’t want to spend money., I would invest in sheesha lounge but not swinging clubs

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By *ethnmelvCouple  over a year ago

Cardiff


"The overheads will be huge. For those without a licensed bar, I've always wandered how they make any money. I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term."

We’re the same, if you want the venue you need to pay for it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well from my calculations after visiting clubs and especially the ones that get big numbers every week I think they can be a gold mine

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple  over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"Well from my calculations after visiting clubs and especially the ones that get big numbers every week I think they can be a gold mine "

hahahahahahahahahahahaha

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By *arlo82Couple  over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Membership businesses models are rubbish, growth is dismal, and most swingers didn’t want to spend money., I would invest in sheesha lounge but not swinging clubs "

Sheesha consumption is minute.... I don't think I even know anyone who partakes.

It isn't about growth or monetary gain but providing a safe and secure place for people to express themself in.

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By *rummiePartyManMan  over a year ago

birmingham


"I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term."

Will you volunteer to pay the same membership fees and admission charges as single men, then?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman  over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Well from my calculations after visiting clubs and especially the ones that get big numbers every week I think they can be a gold mine "

Your calculations are only thinking about what's coming into the till, what about the upkeep costs? Wages of staff?

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple  over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"Well from my calculations after visiting clubs and especially the ones that get big numbers every week I think they can be a gold mine

Your calculations are only thinking about what's coming into the till, what about the upkeep costs? Wages of staff? "

From my calculations, he needs a calculator haha

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By *ral_isthenewblackMan  over a year ago

london

If there was no money in clubs and they actually do it cos they enjoy it why are they now complaining bout the govt closing them down.. Why are some clubs shutting down finally.. tells u there is money in it and now covid has stopped them from running u can see how much it is affecting them..why do most clubs charge single guys more?? If they do it cis they enjoy it then they wont have to charge single guys more. clubs are a bussiness so of cos there is money to be made.. sex sells

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman  over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Well from my calculations after visiting clubs and especially the ones that get big numbers every week I think they can be a gold mine

Your calculations are only thinking about what's coming into the till, what about the upkeep costs? Wages of staff?

From my calculations, he needs a calculator haha"

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By * Plus ECouple  over a year ago

The South


"Well from my calculations after visiting clubs and especially the ones that get big numbers every week I think they can be a gold mine "

*hands the OP a brand new pack of AA batterys.......

E

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There's money in party promotion if done right. Running a club I'd say not really. Never get a licence. Far too many council busy bodies sniffing around.

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By *illow-TalkMan  over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"If there was no money in clubs and they actually do it cos they enjoy it why are they now complaining bout the govt closing them down.. Why are some clubs shutting down finally.. tells u there is money in it and now covid has stopped them from running u can see how much it is affecting them..why do most clubs charge single guys more?? If they do it cis they enjoy it then they wont have to charge single guys more. clubs are a bussiness so of cos there is money to be made.. sex sells"

Club owners aren’t complaining as they understand the situation, they are worried as it’s their livelihood disappearing.

A club will turn a profit otherwise it isn’t a viable business but it’s not a license to print money far from it, it’s hard work and only yields the owners a livelihood in most cases.

I can’t believe the single guy being changed more has been asked again, that subject has been done to death on here over the years, read the 1000,s of other posts to get your answer to that question.

The clubs provide a service to people enjoying this lifestyle, at the end of this pandemic there will be less clubs less choice and that is simply a loss to the people who enjoy them.

Support your local clubs or you will loose them it’s purely that simple.

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By *ethnmelvCouple  over a year ago

Cardiff


"I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term.

Will you volunteer to pay the same membership fees and admission charges as single men, then?"

When we go to Clubs, we usually stay in a hotel, drive a fair distance to the Club and often buy a new outfit, or at the very least a new pair of Wolford stockings. The entrance fee is not our decider on whether we go or not.

