| My first time at a swingers club, and so of course my first time rating one here on fabswingers. And first of all the rating wording is a bit odd - as I would describe my night as having been more 'fun' than 'fabulous', but the latter seems to be the highest rating so I have gone with that.
So onto the actual review...well it was much better than I could have even hoped for. I was a little overwhelmed when I first arrived by how busy it was but everyone was friendly and thankfully I went with a gentleman I had met through this site who knew a fair few of those in attendance so could help with introductions and give me a tour. The venue is a very decent size and just really slick and smart. Everything looked very clean and purposeful. I should point out I have been to BDSM events a fair few times, and have been to Dare To in Bristol, just not on a swingers night.
The staff were so lovely and worked tirelessly to ensure everyone was catered for and the rooms were kept clean and tidy throughout. The only thing that wasn't for me in terms of the venue was... I could do without the porn being played on screens in some if the rooms. But maybe some people enjoy it, but for me there was definitely more intriguing things to perv at haha.
The thing that really made this a fantastic night however was everyone in attendance. It didn't matter who you were, as long as you were respectful and accepting of others and their boundaries, everyone welcomed you. It was great to see all different ages, nationalities, body types and outfits, all under one roof for an event of this kind. The people I spoke to and played with didn't put any pressure on me to do things I didn't want to do. In fact there were things I wanted to do but was maybe a little afraid to ask, but that was all to do with me and what I'm hoping will only be first-time nerves, and nothing to do with not feeling comfortable. I felt comfortable and accepted as soon as I walked in the door, and now I just can't wait for the next one. Although if the next one is country-theme then I might have to wait longer haha! Bring on the 60s instead XD
Date: 7 March 2022
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