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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I'm fed up of people going in to chatrooms and moaning that there's a clique in them. All rooms (especially regional ones) have people that go in them on a regular basis, and meet at parties/socials; therefore they know one another and do talk in the room. However plenty of 'newbies' come in to the room and speak to others plus join in the conversations going on.

You can't go into the chatrooms and complain that there's a clique, if you haven't bothered to try and converse with others and only going in the said room once will not get you known/remembered. Everyone was once a newbie in the chatroom, however got talking to others in there and maybe eventually met. There is no cliques in the room, just people that bother to meet and make conversation.

Yes it's a swingers site, doesn't mean all conversations are of a sexual nature.

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple  over a year ago

Travelling


"I'm fed up of people going in to chatrooms and moaning that there's a clique in them. All rooms (especially regional ones) have people that go in them on a regular basis, and meet at parties/socials; therefore they know one another and do talk in the room. However plenty of 'newbies' come in to the room and speak to others plus join in the conversations going on.

You can't go into the chatrooms and complain that there's a clique, if you haven't bothered to try and converse with others and only going in the said room once will not get you known/remembered. Everyone was once a newbie in the chatroom, however got talking to others in there and maybe eventually met. There is no cliques in the room, just people that bother to meet and make conversation.

Yes it's a swingers site, doesn't mean all conversations are of a sexual nature. "

For a change.......

What she said

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm fed up of people going in to chatrooms and moaning that there's a clique in them. All rooms (especially regional ones) have people that go in them on a regular basis, and meet at parties/socials; therefore they know one another and do talk in the room. However plenty of 'newbies' come in to the room and speak to others plus join in the conversations going on.

You can't go into the chatrooms and complain that there's a clique, if you haven't bothered to try and converse with others and only going in the said room once will not get you known/remembered. Everyone was once a newbie in the chatroom, however got talking to others in there and maybe eventually met. There is no cliques in the room, just people that bother to meet and make conversation.

Yes it's a swingers site, doesn't mean all conversations are of a sexual nature.

For a change.......

What she said "

Wow and it's in textual evidence lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm fed up of people going in to chatrooms and moaning that there's a clique in them. All rooms (especially regional ones) have people that go in them on a regular basis, and meet at parties/socials; therefore they know one another and do talk in the room. However plenty of 'newbies' come in to the room and speak to others plus join in the conversations going on.

You can't go into the chatrooms and complain that there's a clique, if you haven't bothered to try and converse with others and only going in the said room once will not get you known/remembered. Everyone was once a newbie in the chatroom, however got talking to others in there and maybe eventually met. There is no cliques in the room, just people that bother to meet and make conversation.

Yes it's a swingers site, doesn't mean all conversations are of a sexual nature.

For a change.......

What she said

Wow and it's in textual evidence lol "

Not going to be suckered into agreeing...no...can't do it...oh bollocks...she's right

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By *ucky1Man  over a year ago

a straightjacket

Totally agree....I've been going into the chatrooms for years and been in the northern room ever since it was created, so you get to know people well.

When new folk come into the room, I try and welcome them but sometimes they just don't want to interact....hence I'd rather chat with the guys I've always chatted to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Totally agree....I've been going into the chatrooms for years and been in the northern room ever since it was created, so you get to know people well.

When new folk come into the room, I try and welcome them but sometimes they just don't want to interact....hence I'd rather chat with the guys I've always chatted to "

Great reply fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Totally agree....I've been going into the chatrooms for years and been in the northern room ever since it was created, so you get to know people well.

When new folk come into the room, I try and welcome them but sometimes they just don't want to interact....hence I'd rather chat with the guys I've always chatted to "

I've always spoken to those that speak to me. I go in mids room and there are those that only go in that room so know each other, but others do become known/regulars too and join in the conversations.

I'll venture into other rooms but dont tend to as not where i am and it's far easier for men to go in and out of other rooms as women tend to be classed as cam bunnys especially if they arent regulars in that room. So if i do i normally stay off cam.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm fed up of people going in to chatrooms and moaning that there's a clique in them. All rooms (especially regional ones) have people that go in them on a regular basis, and meet at parties/socials; therefore they know one another and do talk in the room. However plenty of 'newbies' come in to the room and speak to others plus join in the conversations going on.

You can't go into the chatrooms and complain that there's a clique, if you haven't bothered to try and converse with others and only going in the said room once will not get you known/remembered. Everyone was once a newbie in the chatroom, however got talking to others in there and maybe eventually met. There is no cliques in the room, just people that bother to meet and make conversation.

Yes it's a swingers site, doesn't mean all conversations are of a sexual nature.

For a change.......

What she said

Wow and it's in textual evidence lol

Not going to be suckered into agreeing...no...can't do it...oh bollocks...she's right "

textual evidence too lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Totally agree....I've been going into the chatrooms for years and been in the northern room ever since it was created, so you get to know people well.

When new folk come into the room, I try and welcome them but sometimes they just don't want to interact....hence I'd rather chat with the guys I've always chatted to

I've always spoken to those that speak to me. I go in mids room and there are those that only go in that room so know each other, but others do become known/regulars too and join in the conversations.

I'll venture into other rooms but dont tend to as not where i am and it's far easier for men to go in and out of other rooms as women tend to be classed as cam bunnys especially if they arent regulars in that room. So if i do i normally stay off cam. "

I understand that everyone uses the site and chat rooms for their own purpose but some of the ones that are obviously only in for cam watching and won't speak unless a female is on cam or are freely entering in conversation until the female goes off cam get my blood boiling at times

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm fed up of people going in to chatrooms and moaning that there's a clique in them. All rooms (especially regional ones) have people that go in them on a regular basis, and meet at parties/socials; therefore they know one another and do talk in the room. However plenty of 'newbies' come in to the room and speak to others plus join in the conversations going on.

You can't go into the chatrooms and complain that there's a clique, if you haven't bothered to try and converse with others and only going in the said room once will not get you known/remembered. Everyone was once a newbie in the chatroom, however got talking to others in there and maybe eventually met. There is no cliques in the room, just people that bother to meet and make conversation.

Yes it's a swingers site, doesn't mean all conversations are of a sexual nature. "

Sorry I'm going to have to disagree on this one. I've stopped going to the chat rooms for this very reason. I've lost count of the times I've made comments in various chat rooms - always polite and respectful - only to be totally ignored by that chat rooms clique. And believe me it is a horrible feeling!

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By *luffy_bunniesCouple  over a year ago

Ilkeston

Yawn. Yes, chat rooms make us bored. They do seem to be commandeered by the same people day in day out. But hey, that's life. If you don't like the chat rooms, don't use them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To be fair you could have a parallel thread - forum cliques

Moral is, as mentioned previously, if you don't like then don't use.

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