If it is a Club that attracts a mix of couples, single ladies and single guys in a reasonable proportion then we’d pay the same. I’m pretty sure we did that at the old AbFabs.

We used to go to Clubs between 4-6 times a year. It was a hobby and we were willing to spend a reasonable amount on it. I don’t think we spent less than most single guys

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The overheads will be huge. For those without a licensed bar, I've always wandered how they make any money. I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term.

Why do you think they don’t have licensed bars?

Have you done any research on clubs before starting this thread? Only a small amount of clubs throughout the country have a licensed bar!"

Rather than being dismissive, why don't you, as a club owner/manager, educate the OP on why it is licenses aren't common and why clubs may not make money? Reading the original post it's quite feasible that the OP is looking at whether the club business is a viable income stream in the future.

Townhouse is arguably the most successful (by which I mean well thought of and lauded, I'm not aware of your finances) club amongst the northern swinging community, you of all people should be encouraging discourse on the viability of clubs particularly in this climate rather that deriding an inquistitive conversation on the matter. The whole point of a forum is to seek information, and opinions on topics that cannot always be gathered through other research methods, or as a starting point before moving into those.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are not in financial position to have a club.

But if we was we definitely would love to have one.

Not to make money but for more of us to enjoy this sexy erotic lifestyle.

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Membership businesses models are rubbish, growth is dismal, and most swingers didn’t want to spend money., I would invest in sheesha lounge but not swinging clubs

Sheesha consumption is minute.... I don't think I even know anyone who partakes.

It isn't about growth or monetary gain but providing a safe and secure place for people to express themself in."

Sheesha consumption isn’t really relevant, the experience is is a big growth area for people who don’t drink alcohol and want to smoke including cigarettes , drink coffee, eat in a bar , like most places in the world allow.

Business is about return on the capital you put in, growth in gross revenue at a higher rate than operating costs and job creation , anything else is just a hobby

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple  over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"The overheads will be huge. For those without a licensed bar, I've always wandered how they make any money. I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term.

Why do you think they don’t have licensed bars?

Have you done any research on clubs before starting this thread? Only a small amount of clubs throughout the country have a licensed bar!

Rather than being dismissive, why don't you, as a club owner/manager, educate the OP on why it is licenses aren't common and why clubs may not make money? Reading the original post it's quite feasible that the OP is looking at whether the club business is a viable income stream in the future.

Townhouse is arguably the most successful (by which I mean well thought of and lauded, I'm not aware of your finances) club amongst the northern swinging community, you of all people should be encouraging discourse on the viability of clubs particularly in this climate rather that deriding an inquistitive conversation on the matter. The whole point of a forum is to seek information, and opinions on topics that cannot always be gathered through other research methods, or as a starting point before moving into those."

You know people often quote me on here when threads ask for club info, business info, adult industry info. 'Go ask Vicky at Townhouse, she is really accommodating and will help you'. I can count maybe 2 people out of all of the people I have helped over the last decade who has stepped forward and offered us help during this time. So I'm feeling a little less helpful right now. Judge that how you will.

The one bit of advice I ALWAYS give to people who are looking into clubs before asking about the finances is KNOW YOUR MARKET. Do you own leg work. There's plenty of information out there. If someone is absolutely serious about opening a club and has done the leg work, I will help them. It's what I do. But don't expect me to be generous with my time and knowledge during a pandemic where current clubs can close, when the OP doesn't even know the basics about whether their competitors have a licence to sell alcohol or not.

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By *ethnmelvCouple  over a year ago

Cardiff


"The overheads will be huge. For those without a licensed bar, I've always wandered how they make any money. I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term.

Why do you think they don’t have licensed bars?

Have you done any research on clubs before starting this thread? Only a small amount of clubs throughout the country have a licensed bar!

Rather than being dismissive, why don't you, as a club owner/manager, educate the OP on why it is licenses aren't common and why clubs may not make money? Reading the original post it's quite feasible that the OP is looking at whether the club business is a viable income stream in the future.

