 | If you are thinking of visiting a club and are a little nervous or unsure, read this.
We visited Jay Dees Thursday lunchtime club on 23.6.22.
It was our first time at any club and we were not sure what to expect but we need not have worried. From the moment we arrived nervously, until the time we left laughing and promising to visit again it was a fantastic experience.
It was quiet, there were still around a dozen people though, but staff and a couple of regulars explained that the middle Thursday of the month sometimes could be, but that’s what we were looking for, a nice easy introduction.
Upon arrival; we were greeted by Teddy who made us feel welcome and put us at ease, we sorted out our membership with Nat and then were shown around the club.
From the outside I was a little apprehensive, it looks like an industrial unit in a private farmyard, but once inside it was nicely decorated, spacious, clean and well equipped.
Downstairs there is a good-sized bar, a large comfortable Jacuzzi, several private play rooms, one with an optional viewing window, unisex showers, toilets and lockers. There is also a kitchen, a large outdoor area with cover if needed and reception. The bar is not licensed and does not serve alcohol, but you can bring your own if you wish. The kitchen is there so you can help yourselves to its facilities, and coffee and tea at no charge. It is a tenner deposit which is fully refundable for a locker, and if you want to use the jacuzzi and showers you are better off bringing your own towels.
Upstairs. As you reach the top of the stairs there is lots of character, the eaves of the building are wooden beams.
At the top of the stairs there is an area to the left with a very large play area and two slightly smaller ones. If you look to your right, you will see a large television where everything that’s happening in the large area is shown. (this is a direct feed, nothing is streamed or recorded, I asked).
On the left there are several things of interest including a St Andrews cross, fucking machine, glory hole, groping room, spanking bench and other kink related bits, there is also a small dark room with a small bed.
Further in to the room you walk down a couple of steps into a large area with a large round Yong and Yang bed, a big four poster, several sofa’s and other bits and bats.
Throughout there is spray bottles and wipes. The lighting upstairs is atmospheric but not dingy, and it is clean and spacious.
After the tour we met some of the other patrons, chatted and had a laugh. We had been there about an hour and decided to explore upstairs a little on our own.
As we reached the top of the stairs there were three people playing and not being ones to spoil an atmosphere…well let’s just say, Belle managed to tick at least one thing off her bucket list.
There were more single men that women, I suppose that’s to be expected but it was not uncomfortable at all. We never felt pressured to play and when we did play all others were respectful, courteous, kept their distance unless invited to join us and we never felt uncomfortable with anyone. Teddy had explained several times about how the club values respect and expects members to behave and it was just as he said he would be.
We then went back downstairs, chatted some more and before we knew it, it was home-time.
I am not sure if Jay Dees is typical of other clubs? For both of us it had such a welcoming, friendly and relaxed atmosphere and we are already planning our next trip.
If you do go, I hope you have as good a
time as we did.
By the way, as if we didn't already have good reason to visit again, the "Hotel Chocolat" factory is only a couple of miles away and has a shop that is very, very cheap, Belle says.
Date: 25 June 2022
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