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Xtasia

Rating: Fabulous
We have been going to Xtasia for years - long before the current owners bought it. We liked going there (back then) because it was one of the few places in the U.K. that was Night Club themed and had a full bar service. That said, it had its down sides - walking down an alleyway past a public house, furnishings within the Club that were 1970’s vintage and highly questionable music choices (think Smooth FM lol)

The current owners have made the most astonishing changes to Xtasia, not least by buying the public house and making it a part of the whole Xtasia experience. Buying the public house has enabled the whole access to be made more private and the facilities now include a pub, fetish venue and hotel rooms!

Whilst acquiring the Pub may have been the largest of the changes, there have been plenty more. Wholesale changes inside the Club included getting rid of the old furniture around the dance floor, installing a dogging atea, a hot tub, female glory holes and much, much more. The shell of the Club may be the same but the fabric of it is completely different.

I would struggle to find anything that the current owners have done that is anything but a positive change and the great thing is that they are approachable and like sponges when it comes to listening to new ideas and suggestions.

I get it that everyone has personal preferences and opinions but we have been going to this Club for about 12 years and we have seen nothing but massive improvements and changes for the positive. We have attended on fairly quiet nights and we have attended on nights where there have been upwards of 400 people including, the now legendary Danny Rampling, DPraved event.

Some people may prefer smaller, intimate or sauna based venues but credit must be given to the way that Xtasia has evolved since the current owners took over. We go to other Clubs but Xtasia remains special for us because of the commitment of the owners to constantly improve. Their enthusiasm and their character is reflected in the Club and in all of the staff who work there.


Date: 2 June 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Just read a few of the recent dodgy reviews and few compelled to add our two penneth. We have visited Xtasia a few times now for their Dpraved events and love the place. The music is always amazing (top DJs) and the facilities are vast and impressive. There is an abundance of play areas to cater for all and the staff are super friendly. Xtasia has a proper nightclub feel to it and from our experience has a young/sexy crowd. We would recommend this place to anyone! NC31.

Date: 31 May 2018

Rating: Avoid
Very tacky and run down from outside, made it embarrassing to approach on such a public street. Really clicky vibe from the “regulars”. Rubbish music played all night at a ridiculous volume, don’t expect to be able to speak to anyone! Very bad layout for a swinging club.

Date: 31 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
We have been to xtasia many times now.

We always find the staff their welcoming and very friendly.

We always have a great night - be it busy or quiet. They have so many different nights and events, a variety of play rooms, a dance floor and wet area.

Your night is only what you make of it. If we were less shy we’d have even better nights, but Xtasia certainly have given us a great base to work from!


Date: 31 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
We decided to pull the double weekender

We wasn't expecting too much on Saturday due to pride and the weather but was amazed to find it buzzing with some of the most attractive people which xtasia seems to bring in

Sunday freakers was a little quieter than other times but still an amazing turn out with some hot guests

Freakers is never a dull night as there is always something new to see

People are so friendly and will always give advice to newbies

Well done to all the staff and Paul n flirt for bringing new ideas all the time

Oh yeah the new rooms are amazing and look very chic not ur typical travel lodge styling will be staying very soon


Date: 30 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Appreciate that everyone is entitled to an opinion, positive or negative as long as there is a justified reason but I’m not quite sure what the comment is about avoiding Xtasia as it’s quiet.

We have been there on many occasions when it’s jam packed and also when it’s “quiet”. I’m not sure what the reviewer’s definition of quiet is, as the size of xtasia is quite large. So even with 40-50 couples, it could appear not so busy. So a quiet Saturday night at xtasia would surpass many establishments.

We’ve been on Wednesdays where there are 15 couples. So we would class this as a quiet xtasia night, but that’s not to say you can’t have a great time. You only need a person or two to make a great night.

As for change. Xtasia has over the last five years made lots of changes. From a makeover, to changing/adding rooms. To eliminating the dreaded walk into xtasia by taking over the pub and giving us flirts. To having dedicated swingers/bdsm facilities onsite. To now bringing the community onsite rooms to stay in. To bringing different theme nights, including free events. So not quite sure what change is needed.

What I will say though is if you do have any ideas/comments, share them with Paul and Flirt, as they are driven by change and are open to bringing new things to the table.

