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Xtasia

Rating: OK
We were at xstasia last night. Looked amazing on the website and the club itself was fairly nice, has the potential to be a top place....but the only people who were friendly were the barmaid the doorman and the male half of the owners. Not even particularly clicky just everyone kept themselves to themselves, not a very nice experience tbh. I wouldn't say avoid but we wouldn't go bk unless we were meeting friends or there was some sort of huge event going on

Date: 28 July 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Just read the previous review, fair but didn't take into considersation that all clubs are quieter during the summer, never mind during a heatwave , when few want to travel or stay inside! suggest you visit in Spet/Oct ,when all are back from our travels! We have visited over 80 clubs, here and in Europe, this is one of our favourites in the uk, ( the others are all over 3 hours drive away!) The club as a whole will make up for the lack of the hot tub! which is what we normally would go for! give it another go!

Date: 20 July 2013

Rating: Fun
OK - thought we'd leave our review until after a few visits as first impressions can often be misleading. Joined the club as members three weeks ago and have been every weekend since (two Fridays and a Saturday to check both singles and couples nights) making the most of the great offer of free visits for the first month after joining. I (A) had been to the club before for the first FFFF social but Fox had previously only visited Chams in the Midlands.

This review may be a bit long, so apologies - but it's our honest opinion on a lot of factors.

The club itself is great in terms of size and layout, as well as being easy to park nearby for free. The door staff and security are warm and welcoming and very approachable. The bar is very reasonably priced, well stocked and the staff are lovely. In terms of facilities - the variety of rooms are great downstairs if a little warm (we'll blame the weather for that!) and the all important locks on doors keep unwanted 'guests' from intruding. The upstairs lounge is great for relaxing - and a little play (as seems to be common practice), the upstairs 'Dogging' zone is fun (although the Rover needs handles to stop you slipping down the bonnet!) and nicely cool when the fan is switched on - not so when it isn't. The music is good and varied although the dancefloor is never used - I guess busier at specific events such as the foam parties. The smoking area is great for those of us that partake, and also for those just wanting to cool down a little and get some fresh air or socialise. The toilets and showers downstairs have always been clean. Never used the cinema (not our thing) so can't comment.

The only (and it's a big one!) negative regarding the facilities is the continued absence of the sauna/hot tub - something on my first visit at the FFFF I was advised would be back up and running soon! Especially frustrating (and a little misleading!) since it's still quoted as being available on the club website and mentioned in the club section on Fab too! It's something we both love, as i'm sure many other clubbers do too!

In terms of clientele - and we've visited enough clubs to understand nothing is ever to be expected - it's been a bit of a disappointment. On both the Fridays and Saturdays we've been, it's been very quiet - something highly evident given the size of the club. In terms of age ranges it seems top heavy in regard to the 'older clubbers' which given the nightclub feel seems a little odd, and even on the supposed "Flirty Thirties" night there was no increase in younger attendees - not surprising since there were in fact no age restrictions in place which we feel would have probably ensured the younger crowd sought by such an advertised event. On the Fridays we have visited there seems to be a large number of the usual older single guys following couples, hanging around in groups and stalking in 'packs' - something clubs will always struggle to avoid - but this is especially prevalent towards the end of the night when couples are playing upstairs in the lounge. There seems to be no concept of 'personal space' with some - something we encountered last night including one guy breaking the golden rule of 'no hands til invited' - something I didn't notice immediately and when told in no uncertain terms to back off - the guy did - to the extent of leaving the building (we thought of reporting to staff but seemed pointless as we couldn't see him anywhere having looked!)

