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your first experience in a club?
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"Maybe 12 years ago at Abfab on a Saturday night (couples and single girls). Found a couple to play with but after touching and kissing both she swam off and he said he wasn’t allowed to fuck anyone else. They’d obviously had their foreplay and excitement with a single girl then went off to play by themselves. I felt used and made me realise check boundaries in advance!! I then tried a Friday where single guys are allowed and found my playground "And that is where I met you 
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 I cannot remember how I got back to the hotel but I have hazy memories of a very full 7 seater 4 wheel drive vehicle! I do, however, remember walking god knows how far from the hotel to a convenient tram stop, after trying to consume one of those awful Travelodge Breakfast Boxes, conveniently missing all of the bus services, to get back to Manchester for the train back home!
My next visit to the club was also with the same forum but a different organiser. This time I had my own (hired) car and was able to "paddle my own canoe" to get to the club. I stopped on the M6* services ?Birch Coppice? and whilst I didn`t get to play, I was delighted to meet another forum member who has remained a close personal friend. I also remember going into the plunge pool and finding it so bloody cold I had to go into the jacuzzi to warm up again! I also remember some of our group dying for a smoke but not being able to go out to the smoking bus because there was a police incident in the alleyway outside the club! Thanks to the incredibly frosty night, the journey back to the hotel was interesting to say the least! Needless to say, my visits to Partners have not been the best but none have been the club`s fault! | |||
"Maybe 12 years ago at Abfab on a Saturday night (couples and single girls). Found a couple to play with but after touching and kissing both she swam off and he said he wasn’t allowed to fuck anyone else. They’d obviously had their foreplay and excitement with a single girl then went off to play by themselves. I felt used and made me realise check boundaries in advance!! I then tried a Friday where single guys are allowed and found my playground
And that is where I met you
And you smacked my arse "Hush your mouth, I’d never dare do such a thing
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"Maybe 12 years ago at Abfab on a Saturday night (couples and single girls). Found a couple to play with but after touching and kissing both she swam off and he said he wasn’t allowed to fuck anyone else. They’d obviously had their foreplay and excitement with a single girl then went off to play by themselves. I felt used and made me realise check boundaries in advance!! I then tried a Friday where single guys are allowed and found my playground
And that is where I met you
And you smacked my arse
Hush your mouth, I’d never dare do such a thing
"So lovely to see you again in the forums | |||
"Maybe 12 years ago at Abfab on a Saturday night (couples and single girls). Found a couple to play with but after touching and kissing both she swam off and he said he wasn’t allowed to fuck anyone else. They’d obviously had their foreplay and excitement with a single girl then went off to play by themselves. I felt used and made me realise check boundaries in advance!! I then tried a Friday where single guys are allowed and found my playground
And that is where I met you
And you smacked my arse
Hush your mouth, I’d never dare do such a thing
So lovely to see you again in the forums "Thank you. My Extended timeout was what I needed. Miss all the k crowd. They sure were fun times | |||
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"It’s just over an hour’s drive to get to the first club I visited, and the closer I got, the more nervous I became! Parking right outside the front door, I counted to three, then jumped out of my car, and got to the door before I talked myself out of it. Once inside, I received a friendly welcome by the owner, signed in, was given a little pep talk about respectful behaviour, then given a tour of the place. Settling in at the bar, I chatted with the bar staff and started to relax, looking around for an opportunity to chat with others. It was a quiet night, not many people in, but I did manage to chat with an older couple for a while. I hung around for a couple of hours, but it was slow going, as typically, nobody was interested in a single guy. It was quite a disappointment, after all the excitement and build-up about going, a genuine anti-climax! I’ve always likened it to feeling like a Sunday afternoon in a working men’s club, rather than what I thought a Friday night in a swingers’ club might be. OP; if you are planning to visit a club as a single guy, do contact whichever club you’re looking at, and ask them to recommend times when single guys are ACTIVELY SOUGHT. Otherwise; go with a female "Good advice!! I may have found a partner in crime, female, who is also looking to visit a few places she has never been to before, so that may make things a little easier. She is a lot more experienced than me, so that should help as well.. Now to get rid of Covid !! | |||
"It’s just over an hour’s drive to get to the first club I visited, and the closer I got, the more nervous I became! Parking right outside the front door, I counted to three, then jumped out of my car, and got to the door before I talked myself out of it. Once inside, I received a friendly welcome by the owner, signed in, was given a little pep talk about respectful behaviour, then given a tour of the place. Settling in at the bar, I chatted with the bar staff and started to relax, looking around for an opportunity to chat with others. It was a quiet night, not many people in, but I did manage to chat with an older couple for a while. I hung around for a couple of hours, but it was slow going, as typically, nobody was interested in a single guy. It was quite a disappointment, after all the excitement and build-up about going, a genuine anti-climax! I’ve always likened it to feeling like a Sunday afternoon in a working men’s club, rather than what I thought a Friday night in a swingers’ club might be. OP; if you are planning to visit a club as a single guy, do contact whichever club you’re looking at, and ask them to recommend times when single guys are ACTIVELY SOUGHT. Otherwise; go with a female
Good advice!! I may have found a partner in crime, female, who is also looking to visit a few places she has never been to before, so that may make things a little easier. She is a lot more experienced than me, so that should help as well.. Now to get rid of Covid !!"Well Covid has given you plenty of time to plan ahead, for when the clubs reopen 'properly'. Definitely go with a female the first few times, to get your face known, before braving it as a single male | |||
