"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!
How was your first time?"
First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!
Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ...  |
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"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!
How was your first time?
First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!
Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ... "
I remember your first club visit better than I remember mine 
My first club visit was about 20 years ago now, Was nervous on the drive there and when I got there but never looked back since  |
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"We went just to look around and ended up full swapping on the first night. That was 14 years ago, now we primarily meet at clubs "
Do you know if there some in Colchester? |
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"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!
How was your first time?
First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!
Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ...
I remember your first club visit better than I remember mine
My first club visit was about 20 years ago now, Was nervous on the drive there and when I got there but never looked back since "
Hahaha ... I blame you Lee, I was sweet & innocent until you showed me your leather flogger ...  |
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"We went just to look around and ended up full swapping on the first night. That was 14 years ago, now we primarily meet at clubs
Do you know if there some in Colchester?"
Not sure. I would usually say look at the review section but it's off due to covid19. We go to pleasures in Kent near Maidstone
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"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!
How was your first time?
First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!
Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ...
I remember your first club visit better than I remember mine
My first club visit was about 20 years ago now, Was nervous on the drive there and when I got there but never looked back since "
Mine was when I was 19 at a club in amsterdam. Never looked back |
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"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!
How was your first time?
First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!
Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ...
I remember your first club visit better than I remember mine
My first club visit was about 20 years ago now, Was nervous on the drive there and when I got there but never looked back since
Hahaha ... I blame you Lee, I was sweet & innocent until you showed me your leather flogger ... "
That's it, sweet and innocent, those were the words I was looking for to describe you when I met you |
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"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!
How was your first time?
First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!
Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ...
I remember your first club visit better than I remember mine
My first club visit was about 20 years ago now, Was nervous on the drive there and when I got there but never looked back since
Mine was when I was 19 at a club in amsterdam. Never looked back "
Mine was a really small but very friendly club in Northampton which has been shut for a number of years now! |
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"I'm single. Would you suggest going on my own the first time or with someone? "
I'd say go on your own unless you go with someone that you know really well! |
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"Thanks for the advice. I can't wait for the clubs to open. I feel a mixture of excitement and dread but it will be ok. "
No problem, do plenty of research. Not only choose the right club but choose the right night/event as well. If you do that I'm sure that you'll have a great time |
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"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!
How was your first time?
First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!
Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ... "
The hardest part is getting over any nerves and getting through the door. I've never had a bad experience at the club I go to, the hosts such as the lovely Morticia here always make you feel comfortable. Just be relaxed and happy and you will have a great time, play or no play. |
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