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Xtasia

Rating: Fabulous
We’ve been going to xtasia for a while now. We have always been made to feel welcome and comfortable. The staff and owners are all friendly and instantly make you feel at ease. Certain nights every week to accommodate to everyone’s preferences. Can honestly say we wouldn’t go anywhere else. Thanks guys for always being amazing x

Date: 22 May 2022

Rating: Fun
Went to Xtasia for the first time last night. It was pretty quiet but was our first time at a club so we weren’t too disappointed as it gave us a nice chance to experience the place. Dale was epic, showed us round and made us feel at ease. Would recommend but find a busier night if experienced

Date: 21 May 2022

Rating: OK
We visited the club for the first time on Fri 20th May after seeing the reviews. Unfortunately it was a quiet evening with not much fun happening. We will have to try again on another night.

Date: 21 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Attended our first blood sweat and tears event on Sunday.

Cannot fault the event. A must for all fetish lovers.


Date: 18 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
We Had a great night at xtaisa ffff

Great charity results.

Was at the Bar with a hat on lol

And greatest end to the night behind the curtains on the dance floor! Maybe next time put them curtains down few times in the night! There Some very talented people on there knee's in the curtains lol. X


Date: 16 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Had a great weekend at xtasia both BMFC AND FFFF nights great venue and staff definitely recommend and will be back soon

Date: 15 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Attended the FFFF event for charity last night and it was a great night. The place was packed with loads of sexy people having a great time. The dance floor was buzzing with Jay banging out great music as usual. Big hats off to the team for providing wonderful service and putting on such a successful charity event. Xx



Date: 15 May 2022

Rating: OK
Are there many people coming tonight

Date: 13 May 2022

Rating: Fun
We had so missed dpraved and glad we went back again a week or so back. Great music and atmosphere. Even liked the tables in the middle of the dance floor. As Paul said still plenty of room and much more interaction. Good call!

Date: 11 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Was great to invite my good friends tonight for a special lady's birthday x loved seeing old faces and new, baldy

Date: 11 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Mr S, a friend and I attended this evening. Our friend has been plenty of times before and he thought to introduce us and I have to admit I was nervous. But the staff made us feel so welcome the whole time we were there. The gentleman on the bar was so overly to me and made me feel so welcome to be there. There was a few people we spoke to and they were all lovely. A girl called Amiee called me up to dance and I really appreciated that as I wanted to dance all night just not on my own. It was a fantastic atmosphere all night and a great first time. Will definitely be going again and seeing what what the other nights are like. So thank you to all the staff and punters for making it such an enjoyable experience.

Date: 11 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Another amazing night last Saturday

Date: 9 May 2022

Rating: OK
Possibly one of the best clubs on the scene, well organised events clean and always great memories to be made.

If your thinking about attending be it as a single male / female or couple you should, this welcoming warm and friendly club promotes exactly what is great with the swinging world.

Ive been away for far too long due to travelling and now back in the UK i can not wait to attend an event here.

Top class club, and highly recommend to anyone looking for an experience to remember.



Date: 8 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Had a wonderful evening at Incognito Masked Ball. Everyone was dressed up, all wearing masks and they had them for sale as well if anyone forgot. Champers on arrival then chatting to lots of friendly folks before being escorted to the playrooms for the fun bit. Was great choice of rooms and ended up in the shadow bit and glory holes. Staff were wonderful, friendly and helpful, and choice of drinks was magical. Well priced as well. Some very sexy ladies dancing on the dancefloor, big shout to the asian lady in red, and the couple who knew how to latin, mmmm.

Date: 8 May 2022

Rating: Fun
We attended Flirts / Xtasia last night for the first time. The staff were really welcoming and great throughout the night.

