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Me and my partner have been looking for either mmf ffm or a couple .. struggling to find singletons or couples That we like or get on with . We’ve been to a club start of this year played together etc didn’t play with anyone else as it was first time experience ... but for you that have done ffm,mmf would you say it’s easier to get one through going to clubs with the atmosphere etc or through private meets ? |
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"Me and my partner have been looking for either mmf ffm or a couple .. struggling to find singletons or couples That we like or get on with . We’ve been to a club start of this year played together etc didn’t play with anyone else as it was first time experience ... but for you that have done ffm,mmf would you say it’s easier to get one through going to clubs with the atmosphere etc or through private meets ? "
Definitely clubs. Too many fantasists on here....and that was pre covid. Now the numbers have increased sadly. Wait till clubs open again. |
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"Me and my partner have been looking for either mmf ffm or a couple .. struggling to find singletons or couples That we like or get on with . We’ve been to a club start of this year played together etc didn’t play with anyone else as it was first time experience ... but for you that have done ffm,mmf would you say it’s easier to get one through going to clubs with the atmosphere etc or through private meets ? "
For us, its been mixed. With a club there's the pressure of time, who's there and whether you put your eggs and time into the right basket to achieve a result. We have had some great off the cuff nights at a club, but its probably best used for socialising and planned meets as we tend to be the types that are not confident enough to chance the orgy room etc.
Both have their place, remember though when looking for a couple it can be tricky too as all 4 have to be interested x |
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We've never been to a club but we've met several single women here who've joined us for a happy threesome.
It's the luck of where you are, who's looking and how you get on when you make contact and when you meet. |
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Any approach, clubs, organising using fab, socials etc MIGHT work..... you’re a bit younger so probably looking for people your age is going to require a bit more effort simply to increase the size of the pool of people you choose from.
From what we hear, organised socials can be busy and unpressured so that might be your best option.
For us, we love clubs, but I think we tend to ‘go with the flow’, chatting, flirting, playing etc. as opposed to ‘dating’  |
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"Me and my partner have been looking for either mmf ffm or a couple .. struggling to find singletons or couples That we like or get on with . We’ve been to a club start of this year played together etc didn’t play with anyone else as it was first time experience ... but for you that have done ffm,mmf would you say it’s easier to get one through going to clubs with the atmosphere etc or through private meets ?
Definitely clubs. Too many fantasists on here....and that was pre covid. Now the numbers have increased sadly. Wait till clubs open again. "
100% this  x |
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We broke our swing cherry with an mmf at a club then met a couple from on her and enjoyed each other in the same club. That led to an mmmfff 2 weeks later at the club and a nother mmmfff at ours a couple of weeks after that. The club makes things easier and less nerve wracking as your already having fun chatting with no expectations. It's amazing when it spontaneously turns filthy tho and really boosts your confidence. |
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Clubs have always been for us, although every night is different. As of yet we've not met another couple from here outside the club scene, so maybe we're missing out? But in our experience wherever you are you can meet the best people and have the best times when you least expect. One of our hottest encounters was outside of the scene with a open minded couple we met in the vanilla world. Totally unexpected end to a night out. They are good friends of ours now. |
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