All in all, a mixed bag! Whilst we love the facilities, the staff, the location (and bear in mind it's a 4hr, 250 mile round trip when we visit!) we feel Xtasia is a bit of an enigma!! The club membership and entry fees are very reasonable, and as we've stated the layout, facilities and bar prices are great. Given a certain other club a few miles down the road - getting the hot tub and sauna back up and running may tempt people in that are used to visiting Chams - even if just to check the place out. We've not yet been to a club with the 'wet' facilities that wasn't considerably busier, with many more regulars and one time visitors. As for the clientele - nothing 'we' can do about that - but if the club wants to attract both more members and specific crowds for advertised events (not just the "flirty thirties" - the "fetish" event wasn't busy at all last night either!) then maybe seeking more a more specific section of customers for each would be beneficial. Not having seen the club under previous ownership we can't compare to how it was before and by all accounts there have been many improvements since Paul and Flirt took over.

Will we be back? Definitely - if in all liklehood less frequently. At least until the tub is fixed. So in our view the club is definitely "Fun" - but could easily be fabulous with just a few tweeks!

A & F x


Date: 20 July 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Went to Xtasia for the first time last night to attend their monthly 'Trans-Action' night.

The staff were very welcoming and easy to get on with. Having gone through the simple (and free for fetish nights) membership process I was given a quick guided tour.

I had a lovely night, the atmosphere is very relaxed and I can't wait till next month!


Date: 19 July 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Had my 1st visit to this club during the weekend on a spare of the moment kinda thing and I must say it was the right choice . Huge venue with every kinda play area you can imagine , the crowd were plentiful , met a a few friendly people , will defo be back again in the near future !

Date: 3 July 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Having known Paul & Flirt for many years now I thought it was time to go and take a look at their new venture, which did not disappoint they have done so much in such a short space of time and have many more plans in the pipeline. The hosts of course and the staff are very friendly and welcoming especially to new comers, the facilities are first rate, the theme and cinema rooms are outstanding and the place has a buzz about it. This place will only get better under this great couple, it's a venue not to be missed if your into the club side of the scene and if your not what better place to come and dip your feet. See you soon guys

Date: 1 July 2013

Rating: OK
had some good fun in xtasia , new owners very friendly ...

Date: 28 June 2013

Rating: OK
went to single swinger nite last nite all men no women waste of time

Date: 28 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Proud members, and would strongly recommend this clean, well organised and well run club! Had many of good nights at xtasia and plan to have many more. Still fairly new to the club scene of the lifestyle and feel so comfortable here & know xtasia will always be with us 4 as long as we are in the lifestyle, and maybe even after as the social side is also amazing and you can generally have just a good night there if your playing or not. Paul & flirt make the club what it is excellent owners! MAKE A DATE FREE 4 XTASIA well see u there ;)

Date: 25 June 2013

Rating: Fun
Went to Xtasia for the first time last night, the decor was superb, had a good time. Enjoyed walking all over a man, something I'd never done before, had a few plays and will definately be gong back!

Date: 22 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Been to Xtasia a couple times now and it gets better every time. Had a great time last bmfc which left me drained but with a big smile on my face. Can't wait to go bck.

Date: 17 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
our first visit to xtasia and certainly not our last... welcoming staff, superb facilities, clean and well thought out play areas, very reasonable bar prices..... really cant fault it..... thanks to all the staff and fellow guests that made ours a great night x

Date: 16 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
This was our first visit to Xtasia and the BMFC event, we were made to feel right at home by the club hosts and everyone from the BMFC.

The club is clean with great facility's for a great night of fun and we were shocked at how cheap the bar prices were.

Both the club and BMFC guys made for a relaxed atmosphere,which allowed us time to explore the club and get to socialize with people before starting with some seriously naughty adult fun!

Look forward to visiting again very soon


Date: 15 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Xtasia have added a new theme to their fantasy rooms...you can now fuck on car bonnets..no one else has that...these guys mean business.Fantastic hosts...need some more recent and seductive music though and you've got yourselves the perfect settings for pure adult mischief....top club

Date: 15 June 2013

Rating: Fun
Attended BMFC last night with some friends, greeted by Helen who was very friendly as too were all staff.

