| Within Temptation was where we had our first foray into the lifestyle. As an anxious newbie couple, we must have looked petrified when we arrived, not knowing what to expect. The club owners were incredibly welcoming, giving us a tour that put us at ease right away. They offered this tour before we had to commit to paying for the evening, which meant there was no pressure to stay if either of us felt uncomfortable or not quite ready.
Our first evening was a couples and unicorn night. We found the environment to be non-threatening and conducive to taking things at our own pace. The club's layout is well-designed, with the downstairs featuring a bar area that looks and feels like a regular pub. There's also a dungeon playroom to the side and a pool area where we spent a lot of our time. Upstairs, there's a mixture of private and public areas, as well as showers. A large area is available for couples to get to know each other.
We arrived for the evening very unsure if this was something for us, but we left invigorated and excited. It was a realization that opened up a lot for our relationship.
On a subsequent visit during a greedy girl night, we noticed a much larger number of single men, which created a slightly different dynamic. That being said, consent and respect are clearly embedded into the club's culture and its patrons. At no point did we ever feel unsafe or uncomfortable for any reason other than our own anxieties about being outside our comfort zone.
Overall, we would recommend this club to experienced couples, but particularly for those who are curious about the lifestyle. It provides a safe environment where people can explore and play at their own pace. The facilities are extensive, catering to most conceivable needs, and drinks are well-priced. An evening out can be fun without breaking the bank.
We anticipate that Within Temptation will become a regular place for us to relax, meet new people and play.
Date: 23 July 2024
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