Townhouse is arguably the most successful (by which I mean well thought of and lauded, I'm not aware of your finances) club amongst the northern swinging community, you of all people should be encouraging discourse on the viability of clubs particularly in this climate rather that deriding an inquistitive conversation on the matter. The whole point of a forum is to seek information, and opinions on topics that cannot always be gathered through other research methods, or as a starting point before moving into those.

You know people often quote me on here when threads ask for club info, business info, adult industry info. 'Go ask Vicky at Townhouse, she is really accommodating and will help you'. I can count maybe 2 people out of all of the people I have helped over the last decade who has stepped forward and offered us help during this time. So I'm feeling a little less helpful right now. Judge that how you will.

The one bit of advice I ALWAYS give to people who are looking into clubs before asking about the finances is KNOW YOUR MARKET. Do you own leg work. There's plenty of information out there. If someone is absolutely serious about opening a club and has done the leg work, I will help them. It's what I do. But don't expect me to be generous with my time and knowledge during a pandemic where current clubs can close, when the OP doesn't even know the basics about whether their competitors have a licence to sell alcohol or not. "

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The overheads will be huge. For those without a licensed bar, I've always wandered how they make any money. I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term.

Why do you think they don’t have licensed bars?

Have you done any research on clubs before starting this thread? Only a small amount of clubs throughout the country have a licensed bar!

Rather than being dismissive, why don't you, as a club owner/manager, educate the OP on why it is licenses aren't common and why clubs may not make money? Reading the original post it's quite feasible that the OP is looking at whether the club business is a viable income stream in the future.

Townhouse is arguably the most successful (by which I mean well thought of and lauded, I'm not aware of your finances) club amongst the northern swinging community, you of all people should be encouraging discourse on the viability of clubs particularly in this climate rather that deriding an inquistitive conversation on the matter. The whole point of a forum is to seek information, and opinions on topics that cannot always be gathered through other research methods, or as a starting point before moving into those.

You know people often quote me on here when threads ask for club info, business info, adult industry info. 'Go ask Vicky at Townhouse, she is really accommodating and will help you'. I can count maybe 2 people out of all of the people I have helped over the last decade who has stepped forward and offered us help during this time. So I'm feeling a little less helpful right now. Judge that how you will.

The one bit of advice I ALWAYS give to people who are looking into clubs before asking about the finances is KNOW YOUR MARKET. Do you own leg work. There's plenty of information out there. If someone is absolutely serious about opening a club and has done the leg work, I will help them. It's what I do. But don't expect me to be generous with my time and knowledge during a pandemic where current clubs can close, when the OP doesn't even know the basics about whether their competitors have a licence to sell alcohol or not. "

If you're so concerned about a lack of thanks or having your fingers burnt from previous attempts to help then don't get involved in the first place.

You were the first to respond with an egregiously dismissive and antagonistic comment. There was no need for your holier than thou condescension.

I have no dog in this fight; I don't know the OP. But this is after all a forum and at a time when doing the legwork is increasingly difficult it serves as a place to seek advice and ask questions from a community...apart from the "Virus" section, that's full of the tinfoil hat brigade.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple  over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"The overheads will be huge. For those without a licensed bar, I've always wandered how they make any money. I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term.

Why do you think they don’t have licensed bars?

Have you done any research on clubs before starting this thread? Only a small amount of clubs throughout the country have a licensed bar!

Rather than being dismissive, why don't you, as a club owner/manager, educate the OP on why it is licenses aren't common and why clubs may not make money? Reading the original post it's quite feasible that the OP is looking at whether the club business is a viable income stream in the future.

Townhouse is arguably the most successful (by which I mean well thought of and lauded, I'm not aware of your finances) club amongst the northern swinging community, you of all people should be encouraging discourse on the viability of clubs particularly in this climate rather that deriding an inquistitive conversation on the matter. The whole point of a forum is to seek information, and opinions on topics that cannot always be gathered through other research methods, or as a starting point before moving into those.

