 | After the attic being our regular club for 6-7yrs sadly we have to leave an “avoid” review purely because of two things-Ron and a safety/privacy issue.
Have gone back and forth if to write this or not as we love the club and love Tony one of the owners, but 3 days after visiting we are still feeling angry and let down, also we owe it to other swingers who put there trust in the safety of a club where they play and express themselves sexually, so they deserve to know the risks and how the club handles the risks.
Attended Friday and had a good night, purely social night with no playing but met some lovely people and have a nice time.
However returned for the event Saturday night, it was a great turnout, loads of hot people and the single guy to couple ratio was perfect (they limit the amount and the standard of single guys, after spending over a hour stood at the main door i can definitely confirm they turn down so much money to keep the ratio of the club good.
So the bad bit…….whilst me and hubby was in the glory hole room, I was playing and hubby watching me, there was easily 8+ guys the other side :) after a few minutes however a very bright light come on right in my face and was moving around the holes to get a better view, this was obviously a phone camera light, not the screen light. Hubby ran round and saw they guy with his phone out and there was 5ish other guys calling him names and ruining it for everyone, somehow hubby managed to contain himself even when the guys smirked and said “prove it” so we went straight to the barmaid (anna i think her name is) she was amazing and ran to him then marched him to the door. This is where the story should end, I felt sick thinking someone could have media on there phone of me sucking cock, we are very pvt with our images and never show/send face.
However a few minutes later the barmaid returned and told us “he is staying, Ron said he can stay” yes thats right, one of the owners actually said it is ok for this to happen and the guy can stay, dispute witnesses etc! what the actual f$!k….
We got our things together, got dressed and made our way to the door, as noway will we play in a club that allows this, it also was not safe for hubby to be in the club with this guy, Just before we got to the exit Tony, the joint owner saw we were not happy and asked about the situation, he they went to resolve it but by this time the guy had given his phone to his mate or put it in his locker so no phone on him, it was about a hour and half of us stood at the main door waiting for everything to be resolved, tony did evict him after the guy got violent and took a punch at the staff.
We won’t be returning and to be honest are gutted about that but we wont play where we dont feel safe and 100% backed up.
With a non membership club guys can do what they want without any repercussions as they are anonymous to everyone and just leave (no matter what they do you can never get there info for authorities etc if needed), also with guys being allowed to walk around in clothing they can have whatever they like in there pockets so we will stick to other clubs that either have a membership policy for single guys or a dress down policy for them.
This all being said Tony handled everything perfect (aswell as the barmaid) and feel awful leaving a bad review for a friends business. However the other owner Ron who let the guy stay should frankly have a word with himself, lovely guy but when our safety/privacy is at risk we would like a manager, not a friendly face with a syrian machine.
Take from this review what you like, but first club in 7 years we won’t be returning to unless something changes, please just be careful as a photo of a school teacher/politician etc getting out there would be career ending, now just to hope i dont end up on pornhub :(
Date: 29 August 2023
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