You are right about the DJ though. The music is great!

So to use the TV analogy. Xtasia was HD Ready when Paul and Flirt first took over Xtasia. I’ve got it down as a Ultra 4K now. I’ll even make it a 65” curved jobby, if that floats your boat.


Date: 30 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
absolutely love xtasia such friendly people and staff such a great atmosphere each night we have been we wouldn't go anywhere else music is always fantastic

we have been going to xtasia for the last 3 years and each time they haven't disappointed

the atmosphere is brilliant the music is fantastic and always gets everyone up on the dance floor and Paul and flirt are fantastic hosts who genuinely cares that people are having a good night.

always a fantastic crowd with a mix of people from all walks of life so something to suit everyone's taste.

the play rooms are always clean and plentiful for when your ready to venture into them.

can't wait to visit again for Dpraved


Date: 30 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Don’t think a week has gone by that some improvements have not been made to this club

Last weekend was Birmingham pride so EVERYWHERE in the Midlands was a little quiet

Inc vanilla clubs. We were there on the Saturday and were surprised just how busy it was.


Date: 30 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Whilst the cathode ray tube served its purpose, it is only on experiencing ultra high definition 4k quality that one fully comprehends the ever-expanding limits of human pleasure. And it is only on entering the amazing world of Xtasia, that one can understand the true meaning of enjoyment. The club overloads the senses, trancending anything elsewhere - an 8 million pixel high-contrast display of raunchy visual delight.

As a lord and a lady, we are used to only the finest in all walks of life, and that includes our filthy shagging, which is why we would settle for nothing less than the Xtasia castle of copulation.

Seriously - the most friendly, laid back club with the sexiest guests, best music and events and looking better than ever, the only reason not to visit is that you might end up not bothering to visit anywhere else!



Date: 30 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Not sure what the ‘black and white’ guy is on about below. Xtasia is our go to club and we love it there, always a great atmosphere however busy or quiet the club is.

It was our first Freakers Ball on Sunday and whilst it was a little quieter than we expected, we really enjoyed ourselves and met some people that we wouldn’t have usually.

Looking forward to our next night in a few weeks!


Date: 30 May 2018

Rating: Avoid
Been to a Saturday before a freckers night before & it was quiet, so decided to forget Saturday & go on a Sunday freckers night. That was very quiet, so we left early. Been a great club in the past but now dated & needs a vibrant make over. DJ was excellent though. Change needed, used to watch a black & white tv now watch hi devination etc, club still black & white I'm afraid.

Date: 29 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
attended the freakers ball last night and have to say how welcoming the staff and customers were though the venue is great the most important thing is the people and from the chap at the door who gave good advice as I tottered in my white stiletto thigh boots to the amazing lady behind the bar so friendly and chatty to help put me at ease all the staff made me feel relaxed and comfortable and it was a fantastic night

Date: 28 May 2018

Rating: OK
When to the The Freakers Ball last night. A lot quieter than when we went last time. Nice to see so many people dressed up. Wish there would have been some more couples to play with though.

Date: 28 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Had a brilliant night last night. Always a great atmosphere, and the DJ had a good mix of music.

Looking forward to our next visit!


Date: 27 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
We had the pleasure of staying in one of the new rooms, all we can say is how amazing the room was and the staff were amazing and made us feel very welcome. The room we stayed in was to a very high standard and even had added bouns of hand and leg chains on the walls( you will need to bring your own restraints/hand cuffs!) This is a fantastic club and we always have an great night.

Date: 27 May 2018

Rating: Fun
Another great night had by all , totally enjoyed ourselves once again , thanks to all x

Date: 27 May 2018

Rating: Fun
We went last night (Saturday) sadly we were advised(& it did become apparent) that it would be quiet due to party last weekend and Bank hol next. There were around 80 people which sounds a lot but this place is big and needed another 100 at least to feel busy.

We enjoyed the company of Kay (do drop us a message sexy lady).

Would we go back, yes but we'd try and pick a party night to ensure a good busy vibe. .. thanks for making us feel welcome and loved the DJs tunes for dancing to :-) xx


Date: 20 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Went to the Swingles rock night this friday gone and the dj was on fucking point.