Was a little disappointed that it wasn't very busy but it didn't spoil my fun

Was a very relaxed atmosphere and was glad to see some action...

Met some really nice people and a nice Asian guy who I hope gets in touch with me via fab

Thanks everyone


Date: 15 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Please note we have no interest in having any Review wars with other local clubs, too many already do it and we see no value in it. The pricing below was probably for a Sunday event and each day they are different depending on the event itself. The Sat was quiet, everyone was here for the foam party on the Friday. Please do watch out for events around dates you are thinking of attending, they can have a big effect on our numbers, especially if popular.

Date: 13 June 2013

Rating: OK
Very very quiet sat night. Not worth the money, ended up going back to chams

Date: 13 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
a really well run club which has spent a lot of money to make it the best club in the west midlands,plenty of facilities for everyones tastes,the bar is cheap,music,dancefloor,dungeon,dogging site upstairs,cinema,rooms a plenty,open playareas ,smoking area,great staff and also for couples like ourselves its ten pounds a night cheaper to get in than chams and every fifth vist is free.well done see you soon, m and s.x

Date: 13 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Attended the newbies night here and instantly loved it. Staff gave us the full tour, and we had a lovely chat with Paul which set our minds totally at rest for the evening. First club and great experience, club was lovely and clean, other guests were all having a real fun time, both at bar, on dancefloor, and most importantly in the playrooms. It was singles night but they were all well mannered and always asked to join in. If all clubs are like this I'm just annoyed its taken us a year to go to one, will be back very soon. Thanks to all we met and to the staff for being so attentive.

Date: 8 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
We went to the foam party on Friday and arrived nice and early as soon as we went in the friendly happy staff melted our nerves away, we were given the tour and were very happy to see the facilities matched us. Once the night got started it was so fun and relaxing that Morrigan got naked and that was a first on the public area of a club. Drinks prices were good and staff friendly and helpful. We will be going again for sure. Thank you staff and other guests for making our night so much fun.

Date: 4 June 2013

Rating: OK
went to the club on saturday a bit quiet but every one there was having fun..great club will be back soon

Date: 4 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
As this was opur first time visiting a club we were very nervous but upon entry we were made to feel very welcome.

All the facilities were top notch and the staff and atmosphere was amazing.

Would deffo recommend this club and looking to return again asap :D


Date: 3 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
This was our first visit to Xtasia on Friday for the Foam Party. Had an absolutely awesome night !! Upon entry we were given a full tour of the club and facilities and were highly impressed straight away.

Everything about this club smacks of class and professionality, very well run and nice and friendly. It was really busy with lots of hotties and although we didnt get in the foam loads of people thoroughly enjoyed it :)

This really is a fantastic club and caters for pretty much everything you could want, from the chill out area to the play rooms and dungeon, you simply cannot find fault with this venue. We had a brilliant time and would highly recommend this club to anyone.

We thoroughly look forward to returning in the near future.

Thank you Paul and Flirt for a great time see you soon guys xxxx



Date: 2 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
we went to xtasia for the third time very busy last night for the foam party great atmosphere and nice people there had a fantastic night looking forward to next time

Date: 1 June 2013

Rating: Fabulous
The club is going from strength to strength and with some new areas and improvements its fantastic. The club is focussing on the fetish side of the code and the events that are being held or second to none. If you are a purely swinging couple who want to learn more about Bdsm and the fetish side of life get along to their arranged events. You will learn a lot with people who have an understanding in a clean safe environment.

Xxx P xxX


Date: 28 May 2013

Rating: Fabulous
There should be a rating above fabulous, cos this club deserves it !!

Saturday night at a uniforms party, then Sunday night at a private function at Xtasia. Both nights truly awesome !!

Ultra clean, friendly, stylish, professional and with the best looking barmaids around........what more could you want ??? Apart from one thing...........it should be nearer to us !!!!!

