This section should really be called BDSM rather than just SM. BDSM covers three separate but linked ideas: Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masochism.
There are lots of websites that really go into BDSM in depth, I would recommend bondage.com. For the rest of this page I'm just going to be very personal and write about the aspects of BDSM that I enjoy.
I'm dominant (dom or top) which means I enjoy telling sub (bottom) women what to do. I really don't like the whole dungeon scene - frankly I find that about as erotic as a visit to Madame Tussauds. I'm also not overly enamoured with pain on it's own - simply whipping away at someone lacks creativity and again doesn't do much. There's a difference between being dom and being a sadist (just as being sub and being a masochist are very different). However pain mixed into an imaginative sexual scene is a different and highly erotic experience.
What I do enjoy is finding women who want to be used as sluts. I was once told by a woman that she was quite shocked but very excited by the way I treat women; which I took as a compliment. My idea of foreplay is to call a woman a filthy slut, spank her, throw her on the bed, grab her by her the hair and hold her down; prior to fucking her hard.
I love taking control and using a slut for my pleasure. I also like sharing a slut with other men, ideally while she's blindfolded so she doesn't know who's using her.
I've illustrated this section with some boxcovers from Rocco Siffredi's Animal Trainer series. If you liked what I've described then you'll love Animal Trainer. The earlier films are much better than the later episodes.
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