| I attended Cupids last night for the first time, as always I attended the event alone as a single female...
Bunny (host of black magic at Cupids) greeted me with a hug and a kiss, but I have to say I almost left immediately after I arrived at being told, rather aggressively, that I could only enter the club wearing only lingerie.
Having been on the scene for 13+ years this has never happened, I was wearing a leather pencil skirt and matching cut out bra, I had no panties on, but was told to remove my skirt or I couldn't come in. The party invite clearly stated dress down and fetish style club wear was allowed, so I really didn't understand, it hardly looked like I was off to do my weekly shop in my outfit! I did not feel comfortable entering a club, that I've also never been to before, in just my heels and a cut out bra. I was offered a towel to cover my bottom half, which makes no sense to swap my fitted skirt that went perfectly with my fetish style outfit for a brown towel?! Luckily Bunny came to my rescue and was allowed to stay, but I must say as a first time experience to this club, coming in alone and being met to this aggressive dress policy was really off putting.
I am glad I decided to give the club a chance though and stay, even though my anxiety after that welcome was now sky high! It's a spacious club with very interesting art work. Reasonable bar prices, and friendly people and lolly pops which was a nice touch ;)
I would definitely give the club a second chance in the future, but you should also know, every woman that spoke to me throughout the night was just as upset about the strict 'bra and panties' only dress code. So as a little constructive criticism the owners may want to review this dress policy. Until next time, Laila xoxo
Date: 21 October 2023
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