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Ignorance and rudeness to Single Men.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After using this site for some time I would like to make a plea. Can we have chat rooms that are more friendly and inclusive. Politeness costs nothing but I notice most Single guys are totally ignored when they enter and say hello.
I know couples and females have the top hand on these sites but Single guys are not ALL the same. So can we be treated as you find us?
Take this in the spirit I have written it please. I would enjoy some chats as a single as I get when on Cam with one of my fuck buddies.
Thanks.  |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc |
"After using this site for some time I would like to make a plea. Can we have chat rooms that are more friendly and inclusive. Politeness costs nothing but I notice most Single guys are totally ignored when they enter and say hello.
I know couples and females have the top hand on these sites but Single guys are not ALL the same. So can we be treated as you find us?
Take this in the spirit I have written it please. I would enjoy some chats as a single as I get when on Cam with one of my fuck buddies.
Thanks. "
I beg to differ.
If I am not on cam, people dont speak. If someone says hello I will say hello.
So 1, its not just single men ignored
2, not every person ignores single mem
3, try joining in conversations instead of just saying hello.
The amount of single men in chat is showing how few fem's or couples looking for single men.
How about trying a regional room or general room ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lets have a chatroom where everybody has to talk to everybody  never going to happen sorry like the lady said .. just join into a convo |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc |
"Lets have a chatroom where everybody has to talk to everybody never going to happen sorry like the lady said .. just join into a convo "
Oooo I was called a lady! Im so screenshotting that bit lol x |
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By *orkieMan
over a year ago
Who knows |
"Lets have a chatroom where everybody has to talk to everybody never going to happen sorry like the lady said .. just join into a convo
Oooo I was called a lady! Im so screenshotting that bit lol x"
Well hello pretty lady... and she`s a red as well...... bonus |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc |
"Lets have a chatroom where everybody has to talk to everybody never going to happen sorry like the lady said .. just join into a convo
Oooo I was called a lady! Im so screenshotting that bit lol x
Well hello pretty lady... and she`s a red as well...... bonus "
Im dead easy when I'm called a lady
Love you Yorkie lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As said before it's not just a single guy issue no one speaks to up unless Morrigan is on cam you just need to join in with the conversations |
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"After using this site for some time I would like to make a plea. Can we have chat rooms that are more friendly and inclusive. Politeness costs nothing but I notice most Single guys are totally ignored when they enter and say hello.
I know couples and females have the top hand on these sites but Single guys are not ALL the same. So can we be treated as you find us?
Take this in the spirit I have written it please. I would enjoy some chats as a single as I get when on Cam with one of my fuck buddies.
Thanks. "
It is not just single men. Sadly if a woman or couple come into chat and they are not on cam they are largely ignored. Put a cam on and the whole ball game changes.
To be fair though I have seen some people come into chat say nothing then complain nobody is talking to them.
In chat you have to get involved in the chat. Chat may seem a bit cliquey but it isn't. Join in the chat and people will respond to you.
Chat rooms can be a great laugh at times. You just have to get past/ignore the idiots typing stuff like "finger her arse", "get her to suck you off" etc. |
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"Lets have a chatroom where everybody has to talk to everybody never going to happen sorry like the lady said .. just join into a convo
Oooo I was called a lady! Im so screenshotting that bit lol x
Well hello pretty lady... and she`s a red as well...... bonus
Im dead easy when I'm called a lady
Love you Yorkie lol "
Really hells. Hello lady lol |
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Same for all, if we do not turn on the cam, only friends speak.... Just Mr nobody speaks... not even friends lol (joke)...
Our advice is, get a cam and mic, be yourself, or try toact normal and don't just point your cam at your cock - Not saying that the OP does that!!.
Sometimes the rooms seem lame, other times they are good fun. Had our best laughs this year on Cam Chat!!!
Stick with it and join the Banter!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As another single guy I can see both sides of this discussion... It is sometimes difficult, or seen as rude to join in another conversation... But then, once you are deep into a good, honest, clean chat there is always some arsehole (usually desperate single male) who chips in with "get yer tits out and watch me cum"... Such a conversation stopper  |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc |
"As another single guy I can see both sides of this discussion... It is sometimes difficult, or seen as rude to join in another conversation... But then, once you are deep into a good, honest, clean chat there is always some arsehole (usually desperate single male) who chips in with "get yer tits out and watch me cum"... Such a conversation stopper "
If I am on cam, I tend to just ignore those get your tits out comments, I go in for a chat but unless people know me I may get one hello if Im lucky, but will try and join in.
Its a public chat room for people to play or chat. If people dont like you butting in then they should go off to pm if they want a private chat! |
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I will usually respond with a friendly greeting to anyone who says "Hello" in London chat just because I like to make people feel welcome and included, however it DOES work both ways, respond to someone when you're not on cam and a lot of single guys don't want to know, lol.
One of those "suck it up and get over it" things. 
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stick your cam on go into one of the regional chat rooms and join in the conversation yes they can be a bit clique but only needs one to say guans your included keep plugging away had some great meets off cam/chat as well  lee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% wrong, read the site rules, we do NOT have to reply, unfortunate for you but we have had years of bull and abuse, I appreciate you get pissed off, you are one guy, we have to deal with a darn site more! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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