You know people often quote me on here when threads ask for club info, business info, adult industry info. 'Go ask Vicky at Townhouse, she is really accommodating and will help you'. I can count maybe 2 people out of all of the people I have helped over the last decade who has stepped forward and offered us help during this time. So I'm feeling a little less helpful right now. Judge that how you will.

The one bit of advice I ALWAYS give to people who are looking into clubs before asking about the finances is KNOW YOUR MARKET. Do you own leg work. There's plenty of information out there. If someone is absolutely serious about opening a club and has done the leg work, I will help them. It's what I do. But don't expect me to be generous with my time and knowledge during a pandemic where current clubs can close, when the OP doesn't even know the basics about whether their competitors have a licence to sell alcohol or not.

If you're so concerned about a lack of thanks or having your fingers burnt from previous attempts to help then don't get involved in the first place.

You were the first to respond with an egregiously dismissive and antagonistic comment. There was no need for your holier than thou condescension.

I have no dog in this fight; I don't know the OP. But this is after all a forum and at a time when doing the legwork is increasingly difficult it serves as a place to seek advice and ask questions from a community...apart from the "Virus" section, that's full of the tinfoil hat brigade.

"

'Holier than thou'....you sound like my mum, dissing my Dad. He's a vicar..they are divorced hahahaha Made me howl! Haven't heard that phrase in a while but you transported me back haha Thank you for the laughs x

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By *oolandsexyCouple  over a year ago

kings lynn

For a club to make a trading profit it needs to have a wide base of supporters and angles for trade.

Not all local councils see clubs as wrong. With a live and let live attitude. So as with many things in life it's location location location.

In addition a hotel and licensed bar adds different income streams with business customers a possible source during non club nights. The bar with licence only allows the council access to specified areas pertaining to the licence.

And so long as say the hotel activity is more than 50% then the secondary activity doesn't necessarily need planning permission. I think you'll find that coffee shops within other stores don't need specific planning permission.

Yes there is a living but not mega bucks and only if, like in any other business, well thought out planning.

But like any self employed business it's hard work!

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By *oAnCouple  over a year ago

Streatham


"Well from my calculations after visiting clubs and especially the ones that get big numbers every week I think they can be a gold mine "
They are not gold mines. Take into consideration a business open certain evenings only that charges a small amount to get in. Then you have licensing regulations. Then you have overheads. Easier to open a nightclub. Then you have the headache of people and relationships but not forgetting all the single men that bitch and _oan that cant understand the concept of partner swapping and then you realise that hitting your head against a brick wall is more rewarding.

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By *eachy123Woman  over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I think the swingers have to take into account all the hard work time and energy worries sleepless nights plus all the usual fab palace events overheads I think you should be looking at them as people who do it out of love for the swinging scene too I think they're all amazing especially now more so fighting to be able to still give something the community needs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A recent visit to a club that previously didn’t have a drinks license I found the price of drinks a rip off, £10 for a large vodka and tonic and £2 for a glass of . Yet this club had previously provides soft drinks free of charge. This then made a night away approaching £200 including entrance, drinks and a hotel. Previously this had amounted to approximately £100-£120.

Whilst I appreciate clubs need to make money, rent, staff and overheads need paying but surely if you price your customers out then surely you will loose out in the long term. Most of us are willing to pay a fair price and we know clubs are not there to loose money but like all consumers we don’t like being ripped off. Perhaps a way ahead is bring your own but charge a small corkage say a fiver to store alcohol

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By *ud and BryanCouple  over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

When we win the lottery, we'll open a club, as we know it's easy to make small fortune - you just have to start with a big fortune (unfortunately)

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By *ensual massagerMan  over a year ago

Bolton

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By *inderellaRockerfellazCouple  over a year ago

warrington


"Well from my calculations after visiting clubs and especially the ones that get big numbers every week I think they can be a gold mine

hahahahahahahahahahahaha"

Haha guffaw & spits coffee across room

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By *ensual massagerMan  over a year ago

Bolton


"I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term.