One suggestion though, less of the Bon Jovi/Bryan Adams, more of the Slipknot! :)



Date: 20 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Firstly a huge thank you to the owners and all the staff, for being so amazing. We love this club and attend regular ourselves, so it was the obvious choice to host our red Heaven social event.

We couldn’t ask for more, lovey staff, great atmosphere and facilities. LOVE LOVE LOVE the new play rooms above flirts, looking forward to trying them out.

Thank you so much to everyone involved, these nights are only ever as good as the people involved and you were all amazing xx


Date: 15 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Attended Red social on Saturday evening for the first time and all I can say is wow. For our first time we really enjoyed ourselves and even had fun in the orgy room. Good music playing and drinks was flowing. Had a good walk round great facilities and rooms nice and clean would love to return and meet again.

Date: 15 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
RED Social Last Saturday night. This club only gets better with every visit. The staff and guests really make this place our go to club. Very tasteful and safe environment to have a great night out with friends old and new. The new rooms above flirts are looking great and we can't wait to see them in use.

Date: 14 May 2018

Rating: Fun
Had a fab night on Saturday met some very hot people and the venue is immaculate and tasteful can’t wait until next time!!!!

Date: 14 May 2018

Rating: OK
Had a great first ever club experience at xtasia on Saturday night, everyone was so welcoming and extremely helpful, a member of staff asked if we were OK a few times and that made us feel really good, the night club vibe really helped too ease us in, some great play rooms and very clean. Can't wait to return, thank you for everything x

Date: 14 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Xtasia, xtasia, xtasia what can I say, this club just gets better and better every time. Anyone who has any doubts about xtasia I can assure you that you won't find a better club in the UK, fantastic live Dj,great chill out lounge, play rooms and a fantastic jacuzzi too, staff and management are probably the most respectful individuals you'll find in any club.

The whole atmosphere in this club is so friendly and relaxed.

Look forward to going again very soon.

Well done to all the staff and management to making this a fantastic club.


Date: 14 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Wow what can I say about xtasia the number one club in the West midland one of the best venues you can have a best time of your life because the place is just brilliant to be there. It was explosive night at the bmfc Friday the 11th as usually people come far and wide that I meet and greet xtasia is the place to come for great time 10/10

Date: 13 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Our first time there. Great people, nice place. It was a hot, awesome night.

Can't wait next time


Date: 13 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
This club just gets better...so Milatry Nite at BMFC...to anyone under 30 I looked like a crazy black man in my outfit..." I Ain't Getting On No Plane...Fool..you got it Mr T in full affect...Wow I never knew he had this much adventure..It started with this sexy fantastic blonde lady from Yorkshire..That's a big gun she said.." Na I'm just really pleased to meet you"

Her hubby was great n knew how sexy I found his wife and allowed us to have the most mind-blowing sex..I was sweating so much I was melting..lol

Wow....to be continued


Date: 12 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Amazing club and fantastic staff

Always clean and made to feel like a friend to the owners

By far my favourite club to attend and feel safe and leave with a smile

Great play rooms and a fantastic social area to meet people

Will be back soon xx


Date: 12 May 2018

Rating: Fabulous
Amazing club and fantastic staff

Always clean and made to feel like a friend to the owners

By far my favourite club to attend and feel safe and leave with a smile

Great play rooms and a fantastic social area to meet people

Will be back soon xx


Date: 12 May 2018

Rating: Fun
We were there as well on Thursday but had no expectation of a busy night, it’s mainly a weekend venue and it gave us a chance to chat to staff about all the changes going on with Flirts and rooms. If you got your free pass then use it as much as you can, you’ll soon find out that the avoid rating was a little premature. Tonight is the BMFC event and I can see it’s not your thing but you’ll get well over 200 in! Try the new Swingles one next Friday as that is very single friendly.

Got to look around the new rooms with Flirt last night. Loving them and will be booking direct in future. Get them open!!


Date: 11 May 2018

Rating: Avoid
So sorry to say this but 9 people in total, mostly men and 1 mature lady having a great time with a guy.

After reading the reviews we were so excited to visit and it was a total let down.

Perhaps we went on a bad night.


Date: 11 May 2018

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