We went to flirts for the Couples and Single Ladies night, it was quite empty and Flirts shut early so we ended up in Xtasia. There still didn’t seem to be a lot of people in there but the place had a really nice vibe! We really enjoyed the labyrinth of play rooms and particularly enjoyed the shadow room. The new play rooms in Flirts look amazing and it’s a shame we didn’t get an opportunity to use them (hopefully next time)

The only downside for us was that at times it felt as though the single guys followed us wherever we went hoping for a spectacle! Some loitered when people where playing, for us this was a little off putting. That said some were pleasant to chat with and the staff did their best to keep on top of those that weren’t respectful.

We will be back, but more likely on a night that Xtasia holds for Couples and Single Ladies.

Finally if you’re the couple who were chatting to us for a good deal of the night about Kinked Ink, sensual fetish and bad music; get in touch as we’d love to continue the conversation ;-)


Date: 7 May 2022

Rating: Fun
This is where it all started for us …. We were welcomed by the amazing staff at Xtasia and given a tour. This club will always have a place in our hearts, lots of amazing memories in just 2 months ;) Lots of rooms offering a variety, love the club feel where you can dress however you want, the music is great every time !!! Love the bmfc and couple’s nights especially. We’d recommend to any newbie couples who are just starting out.

Date: 2 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Had a great night at the Bmfc bulls night! A great mix of people, gorgeous men, can’t wait for the next Bmfc event, count me in

Date: 1 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Absolutely loved last nights DPraved event. So many amazing people and great music.

Dancing, laughter and naughtiness….what more could a girl want xx


Date: 1 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Spent a fabulous weekend at Xtasia - BMFC Bulls on Friday and Dpraved on Saturday. I have so missed Dpraved! I danced my knickers off! Couldn't of asked for a better weekend. Thanks to the team for putting me up and for putting up with me.

Date: 1 May 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Last night marked our first visit to Xtasia and it didn’t disappoint in any way! The staff were absolutely superb and made us feel welcome, safe and very comfortable. We attended the D’praved white party which was fantastic and right up our street with the house music dj’s playing all night. Lots of sexy couples and single ladies there, and we made good use of some of the BDSM equipment in two of the rooms including the stocks which was a particular fantasy of mine. We’ll probably come on a Friday next time as the addition of single guys would suit our dynamic better, but as it happened it was one of the best nights we’ve had out regardless of the swinging scene. Just great fun, very reasonably priced drinks, great friendly staff, and being able to fuck within the club whenever the mood takes you was just a great bonus for us last night.

Can’t wait for the next visit. Thanks again to Paul and his team for showing us such a great time x


Date: 1 May 2022

Rating: Fun
Attended xtasias bmfc cuck and bulls night last night , great night and so busy , lots of sexy couples and guys . Music was fantastic , had a great evening and met some wonderful people , looking forward to being back in a few weeks for the 80s v 90s night x

Date: 30 April 2022

Rating: Fabulous
We attend Xtasia for the BMFC night last night. On arriving, the reception staff were all friendly and welcoming. After getting some drinks, we took a look around the club, the place was clean and well organised, with wipes and cloth in the play areas. The place quickly filled up with a good mix of single and couples. Throughout the night there were no troubles, everyone was respectful, and a previous problem of single guy 'hunting' in packs seems to have been managed. Would we return and recommend, yes. Thanks guys for a great night x

Date: 30 April 2022

Rating: Fun
We have attended Flirts@Xtasia on a Wednesday evening which is couples night after 8pm in a few occasions now. We find it nice an relaxed, it gives off a more intimate vibe and therefore you find couples more readily talk to each other. We live the Cinema Room and downstairs is brilliantly transformed. Pammy behind the bar is always so welcoming and fun to chat with. Another enjoyable evening that breaks up the week nicely.

Date: 28 April 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Had a wonderful afternoon at Xtasia trying out the new cinema area. Great fun, and most importantly, safe. No off the street allowed as everyone needs to be a member, and doesn't want to loose it once they've got it, so are well behaved making the venue real fun, and you can do what you really want without worrying. We used the big round bed first with a couple of the guys helping out before moving to the stocks downstairs in the playroom with a new play friend. If it was you, please drop us a line, happy to meet again at the club.