Will you volunteer to pay the same membership fees and admission charges as single men, then?"

No membership charges at the Gatehouse for anyone. Same entrance fee for everyone whether Male, female or tgirl. One person, one price.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is money in most business ventures other wise they would all shut down. A well run club under normal circumstances can turn a decent profit. The sad thing is many swingers clubs are poorly run often by enthusiastic armatures not business people.

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By *xtrafun4youMan  over a year ago

Dunstable


"Assuming no covid, do you think there’s money to be made in clubs? "
Money can be made anywhere. If you have a good business model.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It all depends on the management, good clubs are worth their weight in gold. Bad management bad club and there has been some shockers x

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By *ooukMan  over a year ago

Skegness

You can make money but it not as easy as you think people think big super clubs make money and yes may look good on paper but you may get 1 good night a month rest of the month your fighting for money to pay the running costs heating not cheap. staff has to be paid. Smaller venues done well are a better bet if you can fill them every weekend. But the days of £100 for a single male and £50 for a couple and getting membership fees are over. £10-£20 a person is the true market price. unless you're going for the high end and that market is not for most on here even if you think you are. as most of us dont have the money and or looks to get a look in and they have there own networks. and venues are fighting people just getting a airbnb venue and that has no red tape.

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By *uliaChrisCouple  over a year ago

westerham

Every six months we get a thread that claims clubs are a goldmine. Just big lols.

We’ve been to most of the UK ones, sadly not Townhouse yet, and it is perfectly obvious that even the biggest are a labour of love, and even in normal times probably barely cover overheads.

Of course, if at some point a person who thinks clubs are a goldmine does actually go to the bank, get a loan, and makes a gazillion quid running a club, then I take it all back and I will let Julia peg me.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple  over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

ok so let's give you some inside knowledge and it's no surprise. Most people who have commented are correct.

Some people see quite a lot of cash payments being handed across the counter on arrival, they do some quick sums in their head and think, wow...that's a lot of money. On a busy night, yes it can be a lot of money. I should say, we accept card too!

We don't charge a membership fee out of choice and we don't completely rip off guys either; guys pay a fiver more than a couple on a Saturday night for instance. Either way, to someone watching the gathering queue outside and all of the £25's being handed over, I can see why some would see a club as a pot of gold.

Our bar is subsidised as it's a members club, so our booze is cheap. We could charge more for drinks but I am of the belief that people are paying to come in, so drinks should be subsidised to make the night out more affordable. Again though, someone watching the 3 deep bar on a busy night may think that the till is busting. It's worth pointing out here that a lot of clubs do not have a licence to sell alcohol

What most people don't know and obviously don't see are the huge overheads clubs have to pay. All councils have different ways of categorising clubs; there isn't a one size fits all. Some are night clubs, some are sex entertainment venues (very few now) and some are private hire venues. Some have multi classifications if they have hotels. licenses are required regardless and these vary in what they allow and the cost. We have quite a lot of licensed activities and pay for them!!

The biggest outlay in any business is staff. Some clubs have volunteers who enjoy perks in return for their work, but many have paid staff and busy venues have a lot of them.

Insurance is costly because we need special 'adult industry' insurance. We have also just been informed that many insurers have dropped out of the market since Covid and will not insure our type of business. This means that the one or two left have the niche and our monthly payments will be going up hugely from November.

Electricity and gas is expensive as big venues have tons of lights, fridges, entertainment rooms with disco lighting and PA's etc... and a sauna/hot tub...very expensive!!! We're not just talking a few hundred quid a month here.

Water is ridiculous and most premises will be on a meter. Showers and toilets on the go all the time and filling the hot tub all the time creates a big bill.

Business rates and accountancy fees...don't even go there!

