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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ive noticed a very clicky culture in certain rooms and its come to my notice that southeast room which used to be good has literally died a death some have moved on to general chat try and be a newbie in there jesus not a chance in hell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never wanted to try chat rooms or cams and this is why. There is always some weird behaviour in any online encounter, meeting in real life is so much better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive noticed a very clicky culture in certain rooms and its come to my notice that southeast room which used to be good has literally died a death some have moved on to general chat try and be a newbie in there jesus not a chance in hell "
Always the way no matter what site, some welcome the new but groups form and it's hard to penetrate sometimes and I do love to penetrate  |
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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago
Warrington & Glasgow |
It's a bit like walking into a local neighbourhood pub with lots of regulars. If you slam the door open and shout "Evening all!!" at the top of your voice, you'll get a lot of strange looks and then be ignored. If, instead, you go over to the bar, order your pint and start a convo with someone drinking at the bar, you'll get chatting, introduced to their mates and so on. After a few nights you'll be a regular too!
In the chat room, the regulars may have been chatting to each other for years and may well have met each other. Sit back, get a feel for the chat and join in when you can, but try to persevere a little if you don't get an immediate response. Hopefully the regulars will remember that they were newbies once, too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most sensible reply I've seen for ages - and so true.
The Summer holidays, folks having smallies at home and other such commitments tend to keep the Perves busy during the day - and this heat has lost a few to the swimming pools, beaches etc.
We are a friendly bunch in the Ireland room. Generally after 10pm we have a regular crowd lurkin' though 
"It's a bit like walking into a local neighbourhood pub with lots of regulars. If you slam the door open and shout "Evening all!!" at the top of your voice, you'll get a lot of strange looks and then be ignored. If, instead, you go over to the bar, order your pint and start a convo with someone drinking at the bar, you'll get chatting, introduced to their mates and so on. After a few nights you'll be a regular too!
In the chat room, the regulars may have been chatting to each other for years and may well have met each other. Sit back, get a feel for the chat and join in when you can, but try to persevere a little if you don't get an immediate response. Hopefully the regulars will remember that they were newbies once, too!"
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Tbh the chatrooms are what you make it, and if you go in with the right attitude you are bound to be able to join in somewhere, even I can do it and I'm well known for my antisocial behaviour  . Just remember chat isn't always going to involve sex, it could range from tea and biscuits to 80s cartoon theme songs. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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I once went into the Chat Rooms and have never been so intimidated in my life.
Firstly, there's so much techie stuff to recall, plus numerous emoji's, symbols & so on about which you've no idea what they're for or what they do.
Once you've got through all that, you have to work your way through everyone. Regulars fail to spot newcomers or assist them; the cliques don't give newcomers any leeway.
It was a minefield in there; I was so glad to get out. The existing people in there don't make it easy for newcomers to the scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of the rooms are the same it's more of a battle of wills. As a guy is very difficult for me to get anyone to talk to you and I see myself as one of the normal ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went in the Midlands chat go on for the fist time this morning. No idea if there were regular people in there. But had a great chat with 4 or 5 people. |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"Tbh the chatrooms are what you make it, and if you go in with the right attitude you are bound to be able to join in somewhere, even I can do it and I'm well known for my antisocial behaviour . Just remember chat isn't always going to involve sex, it could range from tea and biscuits to 80s cartoon theme songs."
This, just mention cake and you’ll be inundated!! I used to love the SE chat room but everyone just disappeared seemingly overnight.... bizarre... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive noticed a very clicky culture in certain rooms and its come to my notice that southeast room which used to be good has literally died a death some have moved on to general chat try and be a newbie in there jesus not a chance in hell "
chatrooms are all about the people in them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"chatrooms are all about the people in them "
There are many, many good, genuine and witty folks in the room which I visit whenever I can, certainly outnumbering the "cretin contingent" hugely.
All that needs to be done is to correctly identify any goon and totally ignore them until THEY feel the result of their wimpish and cowardly ways by getting nothing back and feeling 'hurt'
THAT...... will wind the poor buggers up more than anything else available in a chatroom to retaliate with.....
Don't feed them, pity them and their sad, jealous, negative little ways..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"chatrooms are all about the people in them
There are many, many good, genuine and witty folks in the room which I visit whenever I can, certainly outnumbering the "cretin contingent" hugely.
All that needs to be done is to correctly identify any goon and totally ignore them until THEY feel the result of their wimpish and cowardly ways by getting nothing back and feeling 'hurt'
THAT...... will wind the poor buggers up more than anything else available in a chatroom to retaliate with.....
Don't feed them, pity them and their sad, jealous, negative little ways..... "
Hey the best way is to encourage people obviously if they are rude can't do much with them but all it takes is one negative comment and you can send anyone down the wrong path at any given moment |
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