John & Shel


Date: 20 May 2013

Rating: Fabulous
We attended Xtasia on Friday night for the first time in over 2 years....and Would like to say we were made to feel very welcome from the minute we walked into the club...till the moment we left!!!

The staff were very friendly and we were given an excellent tour of the club...and very impressed with the changes that have been made!! The club was very clean...the music was good....and the atmosphere friendly!!

Even though it was quiet early on...it

soon busied up when the black guys started to arrive....lol!!!

That was when my fun began....I especially enjoyed the action in the Doggin area!!!....plus some sexy fun in the bar area!!!...lol...and would like to thank all the lovely respectful guys who helped make it such a horny night!!

We will DEFINITELY be CUMMIN back very soon as it was "A TOP TOP NIGHT"!!!

"The Shagalots" xxxx



Date: 13 May 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Tried the pervs with curvs event last night afte hearing about at BMFC on Friday. Will be honest and say it was quiet, but as there were a few couples in and I had come in with my own friends, I was able to really let me hair down and run riot. I was also able to chat to most of the couples that were there and also watch them run riot without being harrassed by a load of men.

I felt it was the most female friendly night I have ever been to. I have never stood in a group of women watching a couple have fun with no men watching either. Awesome night will definitely be back for the next one :-)


Date: 12 May 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Been to a few recent functions and watching the club really sorting things out, both decor and room wise, and functionality in evenings. There's now a plan to events, so you can chose what nights to attend where as before it was always hit and miss. We went along to FFFF which was great fun, met loads of friends and had a blast. Agree that probably too many singles were in, but thats what you get if you invite all, free, so we did expect it really. Admire club for trying it though and they seem to be listening to the feedback which is great.

Went along last night to BMFC, had a brill night. Helen had a good team in, all perfect gents, and we were well looked after, first upstairs and then in the camera room, scary for first ten seconds, then a blast, must try it. Music was A1 as well, think they tried another new DJ, he worked and you could see he enjoyed it. Was a good number in, and we really enjoyed the night, nearly persuaded Paul to do a lockin :)

Heading back tonight for the new Perves with Curves night, and also put our names down for the Foam Party. Can't wait for that, sounds superb.

Just feels great to be getting our old club back again.


Date: 11 May 2013

Rating: OK
We attended Xtasia last night for the BMFC. It was the first time we had been here in about 2 years so we were eager to see the new changes. We arrived at about 10pm and at that time the club was still pretty quiet. Helen showed us around the new areas which look great. You can tell that the new owners have really put time and effort in to trying to improve the club. However, that was as good as it got. We are a couple who prefer the playing side of things to the social side and the honest truth is that when we left at 1.30am we had not seen a single piece of action from anyone. We had a play in the GloryHole area and in the cinema and Im sure that was the only action the guys got. One guy in particular followed us around all night like a lost dog and kept finding excuse to try and stand 1 foot away from us glaring at us. Everybody else seemed respectful enough but that one guy had us on edge a little bit.

I think we will probably try the club again on a different night and hope that last night was just an off night.


Date: 11 May 2013

Rating: Fabulous
Attended the FFFF Social held at my favourite club on Sunday 5th May 2013. It was a very hot night with a lot of sexy people in the various areas the club has on offer. I wasn't intending to spend too much of the night playing as I was there to see some people I'd not yet had the pleasure of meeting but some of you gorgeous ladies know exactly how to twist my arm and distracted me, oh well. I kicked off the night with 3 other members of #TEAMHORSEMAN and delivered a cam show to the masses that were in attendance. The night was fun filled with a lot of laughter. Drinks were kept flowing by some very busy bar staff. Overall I love this place and I think Paul and Flirt are making some significant changes for the better. Each time I attend there's an added extra and they are listening to their visitors whether regular or first time. Did I have a good night? Yes Is it still my favourite club and will I return? Double Yes..... See you all soon....... cam room fun anyone!? ;-p

Date: 7 May 2013

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