Then there's all the smaller things that mount up...business internet, fire and intruder alarm custodians, phone lines, business mobiles, support services for various things. loads of minor things like stationary, internet hosting, printer cartridges, membership cards, cleaning products and bog roll...fuck me, we go through so much bog roll!!!!!!

LAUNDRY!!! Oh my fucking god!!! The laundry bill for sheets, towels and gowns is ridiculous!!!!

The point is, the overheads are HUGE! Clubs are definitely viable otherwise we wouldn't be running them, but they are not goldmines. We earn a living but we work REALLY hard for the money and 90 hour weeks are normal.

If someone wanted to open a club, I would ask, 'do you have a lot of money to spend to get it open?', 'are you prepared to work your arse off for a moderate income?' and 'do you love the scene enough to give your weekends and probably kill off your own swinging mojo?'

Clubs are fun to run and we've met the BEST people, but if someone had told me 8-9 years ago how hard it was going to be, I'd run for the hills!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

ThankYou for not running to the hills. When You get to know the owners and the people who run events like Boo, Yourself and countless others you understand the hard work and love that goes into it all. I think coming from a bdsm background for us we understand events are governed by certain protocols that are understood by everyone involved. Swinging is different. As was said above Gatehouse and other places do have a single entry price.. while say a Mistress event will have free entry for ladies who bring the submissive clientele in. So miss being involved in a house. But if a club is going to cater for the kinky bdsm crowd.. dungeon equipment is not cheap either

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple  over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"ThankYou for not running to the hills. When You get to know the owners and the people who run events like Boo, Yourself and countless others you understand the hard work and love that goes into it all. I think coming from a bdsm background for us we understand events are governed by certain protocols that are understood by everyone involved. Swinging is different. As was said above Gatehouse and other places do have a single entry price.. while say a Mistress event will have free entry for ladies who bring the submissive clientele in. So miss being involved in a house. But if a club is going to cater for the kinky bdsm crowd.. dungeon equipment is not cheap either

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I should note at this point, that hosting/running events or even doing some managing at a club is COMPLETELY different to actually owning a club and having that responsibility. So many people have run events andhave lots of event experience and think they can run a club, but it's a different league altogether!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

definately. the bricks and mortar is always more challenging

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The sheer initial outlay for a club, getting the licences, ensuring the capacity you want is covered with the building design and complies with the fire regulations etc will cost 1000s if not 10s of 1000s without starting to fit it out. To design and build a club capable of hosting several hundred people is a massive undertaking. Most buildings aren't designed for that capacity unless you have a former bar or nightclub. Most industrial properties might require additional fire escapes or the existing making larger in order to allow the number of people you want in a club. Then you can start to think of fitting it out..lighting furnishings and all materials have to be a minimum easily cleanable, authorities might even insist that even wall paper/paint finishes etc is antimicrobial and can be sterilised..there is much more to operating a club than a few beds in a building..why do you think some clubs open then close soon after ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"ThankYou for not running to the hills. When You get to know the owners and the people who run events like Boo, Yourself and countless others you understand the hard work and love that goes into it all. I think coming from a bdsm background for us we understand events are governed by certain protocols that are understood by everyone involved. Swinging is different. As was said above Gatehouse and other places do have a single entry price.. while say a Mistress event will have free entry for ladies who bring the submissive clientele in. So miss being involved in a house. But if a club is going to cater for the kinky bdsm crowd.. dungeon equipment is not cheap either

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I should note at this point, that hosting/running events or even doing some managing at a club is COMPLETELY different to actually owning a club and having that responsibility. So many people have run events andhave lots of event experience and think they can run a club, but it's a different league altogether! "

Before we had our club we hosted event's for nearly two years and like others didn't appreciate the difference which is massive.

Anyone who thinks clubs are gold mines of money have no idea at all what they are talking about! We do it because we love the swinging community and enjoy like minded people around us.

Before this pandemic we made enough money to live & pay our bills plus a very small operating profit which would usually go straight back into the club in maintenance or new equipment.