Date: 28 April 2022

Rating: Fun
As a single male who was there last Friday, I would like to add to the comments by lovelycouple83 below… I understand totally what they are saying. Xtasia is a great club, with wonderful staff and facilities, but as a single guy I did feel uncomfortable finding myself part of the a large group who follow couples to the downstairs playroom and then loiter outside trying to see what’s going on and hoping to be invited to join. Some couples clearly do like to have an audience, though, and the only times I have been invited to play and join a couple or group on their room has been by doing this… I appreciate though other couples who prefer privacy must find it very annoying.

I have found it very difficult to engage couples in conversation in the bar, disco area etc though because of the noise of the music and I have difficulty hearing what’s bring said. I have found that even on singles nights, few couples seem interested in engaging with single guys… many just want to play with each other or with other couples.

I also agree with the dress code comments. When I joined it was emphasised that In the club people should dress smartly, and I hsve tried to do that. Many of the single guys though have been in T-shirts, trainers etc, which has surprised me. I wore smart jeans last Friday whereas previously I had worn smarter trousers and felt overdressed in comparison with most of the other single guys there…



Date: 20 April 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Amazing club with amazing staff. At first I was sceptical about attending, but now can’t get enough. The clientele are all lovely and there really is something for everyone; in a no pressure environment. From my first visit, the staff have all been welcoming….that’s why I can’t keep away ;)

Date: 20 April 2022

Rating: OK
Re the below. As owners we take full responsibility for those in the building and we hear you. You said recently, so I quickly checked last Friday's CCTV and only saw one guy being let in with shorts on all evening, so guess this refers to a Friday in the past. We are actively tightening up on all of the issues you pointed out. We have introduced a new clause on our T&C's that effectively says, if we feel you don't get what swinging is all about, then we will revoke membership. That should cover dress code, conversation, attitude, effort and manners as far as we're concerned. We can only deal with incidents as we're made aware of them, so please, should you run into an issue, see the staff and let them know. We'll take every report seriously. Thanks

Date: 19 April 2022

Rating: OK
Me & my partner recently visited xtasia on a Friday evening, we have been many times before but to be honest we’re very disappointed this time, the place was very quiet but are biggest reason for leaving this review was the cleanliness as there was used tissues in all the rooms and the single men, everywhere we went we was followed by a mob of about 12 men that were very under dressed (scruffy shorts & baggy jumpers) we understand it’s a singles night but we felt rather intimidated by the constant male mob following us & dirty comments to my gf which made her very uncomfortable, at the end of the night we went to the downstairs play rooms and seen about 15 single men just standing there & just walked straight back out, until the males are made to dress more appropriately & no longer able to just bunch up and linger outside the play rooms unfortunately we won’t be returning, we only left an ok review due to the female bar lady as she was bubbly & friendly as always.

Date: 18 April 2022

Rating: Fabulous
Back again at this fantastic club. Had a great night at the freakers ball. Anther night that opened my eyes to new kinks. Enjoyed watching a girl screaming from the electrics shocks then looking like she was in bliss (you looked stunning x). Thank you to the various cpls I had the pleasure of meeting and having a bit of fun with x - Had a lot of fun with the Glory hole again - I even played taxi to a lovely cpl at the end of the night- nice to meet you both :-)

Date: 18 April 2022

Rating: Fabulous
After 7 years I returned!! Just as much fun as I remembered. Can honestly say I’m still tender a week on after the Friday night.

Hopefully be back next weekend xx


Date: 17 April 2022

Rating: Fabulous
We went to the club last Friday, BMFC night. A great night, no issues of any sort, beer good, pub prices, friendly, all good. After a couple of issues the previous visit I am very pleased to say it was a good night, previously there had been a few guys that had been rather irritating to say the least but we noted they were not there. It was a great night, all relaxed and as it was previously. Its amazing what a couple of bad apples will do, well done Xtasia

Date: 15 April 2022

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