I personally think a discussion about money in clubs is a bit of a kick in the teeth to us clubs that are shut or only opening partly and in bad taste at the wrong time

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By *atonMan  over a year ago

barnet

I was a regular at kestrels fabs and I did the sums. Very lucrative indeed .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was a regular at kestrels fabs and I did the sums. Very lucrative indeed ."

Please open a club then and enjoy all the cash!

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By *uliaChrisCouple  over a year ago

westerham


"I was a regular at kestrels fabs and I did the sums. Very lucrative indeed ."

Yep rent is notoriously cheap in West London

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By *rummiePartyManMan  over a year ago

birmingham

How about the guys from Xtasia, Townhouse, Club Play etc, take part in a Dragons Den, with people pitching their money making proposals to them?

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple  over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"How about the guys from Xtasia, Townhouse, Club Play etc, take part in a Dragons Den, with people pitching their money making proposals to them?

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Why? If we can open again, we'll be fine. We don't need investors lol

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman  over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"I was a regular at kestrels fabs and I did the sums. Very lucrative indeed ."

What comes in through the door - outgoings & other costs = not as lucrative as you assume

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By *ister-mischiefMan  over a year ago

Trafford

"This time next year rodney"

I think the answer is no OP other than blood sweat and tears. Club owners work frickin hard and if there was money in clubs there would be a lot more around.

I just hope those that can and will survive this year of hell can look forward to opening again fully for the benefit of all as soon as this is over, clubs should be cherished.

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By *ink flamingoWoman  over a year ago

essex


"ok so let's give you some inside knowledge and it's no surprise. Most people who have commented are correct.

Some people see quite a lot of cash payments being handed across the counter on arrival, they do some quick sums in their head and think, wow...that's a lot of money. On a busy night, yes it can be a lot of money. I should say, we accept card too!

We don't charge a membership fee out of choice and we don't completely rip off guys either; guys pay a fiver more than a couple on a Saturday night for instance. Either way, to someone watching the gathering queue outside and all of the £25's being handed over, I can see why some would see a club as a pot of gold.

Our bar is subsidised as it's a members club, so our booze is cheap. We could charge more for drinks but I am of the belief that people are paying to come in, so drinks should be subsidised to make the night out more affordable. Again though, someone watching the 3 deep bar on a busy night may think that the till is busting. It's worth pointing out here that a lot of clubs do not have a licence to sell alcohol

What most people don't know and obviously don't see are the huge overheads clubs have to pay. All councils have different ways of categorising clubs; there isn't a one size fits all. Some are night clubs, some are sex entertainment venues (very few now) and some are private hire venues. Some have multi classifications if they have hotels. licenses are required regardless and these vary in what they allow and the cost. We have quite a lot of licensed activities and pay for them!!

The biggest outlay in any business is staff. Some clubs have volunteers who enjoy perks in return for their work, but many have paid staff and busy venues have a lot of them.

Insurance is costly because we need special 'adult industry' insurance. We have also just been informed that many insurers have dropped out of the market since Covid and will not insure our type of business. This means that the one or two left have the niche and our monthly payments will be going up hugely from November.

Electricity and gas is expensive as big venues have tons of lights, fridges, entertainment rooms with disco lighting and PA's etc... and a sauna/hot tub...very expensive!!! We're not just talking a few hundred quid a month here.

Water is ridiculous and most premises will be on a meter. Showers and toilets on the go all the time and filling the hot tub all the time creates a big bill.

Business rates and accountancy fees...don't even go there!

Then there's all the smaller things that mount up...business internet, fire and intruder alarm custodians, phone lines, business mobiles, support services for various things. loads of minor things like stationary, internet hosting, printer cartridges, membership cards, cleaning products and bog roll...fuck me, we go through so much bog roll!!!!!!

LAUNDRY!!! Oh my fucking god!!! The laundry bill for sheets, towels and gowns is ridiculous!!!!

The point is, the overheads are HUGE! Clubs are definitely viable otherwise we wouldn't be running them, but they are not goldmines. We earn a living but we work REALLY hard for the money and 90 hour weeks are normal.

If someone wanted to open a club, I would ask, 'do you have a lot of money to spend to get it open?', 'are you prepared to work your arse off for a moderate income?' and 'do you love the scene enough to give your weekends and probably kill off your own swinging mojo?'

Clubs are fun to run and we've met the BEST people, but if someone had told me 8-9 years ago how hard it was going to be, I'd run for the hills!!!"

Your penultimate paragraph couldn’t ring truer to us at VA, we feel you here down south

Actually everything you have said we would echo!

I think you may have just dropped the mic and exited stage left on this conversation xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The club i used to regularly attend made aprox £3500 per month, they only opened Friday amd Saturday nights, and wasn't a big place, maybe avearage 30/40 people an evening.

Soft drinks were sold, and hot drinks too, so I guess it wasn't very profitable for them.

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By *atonMan  over a year ago

barnet

How does everyone know that money is not being made. As an ex publican with a lease and overheads I understand the pitfalls and outlays . The clubs with large footfall like kestrals and chameleons will have been viable turning over good profit margins . I have been to several poorly run clubs that have less clientele that survive so makes sense that the two mentioned will have thrived. To say they are all just a labour of love cant be correct surely

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By *lex46TV/TS  over a year ago

Near Wells

They are lifestyle business, like pubs, guest houses, even farms. My business is a life business away from home a lot. Like me, they probably don't make huge amounts of money but enough to pay the bills and maybe the odd luxury.

But they enjoy the work, love being in that particular industry and wouldn't want to work for anyone else.

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By *un guy 2020Man  over a year ago

near you

What is a sheesh a lounge??

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By *ethnmelvCouple  over a year ago

Cardiff


"How does everyone know that money is not being made. As an ex publican with a lease and overheads I understand the pitfalls and outlays . The clubs with large footfall like kestrals and chameleons will have been viable turning over good profit margins . I have been to several poorly run clubs that have less clientele that survive so makes sense that the two mentioned will have thrived. To say they are all just a labour of love cant be correct surely"

Frankly, who cares? If only we could actually go to Clubs! Making up hypothetic situations is irrelevant. We currently cannot go, but would love to

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"What is a sheesh a lounge??"

People smoke from big hubble bubble pipes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The overheads will be huge. For those without a licensed bar, I've always wandered how they make any money. I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term.

Why do you think they don’t have licensed bars? "

To keep piss heads out!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The overheads will be huge. For those without a licensed bar, I've always wandered how they make any money. I would happily pay more to support clubs longer term.

Why do you think they don’t have licensed bars?

To keep piss heads out! "

I don't know about other clubs but our club did have an alchol lincense, we gave it up choosing to be a private members club allowing people to bring there your own alcohol for two reasons.

1) The local authorities would not allow us to have a alchol licence after 1am but would allow a private member club where people bring there own alcohol

2) We know other clubs sell reasonable priced alcohol and this is not a swipe at them but we found people attending Club Play do prefer to bring there own alcohol especially as Tesco express is right behind us.

We could try and apply again for a later hours lincense but concluded even if we got one we would stay the same way we are operating now.

The other thing to add is myself and a large number of people involved with the club have a person alchol license meaning we can do a Tens ( temporary events notices) With these we can serve alcohol if we wanted upto 15 days/nights in any one calender year.

I prefer my staff to have personal alcohol license not just for the Tens but to have a understanding of alcohol & be responsible like a normal bar for what people drink even if they bring own alchol. This means my staff can get personally fined by the authorities for serving alchol to someone that's had to much and loose there alcohol licence ect. This upsets some customers who bring there own acholic we have to monitor at times who do understand we operate that way & think they can drink any amount as it's there own alcohol lol

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